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abortion: pro or against?
 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2002-10-21 06:03 [#00411173]
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..um..the choice for, I mean..

I thought as we seem to be getting some big subjects solved
here, lets plow on!

I'm pro.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:07 [#00411176]
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Against.


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:08 [#00411177]
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controversial post season or what!

what about euthanasia? :)

its a pretty messy subject, but if it's down to pro/anti -
call me pro


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-10-21 06:09 [#00411178]
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pro u monsters
lol


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:10 [#00411181]
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Pro Euthanasia tho.


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:10 [#00411182]
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I'm pro; all women should have an abortion.

Seriously though, I am pro-choice. All women have the right
to exercise what happens to their own bodies. Its their
human right.


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-10-21 06:11 [#00411183]
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sure jonesy


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2002-10-21 06:12 [#00411185]
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yeah.. I've made a list.. still have 'religion' to do..um..


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:12 [#00411186]
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Should mothers have the right to kill their kids
after they're born?

Mum: Tidy your room
Kid: No
Mum: Well then...
(shoots kid)

:)


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:13 [#00411187]
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well ... there are tricky situations when the mothers life
is at stake (more correctly, both the mother and the
child) - bit of a lose lose situation.

then there is good ol rape ... seems pretty unfair towards
the mother and her freedom etc. to be obliged/forced to
bring the child into existence because of rape or such ..
(of course - it'd have to be case specific and such)

i does seem a little perverse to suggest one does not need
to go on the pill or slip on a rubber - (even these aren't
100% proof), as you can "just get an abortion" - its pretty
hard on the mother (esp.) emotional wise etc .. the guilt
and stuff ...


 

offline giginger from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2002-10-21 06:13 [#00411188]
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Difficult one to say really. In the case of it being the
child of a rape then yes I'm pro and for obvious reasons.
But if it's some slapper who just sleeps around getting cock
left right and centre then no. There's enough ways to stop
unwanted pregnancies now so there really is no reason. Too
many different situations to write down but you get what I
mean.


 

offline giginger from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2002-10-21 06:14 [#00411191]
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damn I was too slow.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:15 [#00411192]
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Has anyone read Filth by Irine Walsh?


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:16 [#00411194]
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Irvine Welsh, sorry


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:16 [#00411195]
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Well, that is not abortion but murder.

BTW why pro-euthanasia but now pro-abortion? Because
euthanasia is chosen by those killed?


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:16 [#00411196]
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Yeah, why?


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:17 [#00411197]
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giginger .. same time :)

no haven't read filth .. any good /// abortions/rape/suicide


ohhh.. you know (not the case anymore) but suicide used to
be illegal - and the sentence was death penalty! i guess
it'd be sick to say that was funny ...


 

offline Laserbeak from Netherlands, The on 2002-10-21 06:19 [#00411200]
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I'm not happy about abortion especially when the baby is
more or less complete. You can't just fuck around and then
have the baby killed out of convenience.

It's acceptable when
- something is wrong with the baby
- when the mother is raped
- when the mother is totally incapable of raising it

I'm also pro euthanasia, when the quality of life is so low
and there is very little hope of the situation improving
then I think it's right to put an end to the suffering


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:19 [#00411201]
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ceri - by that line of argument you are (and i am) killing
kids in africa, coz i'm spending money to pay for internet
services .. i buy cd's, i buy cans of coke, instead of
sending it to some place where aid and money is needed?


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:22 [#00411203]
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"It's acceptable when
- something is wrong with the baby
- when the mother is raped
- when the mother is totally incapable of raising it"

^ that's quite a tricky one - you get into the slippery
slope tehre - what is "something wrong" ??? the more
technology we have, the more things you can find "wrong" ..
is downs syndrome "wrong"?

oh, and i'm pro euthanasia as well .. medicine ought to be
about minimising suffering, and sometimes death is the most
humane solution



 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:24 [#00411205]
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To say that there are loads of women 'fucking about' and
then just thinking "Oh yeah, I'll just get an abortion" and
being really blase isn't really a true picture.


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:26 [#00411207]
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... ceri - what about the morning after pill?


