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This is a scary story... Check it, I just met this fly dime piece (a beautiful girl) and everything is going just fine until yesterday (its was our first date at my place). She was in my "listening room" (where all my cds, system, comp etc is) looking around while I was cooking some food in the kitchen. When I was ready with the food I shouted at the girl that its time for some food. No answer, so I walked to my "listening room" where I found Sonya in what looked like a state of chock... So I asked her "whas up, whats happening?" she answered me "u scaring me, is this your music" sitting with my headphones on? I answered "what do u mean"? Then I walked to the cd changer to see what she was pumping, to my surprise it had 2 cds in it Dolls, Dolls, Dolls and Confield (I been listening to these all the day so I should know ;)). I answered: yeah this is my cds so what!? She was bugging like "u are a really, really scary type, please tell me u not listening to this pyscho/schizo music, please tell me u joking, u scare me!, this noise is the worst psycho shit I ever heard". Then the mood started to get really downspiral after that, I was kinda upset that she thought that I was kind of a psycho when she aint even knowing me like that, I mean this was the third time we met eachother. Then she got mad, shouted psycho and then walked out from my apartment... :( Hide your most experimental stuff at the first date, then slowly introduce her to what u like, because this stuff is pretty extreme if u ask "Mr average Joe" Help me, what should I do, I really like this girl, shes really fly and if we cant be a couple or something atleast I wanna..u know? |
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haha, i look forward to the reast of this thread :) |
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Tell her to give you head while listening to a VSnares track and then seh will like it... Really, I get the same thing a lot. It's just one of those things you have to get used to. Women think your insane based on your music taste becuase you don't like eminem or some other shit. |
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Fine girls often can lack the kind of intelligence to appreciate good music. Especially the anti-trendy AE. I love people's baffled expressions to my music! |
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Man, fuck that bint she's obviously retarded if she walked out cause you were listening to some music she didn't understand. Christ, if you were watching snuff movies or kiddy porn then fair enough! |
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My advice, shes a moron so lie and say it was your friend's. Only intelligent chicks deserve the truth, I doubt they'd mind in the first place though. |
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I ment one chick who loves afx. She was talking about having sex to CTD. I never saw her again... |
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My avatar is cooler than yours. |
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Oh i forgot to add not just fine girls but alot of people can not dig music like that for some reason. I feel like my last post made me appear to put myself above others which was not the case! I am bad at explaining my thoughts sometimes Maybe if only AE was on TRL (just fucking kidding) |
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well she is a little histrionic isnt she? I wouldnt mind that anyway |
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*cries* |
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no dolleater, my avatar obviously is way way more super cool! *searches franticly for a good avatar |
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lol, good story archie! keep knockin' 'em dead out there!! seriously though i been tellin' you guys for months, do NOOOOOOOOT introduce girls you're pursuing to IDM!! especially if it's not easy listening. i'm not sayin' it's right to be judged based on your music, but in the formative stages you have to play the role, and you're only hurting your chance if they think you listen to some "schizo" music (let them find out later). |
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Do you know how fucking scary this thing looks on television? |
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i think the girl is a bit histeric. try to make a cd with some soft idm like early Ae AFX and stuff and give it to her .there's a lot of lovely idm. |
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it depends on what the girl listens to. if archie says she listens to hip-hop and r&b, and mainstream stuff at that, why bother? if she listens to other stuff that isn't just popular than it's worth a shot. but as someone said in a similar discussion months ago, the object of your desire does not have to share your musical tastes. but respecting them is nice. |
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haha! shit... well If she thinks youre psyko becouse of that...hmm... I can understand people who arent into and never heard os stuff like autechre and such... Music to "ordinary" people or should I say in general is a nice melody and some sinning. no noice!!!! My girlfriend likes a lot of tracks with aphex fro example. but when it comes to the more extreme noise/crackle/drum parts she just donät wanna here no more. I've discussed this with her several times and she understands why I and other people can like it. I thought everything In the dance/idm genre or whatever more names, were crap in my ears a few years ago. I was strictly into hevay metal and shit. |
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what sort of Heavy Metal? |
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Branding your music psycho is understandable, branding it shit then... I wouldn't even bother with crossing her company with music, but if her narrow-mindedness were to continue I'd have to do something about it. Try the Li'l Bastard Brainwashing Kit. |
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She reminds me of Mena Suvari's character in American Beauty. Maybe she's really vulnerable underneath :P |
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two questions: how old is this girl how/where did u meet her and an unannounced third.. did she really scream 'pscyho' and run away? that seems abit dramatic a response to a fucking cd.. was there any hint of humor in any of her apparent aversion to these cds? |
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what heavy metal? You know, mostly iron maiden ( still cool ) metallica, Anthrax...80's thrash and stuff like that. |
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on point as always ;) Yeah I dont think u should put all the cards on the table directly. Ofcourse you have to be honest and always speak the truth in a relationship or friends etc but take it easy when u introduce your bizarre taste of hardcore experimental stuff, it can seriously make nice, shy harmless girls get deeply scared of u. we talked about music before and I told her that I mostly like music that is not played on radio...shes into rnb and some hip hop. Raimons:Its a little my fault tho (should have removed the VS and AE cds n put in some good old 70s soul) I got a little too upset because she looked so stupid (like what a fuck is this, like she just saw a ghost or something walking inside the room), and I was tired and mentally stressed after a hard days work plus I cooked the dam food and then shes whining about my "shizo/psycho music" , she should know that the world aint all about soft Jennifer Lopez lullabyes. I hope shes calling me soon tellin me that its all good and it was all her fault and it got really out of hand......or maybe I should call and tell that its my friends crazy cds....dunno. |
