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I think my fear of people stopped me from enjoying life in the past. It is like a huge chunk of time which i never fully lived, because of all the fears inside me. There is an invisible barrier between me in the rest of the world. It is not something i can verbally describe very well, it is just a mass of pictures that cause a certain loneliness when i think about them. |
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so how are you going to get over this fear? |
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we all live in our own personal microcosms and shout at each other over oceans of misunderstanding etc. |
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true, but it's the wrong message board to post stuff like this |
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don't make a claim like that without citing an appropriate board to post on instead. |
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Pick one: 1. Apathetic, indifferent, remote, solitary. Neither desires nor need human attachments. Minimal awareness of feelings of self or others. Few drives or ambitions, if any. 2. Hesitant, self-conscious, embarrassed, anxious. Tense in social situations due to fear of rejection. Plagued by constant performance anxiety. Sees self as inept, inferior, or unappealing. Feels alone and empty. 3. Somber, discouraged, pessimistic, brooding, fatalistic. Presents self as vulnerable and abandoned. Feels valueless, guilty, and impotent. Judges self as worthy only of criticism and contempt. 4. Helpless, incompetent, submissive, immature. Withdraws from adult responsibilities. Sees self as weak or fragile. Seeks constant reassurance from stronger figures. 5.Dramatic, seductive, shallow, stimulus-seeking, vain. Overreacts to minor events. Exhibitionistic as a means of securing attention and favors. Sees self as attractive and charming. 6. Egotistical, arrogant, grandiose, insouciant. Preoccupied with fantasies of success, beauty, or achievement. Sees self as admirable and superior, and therefore entitled to special treatment. 7. Impulsive, irresponsible, deviant, unruly. Acts without due consideration. Meets social obligations only when self-serving. Disrespects societal customs, rules, and standards. Sees self as free and independent. 8. Explosively hostile, abrasive, cruel, dogmatic. Liable to sudden outbursts of rage. Feels selfsatisfied through dominating, intimidating and humiling others. Is opinionated and closeminded. 9. Restrained, conscientious, respectful, rigid. Maintains a rule-bound lifestyle. Adheres closely to social conventions. Sees the world in terms of regulations and hierarchies. Sees self as devoted, reliable, efficient, and productive. 10. Resentful, contrary, skeptical, discontented. Resist fulfilling others’ expectations. Deliberately inefficient. Vents anger indirectly by undermining others’ goals. Alternately moody and irritable, then sullen and withdrawn |
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11. Deferential, pleasure-phobic, servile, blameful, self-effacing. Encourages others to take advantage. Deliberately defeats own achievements. Seeks condemning or mistreatful partners. 12. Guarded, defensive, distrustful and suspiciousness. Hypervigilant to the motives of others to undermine or do harm. Always seeking confirmatory evidence of hidden schemes. Feels righteous, but persecuted. 13. Eccentric, self-estranged, bizarre, absent. Exhibits peculiar mannerisms and behaviors. Thinks can read thoughts of others. Preoccupied with odd daydreams and beliefs. Blurs line between reality and fantasy. 14. Unpredictable, manipulative, unstable. Frantically fears abandonment and isolation. Experiences rapidly fluctuating moods. Shifts rapidly between loving and hating. Sees self and others alternatively as all-good and all-bad. |
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Why? |
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it's not about electronic music, is it? |
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No thanks. I rather make you people feel unconfortable here |
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more like misanthropy |
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is that what your whining is all about? It aint working for me! |
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when this sort of monoid shit comes at you, there's a set of best practices. in order of phase: 1) genuinely consider their situation and offer honest advice. it's possible no one else has done them the courtesy before 2) if the they accept the honest advice, but do not act on it, the only way they'll advance is if you make them a personal project; crack the whip. if they don't accept the honest advice, it's best left alone. 3) if they don't accept the honest advice, yet continually seek out your support, then they're living in la la land: a dream of what they could be, which they float off into, to escape what they actually are. |
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that was shit and full of typos. nevermind. i really need to stop posting here after having a few drinks. |
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Get over yourself you whiny cunt. |
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My whining is all about unfullfilled hopes and needs. The world owes me something! |
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Huh? Why are you so silent? Why don't you complain more? |
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Ha ha! Emonoid! |
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moanoid |
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btw i have 3 of those |
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Ha ha ha!! |
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i hope yr laughing at the 1st post! |
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ahh you are i checked the number |
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! |
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haha! thanks! |
