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my wife (belle) just rang me to say that our papers are in the mail. quite depressing really. even though i have known for some time that we arent getting back together, well, this makes it all official. so now, the journey really begins. its just wierd, two people so close, and we are still very close. but for lots of reasons just cant be together. anyway, i know its sad, but im gonna spend the day getting drunk. |
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damn. tough break friend. |
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Every ending is new beginning. So long as you remain friends the paper means nothing. |
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divorce is something my family practice regularly |
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Wish you the best luck in with moving on with your life. New times are ahead, may be good may be bad, but you should make the best out of them, whatever is the case. move out, and move on. |
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yeah, its not really gonna be that different i suppose. we havent been living together for over 12 mnths. its just all official now. |
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this will give you closure. |
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God i'm so sorry. i can't imagine what that would feel like. you dont have any children do you? |
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*raises glass of vodka to hepburnethorpe* |
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*raises beer* |
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we have a girl. Maiya. the most beutiful thing you will ever see is your own child. |
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So sorry to hear that mate :( The only positive way to look at this is as qrter says, see the divorce coming through as closure. I know it's a cliche, but time does heal. |
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at least you've got the child out of it....who's getting custody? |
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sorry that sounded a bit rubbish, but I think you know what I mean |
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b3n the spanish inquisition...... |
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best wishes to you |
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heh it was kind of funny. |
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B7 her. |
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the ex, not the daughter that is. |
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I hope it works out for you my friend. I am very optimistic about 2004. I think you will be happy. |
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belle has custody, and they are both currently living in london, though they'll be back in march. im not all upset or anything, dont get the wrong idea. i have moved on. i have a nice girlfriend i hang with. but yeah, i guess i have been holding back, kinda still thinking about belle. anyway, its great to share this stuff. especially with people i dont know. all my friends are belles friends aswell so its kinda hard to be open about it. i guess its times like these where things really just hit home. were NEVER gonna be as we where. we will however, always remain friends. and i can actually say that with confidence. we are still mates, and Maiya needs us both. |
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I hope it works out for you my friend. I am very optimistic about 2004. I think you will be happy. |
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I hope it works out for you my friend. I am very optimistic about 2004. I think you will all be happy. |
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I hope it works out for you my friend. I am very optimistic about 2004. I think you will all be happy. |
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Synchronised horses! |
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I guess it happened to you to... |
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not exactly, but I can certainly relate. |
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what I mean is this: sorry, that's what I was refering to. |
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it's a genuine shame to rread that. i hate it when 'studs' go on forr a week about theirr broken hearrt when you know it's utterr bullshit because they'll have found someone else to fill that gap in no time, and will totally forrget theirr ex-gf. but frrom otherr posts that you've made, you rreally loved herr (well she was yourr fucking wife rright?), but you sound like you still do. sad. |
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..and with one door closing another door will open. Thats usually the way of things |
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hepburnenthorpe: you must live for your child now. i think the hardest thing growing up for me was trying to understand why my mom and dad left each other. i always felt as if it was my fault. and then when i got older, the resentment kicked in. its unbelievable mentally. i'm 23 now, and it stills fucks me up sometimes, casue i think about how thngs COULD have been. your little princess is a gift from god. treat it that way. |
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with the frront doorr closing, just prreparre forr the bad fucking weatherr. |
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Sad news, hep! I'm sure it's quite hard, but it's a process and eventually you'll realize that you've learnt a lot, both from the relationship itself and the actual breakup. Let's hope it's for the better! |
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Im sorry man... so she has custody... but how often do you get to see her? Visitation rights? |
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i shit you not. i am drunk! just as i said i would be. been thinkin about this whole thing, and you know what. its cool. nothing really has changed. its all just bullshit. we still love each other, just not like we thought. or not like we did. anyhow, we still get allong. better than allong really. were really good friends. we have a beautiful daughter. and life is good. cheers. |
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yeah my missus is seeing some other geeza so i can empaphise. |
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Sorry to hear that. I can only imagine how strange it is, literally, I ain't never gettin' hitched *knock on wood. At least it was a pretty amicable split, no hired hitmen or anything. Great news for your kid. |
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that's awful news. sorry to hear that. i am recently married, but i cannot imagine the pain something like a divorce must cause. it's good to hear you have such a positive outlook on life. i'll drink a couple brews tonight in your honor. |
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I can't come up with anything that's not a cliché so all I can say is that I'm really sorry to hear it, especially given that you have a child. Best wishes. |
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kill her |
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typical youd say that |
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"divorce is something my family practice regularly" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! |
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Good luck getting through this, however you choose to do so. |
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well you can look at it this way (and it seems you are) you have a super close friend, who probably knows you better then anyone, whom you share an unbreakable bone with (your daughter)... and you have a chance to find another person to fall in love with... sounds like you're taking it really well... all the best man! |
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damn, unbreakable BOND with... sorry to be disrespectful with the bone... I didn't mean it! :) |
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your exwife will now proceed to eat your child. |
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ooh I thought you went all surreal on us. |
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