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I personally think her reaction was a little "over the top"...I mean cmon, it sounds like she flipped out cause she found a severed head or something...Its only music and something this byrd will NEVER know ANYTHING about. I mean I LOVE Ae...but pretty much hate VS...either way, if some girl was at my house and I was cooking for her, and all of a sudden she starts flippin on me about MY music... Ha she better take her ass to Burger King... Tell her to kick rocks man, sounds like this woman is trouble from the start. =) |
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i gave this girl i like a tape almost full of idm, but not brain blistering shit. i put venetian snares-dance like you're selling nails an shit on it, give me a minute to find the thread... |
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how old is this girl? Shes 25. how/where did u meet her? We met at a club. NO! NOT at all, there was not a little hint of humour (then it wouldnt been any problem or discussion!!!) She didnt scream psycho directly, we had this huge argument, then it got out of hand, then she went home screaming pyscho! DAM!! I got a lot of soft CDs too, u know all these hip hop, soul, jazz, classical cds DAM if only one of them was in my changer...DAM!!! WHY! Dam u AE n VS ;) Im just warning yall, u can learn from others mistakes, before u invite a girl to your house please hide all your "STRANGE" cds, it can help. |
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I mean I was not in shape nah mean, I was really tired, I think I should call her, havent got any punani for a long, long while ;) But I bet this girl wont bother talking to me again after she heard my stuff, I mean come on, this girl is baby fed with TRL n commercial radio!!! She really thinks im a schizo, I saw that in her eyes, she looked offended, scared, dizzy etc |
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I wouldn't even bother. And as for hiding my CD's, think I'ma change up my style just to fit in?? |
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MASTER MASTER THE MASTER OF PUPPETS IS PULLING THE STRINGS! |
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Sorry padre |
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Why sorry? |
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You should have said, "Yeah, this is the music I listen to and I'm sure it rapes the ass of whatever bullshit you like. So come on, lets go eat" Then I would have forgot about the whole thing.. |
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Here's my experience--it's no big deal what your girlfriend likes. With Archrival there, I feel bad. because it's not like there should be a fight about what you listen to; you're an adult capable of making your own decisions. I wouldn't judge anyone based on their musical tastes (entirely) because that's lame. For instance, Lindsey likes stuff I don't, and I like stuff she doesn't. There's no pressure for either of us to like it. I can listen to stuff open mindedly, but it just doesn't catch on a lot of the time. She gets me into plenty of stuff, though! I wasn't a big fan of bjork until I knew Lindsey, or post-BFP Tori! :D But one of the great things about relationships with incongruent musical tastes is that you get to expand your territory a bit. You hear a wider range of things than you otherwise would. And if you've already heard the stuff, it's different hearing it together. I think everyone can agree on that. ;D |
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oh no, that's just too sad.... T_T maybe she has some really bad memories about/involving this music, maybe a person she hates listens to this to and she's too sensitive... that would explain... otherwise i don't know!! but that's just too sad =( do you think there is hope for reconciliation? |
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That's a good idea--why don't you call her, apologize, and cook another dinner and play only stuff that's a bit easier going. |
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A girl's musical preferences are of no consequence to me. Unless she doesn't like the Beatles. Then she can just go die. |
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force her to watch gantz graf while slowly poking her eyes out |
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I second that. |
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*nods* thats a rather strange reaction to music =/ i mean who cares what you listen to, in the end it's what you you get and give in a relationship, and mutual respect for the other persons likes and dislikes. if you don't have RESPECT, no relationship will last. i say let her make the next move, unless you feel it was your fault that she left. perhaps you should introduce her to some of the BEAUTIFUL (i know i'm setting myself up for a thrashing) piano tracks on Drukqs......or some Church Music *hint hint* either way, it's too bad people can't be more OPEN minded. |
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it sounds like there's more to this story than just musical taste |
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This gal sounds a bit mad. |
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Well I met my girlfriend for the first time at Reading. I drove her up there as she's my friends best friend. She doesn't like AFX, Snares etc but it doesn't bother her that I listen to it. Although she does like that Fantasia/Industro Garage Beats :D Before I even asked her out I played her some of my music. She's cool with it. Obviously this girl you took back to your apartment is just blinkered to the fact that not all music is lovey dovey happy shit that adheres to a "standard". If she can't accept that someone's different then fuck her mate. She can just leave. Music is a major part of your personality, clearly she was just interested in your looks or whatever and not you as a person. If that's the case, and that's wat it seems, then she's worthless mate. Best off without. |
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Force her to listen to Sybian Rock and then play bits of all the children are dead. That would scare the shit out of her. Or play 'Come to Daddy' down the phone |
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better you gave her some beautiful aphex tracks like girl boy song and what at this time, she's a superficially and cliché people IMO. |
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doesnt matter how good looking that girl is - she sounds like she completely sucks at life - fuck her my ex was that way...get it my EX...and also i found another girl shortly thereafter who said right off her fav band was autechre - girls are like buses - they run on fumes and are fuct up |
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i only do girls that is into the same music taste as i am, that's why im single atm §:-} |
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what a retard |
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i like looking at cuntychuck avatar and just saying the word "retard" holy shit i cant stop laughing...harharhar |
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wheee! |
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