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that's a really nice description. I'm gonna have to write that down somewhere. |
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lol, well i heard it in a film, can't remember which one, but i think it kind of sums it up really, about as much as a person could ever describe it as anyways |
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I completely agree with you and TonyFish. And thats a beautiful quote! |
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thank you :) but i can't take credit for it, like i said, it's from a film i think it might have been Bicentennial Man it just, well, it kind of saddens me when I hear teens talking about sex like it's some kind of recreational activity I have VERY strong views on things like this, and I guess I'm just old fashioned that way, but I really don't approve of things like one night stands, and I can NOT stand unfaithfulness and I totally believe that intimacy should be with someone you truely love and care about, not just someone you meet in a bar, or whatever |
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i need so much love to have sex its almost paranormal |
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lol, it's not paranormal |
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i just wanted sex with my friends girlfriend i guess id know why i didnt have, but i cant see i need some nice girl without evil plans running in her mind they all live in the same mansion or what? |
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sorry to say this, but man that's messed up |
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i see this topic has evolved in the right side ! i'm so glad about it |
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well, who can really say what is the right side? who am i to tell everyone that you SHALL not have sex unless it's with someone you love that would make me a facist but my personal beliefs reflect that people have feelings, and can get hurt very easily and everything and i believe in the things i have been saying it would be nice if everybody thought that way too, but alas that is not true |
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you misunderstood me. i didn't mean that it evolved in the right way cause you're giving you statement about that we should have sex older or younger. i like your statement to sex, this whole thing about love and everything. i rather thought that here would be simple answers without any things you could think about. |
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13 but I wish I hadn't. I didn't have sex again till I was 18 and it was with someone I loved. |
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oh i think i get what you meant now :) sorry, i'm kinda tired (not been sleeping well) |
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when I was old enough |
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14 |
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still to come.... i just dont find any pleasure in makeing sex with some one that i dont even love...but petting is nice anyway ^_^ |
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I dont think even *petting* would be nice with someone I dont love. |
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i think it's just me, but i don't think even a kiss would be nice if it wasn't with someone you loved and who loved you back |
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loves a thing that takes a Long time, ill say again. years, i believe however, i dont think theres anything wrong with having fun i was 19 dont you think that love is such an intangible thing? it can get you into such a big mess, if you throw the word around in a moment where you feel teenaged again. nowadays, ill never use the word unless im certain what i feel is real. |
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describe the years after you had sex for the first time like this: 14: had sex one time (in a bush) 15: dreamed of it 16: dreamed of it 17: had sex one time and got a blowjob with another 18: Had sex with several imature girls 19: Didnt have much sex at all 20: Was shagging a girl every weekend in 2 months + 21: found my girlfriend |
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i disagree with you that love takes years it depends on the people i agree with you that it can get you in a mess if you use the word willy nilly though |
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Wow I'm surprised. Most people I know don't share these views. One thing I'm totally against is this 'wait 6 months' bullshit. I say you wait until both of you are good and ready (which may vary between a few weeks and a few months or even years). It's entirely up to you as a couple. I hate this thing where people kind of start a fucking countdown! It's so .. artificial or something.. grr |
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i totally agree with you Tony Fish it all depends on the people, how they feel isn't that all that matters anyways? how you both feel? using a "countdown" it's like you're living your lives by society because society "says" you shouldn't say the L word before a certain time frame it's fake |
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twenty something I was too much into computers to be into girls *grin* |
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I've said it when I didn't feel it before. But that was because at the time I truely thought I did. Looking back I'd say I was half-wrong. I'd never use it to get my way though. That's blasphemy! My gf started using it way before I did, and I was worried that she might force me to say it in response. 2 months and one holiday without her later I fell in love and since then weeeeeee! |
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I love you xltronic guys you know that ??!!! |
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I used to be so open about this I'd sleep in the same bed with anyone but it wouldn't necessarily end up in sexual interaction. I used to value closeness with friends but now I stay clear of anything like that as I simply can't trust people intentions with me anymore. Petting was good but not really for me anymore. |
