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           belb
             from mmmmmmhhhhzzzz!!! on 2024-01-07 11:12 [#02631816]
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 plz come back :(
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 11:24 [#02631817]
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not if i was alone in feeling very creeped out and unsafe  sorry  
 
  
         
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           RussellDust
             on 2024-01-07 11:55 [#02631821]
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What’s happening? Are you alright, Juliette?
 
  
         
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           belb
             from mmmmmmhhhhzzzz!!! on 2024-01-07 11:56 [#02631822]
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i thought it was more of an eyeroll situation than a  leave-the-server one but it's yr choice i guess, i'm bad at  empathy. you will be missed a lot 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 12:18 [#02631823]
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fleet put me on a 24h timeout because i was behaving badly  by being creeped out by his assertion that it's no big deal  to prevent a woman from leaving your flat 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 12:20 [#02631824]
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fleetmouse made me cry because he's a bad person who needs  help but i'm good now!  
 
  
         
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           ijonspeches
             from 109P/Swift-Tuttle on 2024-01-07 12:32 [#02631825]
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it is a big deal, my ex once did that. she was having a lot of control with her outbursts, over really everyday things. she slapped me right there. i left some minutes later. it was creepy and was one of the major tipping points  in our ending relationship.  
 
 
  
         
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           big
             from lsg on 2024-01-07 12:34 [#02631826]
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can't you talk it out a little. both your feelings are  probably valid 
 
  
         
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           ijonspeches
             from 109P/Swift-Tuttle on 2024-01-07 12:35 [#02631827]
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do what you feel like, but dont let things like that get to  you. im sure fleet didnt mean no harm. its just different  point of views due to different experience. and hypothetical  or told situations can vary a great deal in a persons mind  10.000 miles away. 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 12:42 [#02631828]
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his feelings were that i'm being a "cop" because i'm an  "anarchist", he needs help but not from me 
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-07 20:22 [#02631831]
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of course it's creepy if a man is not letting a woman out of  their flat. you think the whole server thinks it's not? i  don't believe fleet truly thinks it's no big deal either. i  know he made it sound like it though 
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-07 20:45 [#02631832]
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"hypothetical or told situations can vary a great deal in a  persons mind
  10.000 miles away." i agree with this 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 21:01 [#02631833]
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you're alright and most people on there are alright, but i'm  not frequenting a server where i'm going to get slapped down  for being uncomfortable with the way the admin is minimising  this sort of behaviour, sorry. it's scary. 
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-07 21:08 [#02631834]
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You got slapped down (for 24 hours) for calling me a retard  once too often. The constant insults and even in some  instances being told to kill myself when we interact, that  gets tired.
 
  My point was that the person in question ought not to be fed  into the prison industrial complex for what sounded to me  like a minor domestic squabble. If you want to interpret  that as me thinking all rape and abuse is fine, well, that's  just wrong, that is not what I think. 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 21:10 [#02631835]
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why are you talking to me
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-07 22:14 [#02631836]
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first xltronic drama of 2024 a good start if you ask me
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 23:02 [#02631837]
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if fleet was capable of good faith he'd recall i'm a vocal  prison abolitionist. it's got nothing to do with anything  and the only reason he'd say this shit to me is to shut me  up and try to make me feel bad for my discomfort. guilting  women, calling them cops for not being cool with male  violence is an incredibly common tactic and i've seen it so  many times. it's evil. i'm done with it. 
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-07 23:09 [#02631838]
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we could discuss that like reasonable people if you didn't  behave like this all the time 
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-07 23:09 [#02631839]
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i'd like all of you to run a poll and ask any woman who can  stomach being around you: a man preventing you from leaving  his place, physically standing between you and the exit and  pushing you around, is it on about the same level of threat  as being scooted over a bit at the kitchen counter? please  report. 
 
  
         
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           recycle
             from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2024-01-08 01:33 [#02631840]
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Leave Britney alone!
  You can come rape me, if it makes you feel better. I won’t like it, but I like you being near me.
 