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You are making me feel unconfortable. What else do you have to say? |
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Monoid u have twitter account¿ |
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Yes. But it is in german. It helped me to meet new people |
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what does the world owe you? if the world could give you somethings what things would you like? |
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I answered this already in another thread. Right now i want justice for the things i had to endure in court. To acchieve this i probably need more power. More power means i need more money. I also want people to do things for me, if i verbally tell them to do them. |
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You need your head in your bum hole..the world owes you that.. |
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Id rather stick my dick in someones bum hole. I heard it does wonders for ones mental health |
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Monoid, you are afraid. i can feel it. I can smell your ass-sweat from here. Your daddy must have been a grumpy ol bastard who never showed you the world and/or your mommy was silent, obedient or not able to show emotions or even cold as a witches tit. Your parents fucked u up boy. They didnt damage you or somthing, they just showed you the wrong way of living. They didnt know it better. Happens to many people in different degrees. But you are also an introvert. You dont naturally confront people with your thoughts, which might have helped you out of your dilemma. now forget about it and stop being you. Your brain must have already been stopped changing. Time is running boy. After 30 years it starts to shut off. U can read as much as you want, understand as much as u want. You wont learn easy. Its mostly information, that you just replay. In your head. The trick is to get back to playmode. Fool around. Maybe you have never done that before you love alien. Get out and do something funny. Dance in the streets. Go to see something in your town/village/... I can feel that your world is getting smaller and smaller. The pressure is getting bigger and bigger. The space your living in becomes so little that at one point you might explode from heat, caused by walking the same paths over and over... faster and faster. my god, u must have constant panic attacks in packed trains. Or you are already done with that and not able too feel anything anymore. Its hard to get out of that, but If you would start to learn something for yourself it would be like gold, i guarantee. |
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"I will put enmities between thee and the woman, and thy seed and her seed; she shall crush thy head, and thou shalt lie in wait for her heel." יְהוֹיָק Joachim ("he whom YHWH has set up", Hebrew: 460;ים Yəhôyāqîm, Greek Ἰωακείμ IōākeÃm) was the husband of Saint Anne and the father of Mary, the mother of Jesus according to the Roman Catholic, Orthodox, and Anglican traditions. The story of Joachim and Anne first appears in the apocryphal Gospel of James. Joachim and Anne are not mentioned in the Bible. |
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YAWN! Nice to see you found the box Monoid belongs to. The whole parents thing is bordering on rude (the use of mummy and daddy for example) and is a massive cliché. Monoid an introvert? All he fucking does is moan all day about his horrible life which he'll never better because he clearly doesn't want to. He doesn't have aspergers, he's just a wimp. Anyway he's still the best dupe i've ever come across on the internet. |
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Seriously, my parents were okay. I didn't like my dad. I have a very good relationship with my mother. I am also not really a wimp. In the past i confronted severally people with the thoughts in my head and my opinions. I however don't want to live in a constant war zone. It seems to me, that being 'nice' open and friendly, is much more difficult for me. That doesn't mean that fighting and arguing with people is always bad. |
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do you find that a majority of the time when you speak to shop staff , and others that serve you, is because there is a problem and your annoyed? therefore you find it hard to be nice? |
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No. I fear to annoy and anger other people if i reveal too much about myself or if i speak to them. |
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Did you have sex with them? |
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don't start killing things pal |
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"No. I fear to annoy and anger other people if i reveal too much about myself or if i speak to them." you do that anyway |
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But why? |
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what are your main hobbies ? are you an artist monoid? ( paint make music) if you talk to people that do not share your hobbies do you think they will get bored and want to walk away? do you join groups on the internets and chat about hobbies or interests? |
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M likes to think over and over again, hard to change . his mind is like a rolling stone. |
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I feel like your feeling on a regular basis. It's very uncomfortable when it comes between you and your needs. My social fear was quite a silly experience to get over. I wore silly hats, and clothes that challenged my over all "ego" I found this to be an essential learning experience in many other areas to me. maybe make yourself a little uncomfortable...in a good way. Watch a movie you wouldn't really watch on the regular and take it seriously... and see what you learned from it. Maybe you found a certain type of comedy that make you bellow out in laughter. who knows. find out. |
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You need DUBturbo |
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