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:29 [#00411210]
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Nah, there's a difference between choosing not to save and
activley destroying it's like, do you stop and help at a
crash? If you don't it's not as bad as running people over
intentionally...

re: Filth, just a humourous point as the main character is a
child of rape and kills himself at the end of the book.

Korben: Suicide hasn't been illegal for ages in Germany and
the Uk. It's now seen as a tragedy rather than a crime. I
don't see why society gets so wound up about it, it's a very
altruistic thing to do (apart to family and friends) for
society...



 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:30 [#00411212]
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I reckon that's just a form of abortion. I think it's skank
fathers have no say in whether or not an abbortion goes
ahead...


 

offline Laserbeak from Netherlands, The on 2002-10-21 06:31 [#00411214]
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If personally seen women who did it that way, it didn't make
me very happy. What I wanted to say is that it depends on
the circumstances wether I'm for it or against it. I didn't
say that most women do it this way.


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:32 [#00411215]
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Dude, I'm reading it at the moment and am 10 pages from the
end!!!


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:36 [#00411218]
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Sorry man, I thought you said you'd read it? Damn, I
feel a shit now... I hate it when people do that. Surely you
saw it coming though?

Re: Morning after pill. I know people who have done it a
couple of times and jsut see it as another for of
contraception.. even if they limited the number of times it
was issued a year to 2 they'd get round it by getting a mate
to get it for them (most girls seem to get their friends to
get them for them anyway).


 

offline Laserbeak from Netherlands, The on 2002-10-21 06:37 [#00411220]
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"you get into the slippery slope tehre - what is "something
wrong" ??? the more technology we have, the more things you
can find "wrong" .. is downs syndrome "wrong"?"

It depends on the parents. If they want to lovingly raise a
child with down-syndrome or not. But I agree that this is a
grey area.


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:38 [#00411222]
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I was just kidding; I did finish it. classic book.

Well if you argue that the morning after pill is the same as
an abortion then what about condoms? Or the regular pill?


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:38 [#00411223]
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But if you choose not to hav ethe kid on reasons like that,
surel it's moving towards eugenics? What if you discover
it's a girl and decide to have an abbortion as you wanted a
boy...


 

offline jonesy from Lisboa (Portugal) on 2002-10-21 06:40 [#00411226]
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I can't belive you anti people. In a world where George W.
Bush is President of the US you are AGAINST abortion????


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:40 [#00411227]
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Morning after pill works within a couple of days, so I
suppose whilst conception has occured it hasn't neccesarily
settled in the womb. Tricky point. I know someone who used
to just take shitload sof paracetamol & binge drink when she
got pregnant, self administer abortion like. Nic eh?

You wind up merchant :P


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:42 [#00411228]
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Nah, there's a difference between choosing not to save and
activley destroying it's like, do you stop and help at a
crash? If you don't it's not as bad as running people over
intentionally...

well .. i don't know .. i mean certainly buying something is
a lot more removed than going to the doctor and "ordering"
an abortion ... but i think in principle its the same.

you have a choice to spend your money one way or
another .. of course one can claim ignorance (but i'll
ignore that for now :), but just because such a place is
more removed .. ie. not in ones body - doesn't mean one's
actions don't affect people across the globe ... Of course,
its all very contingent, and its a bit tricky to say that
you buying a turntable killed this particular person (which
is more what you're inferring happens in the abortion case).


But then can not the mother say, "well, i'm forced into
abortion, but its not "me" who's killing the child", .. rape
- could be the "cause" of the childs death, or a whole host
of contingent social issues .. ie. what i'm trying to get at
is .. in abortion, the mother is held hostage, because the
foetus is in her womb, and it is "her" decision, but i think
in some cases, placing this responsibility solely on the
mother is a bit unfair?

re: Filth, just a humourous point as the main character is a
child of rape and kills himself at the end of the book.

Korben: Suicide hasn't been illegal for ages in Germany and
the Uk. It's now seen as a tragedy rather than a crime. I
don't see why society gets so wound up about it, it's a very
altruistic thing to do (apart to family and friends) for
society.

yeah i know .. but i thought it was quite a thoughtful um..
law or something. Tricky one .. really sort of questions
identity etc. Is it better to prescribe pills to someone who
will walk around, happy etc.. (of course can't always be
guaranteed)??