  
         
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           kei9
             from Argentina on 2024-01-08 01:33 [#02631841]
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is this about the viper thing? it is sound to reason that  abducting other people is atrocious behavior
 
  i would take anything you are told by someone accusing you  of being and "anarchist cop" with a grain of salt.
 
  frankly ive been running into this same issue myself but  locally, ive been in several online arguments about politics  with people that support this "anarcho-capitalist" we have  for a president. the thing is this fuckers also support  torture, kidnap and murder as they defend the military  government that took over argentina from 1976 to 1983 as  part of the Condor Operation and implemented those measures to  control the population. the level of fanaticism they display  scares me and shames me. I really cant believe this shit is  real 
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 09:48 [#02631844]
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Let me guess... the "woman" is the French guy?
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-08 10:10 [#02631845]
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tbh i don't think being a prison abolitionist has anything  to do with finding a man preventing a woman from exiting  their flat creepy 
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 10:16 [#02631846]
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Women need a firm hand. That's why they like choking during  sex and following Islam. 
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-08 10:20 [#02631847]
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did you have a traumatic experience with a transsexual lady  of the night once? is this where the hatred is coming from? 
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 10:23 [#02631848]
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There's no hatred. 
  Dismay and despair maybe.
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 11:32 [#02631849]
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Sorry I was joking about the kidnapping stuff, I didn't know  the context until someone else told me 
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 11:34 [#02631850]
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I thought everyone was just joking around
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 11:35 [#02631851]
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 We seriously need Roger and Rusty to rejoin
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 12:01 [#02631852]
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 just to bring some levity to the conversation imagine Rusty  and Randy with erect penis's tips brushing accidently as  they turn around to the sound of "OH YEAHHHHH" from that  yello song  
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 12:03 [#02631853]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f7ewNe8ag9s
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
             on 2024-01-08 12:12 [#02631854]
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oh that was a reply to fleet's comment about prison sorry
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 12:38 [#02631855]
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I'm not being funny but as much as I love Rusty, and I do,  but given our advanced age and ailments the likelihood of us  both having an election at the same time, in each other's  presence, is so vanishingly small as to be beyond even God's  plans. 
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 12:40 [#02631856]
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When I say election that's obviously autocorrect being all  Muslim and glossing over my intention to say erection and,  to be specific, blood surging to the male penis in order to  make it rigid. 
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 12:47 [#02631857]
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That sounds like a bit of a quandary perhaps if you were  both simultaneously injected by liquid Viagra into the ball  sack simultaneously it might be feasible, perhaps with the  aid of two fluffers as well like Marc almond and Julian  Clary  
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 12:51 [#02631858]
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[shrugs] Women, huh? Jeez!
 
  
         
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           recycle
             from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2024-01-08 13:03 [#02631859]
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[shrugs] Women, huh? Jeez!
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-08 13:09 [#02631860]
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at what exactly?
 
  
         
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           big
             from lsg on 2024-01-08 13:40 [#02631861]
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quit it with the trans hate or i'll report you to  phobiazero, seriously 
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 14:25 [#02631862]
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big up Roger for tagging in. phew!
 
  
         
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           mermaidman
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jews, anyone?
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 14:52 [#02631864]
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**runs around the ring, flaccid knob in hand**
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 14:53 [#02631865]
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LLLLET'S GET RRRRREADY TO RRRRUMBLLLLLEEEEE!
 
  
         
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           dariusgriffin
             from cool on 2024-01-08 16:03 [#02631866]
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you know how people like your elon musks or your steven  pinkers think everything is up to debate as long as you're  engaging civilly, because they've never been confronted in  their life with actual adversity and it's all just an  intellectual game to them?
  would you say they are very beloved people
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 16:09 [#02631867]
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lets face it jujo you thought about using the polite hitler  meme but that seemed extreme even to you, eh? 
 
  
         
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           EpicMegatrax
             from Greatest Hits on 2024-01-08 16:11 [#02631868]
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it's kind of nice, actually. this is the first time i've  checked back since whenever i've posted last and fleetmouse  is deep in a mess that stems from a combination of [his own  intellectual failings, his insistence that being a discord  admin will pan out]
 
  it's so satisfying that i'm blocking this site again before  i see anything that ruins it. 
 
  
         
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           Roger Wilco
             from Mo's Beans on 2024-01-08 16:19 [#02631869]
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Well we got rid of that cunt Epic so things can only gt  better. 
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 16:23 [#02631870]
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there's a book called the drama of the gifted child. I think  about that when epic posts 
 
  
         
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           Hyperflake
             from Wirral (United Kingdom) on 2024-01-08 16:31 [#02631871]
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Turbulent times for the parsnip boys
 
  
         
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           Tony Danza
             from the river to the sea on 2024-01-08 20:03 [#02631875]
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You know, looking at this again it's unclear whether you'd  prefer me to be a Triple Hitler like Pinker and respond  civilly and thoughtfully, or just call you names and swear.  
 
  Because, while it's true that merely being polite doesn't  lend your arguments any merit, neither does merely stamping  your pretty little foot and pitching a fit. 
 
  
         
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