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it doesn't count as a "false proclaimation of love" if at the time you honestly believed you were in love, but then later realised taht you weren't not in my opinion anyways it is blasphemy if you use it to get what you want and manipulate people i can understand why maybe you were reluctant to say it at first, but at least you've realised now :) |
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17: fucked many times.. girlfriend, cheated twice .. nothing interesting hooked up a few times after breakup 18: many, many blowjobs.. like... TWO or something.. no, a good amount from different girls.. 2 in one weekend.. end of summer I get CLAPPED in an unprotected one night stand, almost put subsequent hookups in danger.. 19: relative drought.. a few hookups here&there, no real oral/vaginal sex 20: I only recently turned 20, so thus far.. all there has been is the light hookups/kissing that results from new years eve bacchanalia sm pennyworth.. ur turn.. give us a detailed desciption of your recent sexcapades with .."nannou" |
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"I love you" is what crashes my relationships. I think I got distant after hearing it from my girl, and when I say it, I felt allmost guilty. How can I love someone else If I hardly love myself? (which is improving a lot by the way, I'm happy with myself and I think it will take a year, maybe two that I can think about relations again.) If its obligate (is that the word for something you MUST do?) it really takes the fun out of it for me. I have a certain feeling inside me that I might end up alone. And that is something I have from early age, like 8 years or something. It bothers me sometimes. |
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errrrrrrrrrrr no? |
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i can understand what you're saying in a way you're right, it couldn't ever feel right if you were obligated to say "i love you" but about the "cant see how to love someone if i can't love myself" thing, i absolutly hated myself a few years back due to bullying inside and outside of school but when i met my girlfriend, she showed me that someone can actually love me, and find me attractive (yeah right, look at my pic!) i still get a bit insecure (that's a lie, i get A LOT insecure) but that's what they're there for (your partner i mean) to comfort you, and reassure you |
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I was 4 when I had sexual intercourse with my mother. My auntie filmed it all, and we watch it every Christmas. Even back then, my technique was flawless, and I could make my mother orgasm multiple times with my cute little fingers. |
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At least I left the time behind me feeling like being an alien ;). I now feel quite unique, and I know that I am an individual. Following mass musical or fashion trends is something I dont understand. I listen to death metal, hiphop, idm and whatever I get my hands on. (I also like some bigband music.) Anyways. I'm a man with a mission. And nothing will stop me from reaching that (except for death, but this I planned for when I'm old and grumpy ;) ). |
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Ha, ha. You sick puppy. |
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well, that's a great attitude to have :) |
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18th birthday - on the dot |
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lol, what even down to the minute? |
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I know I can be loved, but can I return it? If there is one thing that I hate, its when you get blackmailed in a relationship, I mean, emotional abuse and stuff. Someone trying to manipulate you when they dont get things their way (and I'm easy going when it comes to deciding together about something, but DONT mess with my head.) I had a girl doing that, and I just return shit like that the same way. And then I know its time to break up :( |
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..what about 'nanou2' .. you gettin any of that? |
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nanou2 is a nice trk, it had a piano in it. |
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emotional blackmail is another one of those things i dislike it is VERY wrong you are right in saying that if things like that are happening then it is time to break up, because that's not right if there's something happening in a relationship that is making either party unhappy, then the unhappy party(ies) need to reassess their feelings, and what they want out of a relationship if things aren't working out, then it's not fair to carry it on that's my opinion anyways |
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i don't know why, but i think that oral shouldn't be before vaginal sex... that's my opinion. oral sex is more... advanced ? i don't know, but it is far more unusual. next thing: i hate it too, when someone's talking at about 16 years he's lovin someone... that's wicked. how can you love someone if you aren't even grown up emotional. and, 16 years is the time you most hate yourself... |
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it depends on the person and how quickly they mature mentally it is a very rare case if someone is actually 100% in love, the real thing, before they're about 18 or something but like i said it all depends on the person and how they have matured mentally |
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I never hated myself at any age. I never suffered from any teen angst or frustration. And i actually did know what love was when i was 16. But then again people have always told me that i grew up fast emotionally. |
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..not the BEST closer for a double album, but yea.. a nice trk nonetheless |
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Oral sex is a matter of taste. |
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lol :) |
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..I could go for an easy joke right here, but I'm better than that |
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Aw, go on dude. |
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