 

offline Laserbeak from Netherlands, The on 2002-10-21 06:45 [#00411230]
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"What if you discover it's a girl and decide to have an
abbortion as you wanted a boy..."

with "wrong" I mean serious malfunction.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:45 [#00411231]
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He he he.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:46 [#00411232]
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But what if you have a supremacist couple who see having a
baby with dark hair as wrong? As technology improves this
will become a real issue...


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:48 [#00411235]
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damn, shagged that last post a bit ...

re: the suicide thing .. is the person on anti-depressants
still the same person?

and jonesy, yeah .. people do say that "condoms" kill.
catholics (some - don't want to generalise), are
anti-contraception, hence monty pythons "e-ve-ry sperm is
saaaa-cred, e-ve-ry sperm is ..."


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:50 [#00411237]
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Re: Catholics- he knows, he used to be one!

Korben: My dad is on anti-depressents. Seems pretty damn
lucid to me. Same person as before, less prone to mood
swings & snapping. Better IMO.


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:51 [#00411238]
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"... if a sperm is wa-sted, god gets quite irate .." :)


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:51 [#00411239]
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Did everyone like the chick tract URL I posted?
I love the way they generalise & vastly over-simplify
everything :)


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:55 [#00411247]
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who me? naw .. i never indulged in that practice
(catholicism).

Yeah .. the drug thing is a tricky one .. i mean, again, its
all grey. I mean, girls tend to eat chocolate in egging
season .. etc etc ...

but i tend to see a bit of a greyness between being "you"
and a zombie [of course i've got stuff like lithium,
clozapine and that sort of anti-psychotic stuff in mind] ...
mmm.


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 06:57 [#00411251]
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aye .. took too long to load .. only caught a cupla pics :)


*clicks He he he. again*


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 06:58 [#00411253]
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Jonesy used to be a Catholic.

Yeah, I know what you mean, the anti-schizophrenia drugs
really can change people... As an aside note my mate reckons
that all mental illness is self induced, how mad is that?


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 07:00 [#00411255]
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Maybe you could just order a load of tracts instead- it'd be
quicker ;)


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 07:04 [#00411258]
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well... defining what is "normal" is pretty tricky .. and it
seems that all the stuff exists on continuums rather than
discrete categories (a la DSM-IV).

ie. reading reverie, you get people that get really involved
in a book, and will have "dissociated" from the rest of the
world .. lies on a continuum with dissociative identity
disorder (multiple personality disorder) .. again that's the
extreme, but to dissociate on a very basic level is normal.
if you are having a conversation with someone, in a public
place you have to dissociate all the background noise - if
you're eavesdropping, you dissociate all the other
conversations etc. .. i mean its very interesting stuff.

re: the self induced stuff .. mmm,, i don't know, at the
moment i'm more inclined to contingent models of self, and
so to say its self induced is a little meaningless .. dunno
bout that.

one of the big correlations they've found though with stuff
like schizophrenia and especially DID, is severe sadistic
child abuse seems to be a factor. I mean in the case of DID
this seems to make sense, its a protective mechanism .. you
create other personalities (crudely speaking) who did not
experience those horrible events.

^ and again, you act differently depending on your
surroundings .. blah blah .. i should really head off ..


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 07:05 [#00411260]
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yeah .. i know this about jonesy's past :)


 

offline flea from depths of your mind (New Zealand) on 2002-10-21 07:07 [#00411261]
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pro

but yeah..is this like the season to out all laundry dirty
or other wise?


 

offline flea from depths of your mind (New Zealand) on 2002-10-21 07:09 [#00411262]
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PRO CHOICE..that is

pro abortion still has a sting in it's tail that bothers
me..


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-21 07:09 [#00411263]
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I think people sometimes choose to indulge their mental
illness whilst those with a stronger will can resist it...


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2002-10-21 07:11 [#00411265]
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anyway .. i'm going to shoot off now.

re: self induced - i guess you could say it in a certain
sense, but it seems to me, if it was, that it would be in
reaction to something.

paranoia .. how far does one take it? maybe the CIA
is after me? ... OCD .. it's all pretty interesting
stuff.


 


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