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coca cola's santa at least ! ;) |
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the best holiday season in a long time :) |
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BUMP! hahahhahahahahahaha you still dating that girl? |
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The thread is back... OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! OMG! ;D |
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you forgot all the f-bombs |
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OMFG ... OH MY FUCKING GOD !!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought this thread was put to rest So did we ever answer the question at hand? How DO you get a girl that's your friend? |
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it's funny, cuz I was thinking about this thread today. =) we're still dating, I got some therapy to calm me down a bit and take care of the things that get in my way. I'm calmer, more precise now it seems, and she likes that. It is a weird relationship, we share lots of things to do, but she drinks and such and I'm not into that. Today I decided though, the fridays/saturdays she goes out and what not, I'm going to a soup kitchen to volunteer. Otherwise, we are going slow and she makes me happy most of the time, just taking it easy....... |
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a fitting end to the tale of blatantecho and his friend turned girlfriend. |
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yay I'm happy for you man, as much grief as I give you for this thread |
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BuMp! hehehehehehehehehe |
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dear god stop it pleaaassse |
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WHERRE THE HELL is BlatantEcho ? i haven't seen him on herre forr ages. |
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he's out getting some with his girl... havne't you read these messages? :) |
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Hooray for coitus! |
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I say wait it out... girls don't realize what they REALLY want till they're a bit older, then she'll give you a chance... that's what i've observed at least |
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that's advice for all, for obviously the thread-starter got his wish |
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i've got a similar situation... she's not a Christian and I'm a Reformed Christian (Calvinist) so we can't get involved and so she dates another guy... kinda depressing at times... oh well.. not much i can do |
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damn, im new here and this thread is a real page turner, great stuff blatantecho, hope it works out for you and thanks for sharing all this so vividly. cheers. |
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well well... I am lost in this large thread...it begun asking about how to deal with this thing of a girl who thinks your relationship is only friendship and all that... I hated that...I was always the best friend of every girl... but I never mannaged anyone to really like me or love me...I was always the forever friend...and I thought "I dont wanna be a friend...I want something else" so I always wondered what was it that girls never saw me as a possible boyfriend.... and I still dont know.... but I tell you something: my actual girlfriend (for the last 3 years) at the begining only liked me as a friend, but I liked her so much...I fighted hard till she finally was in love with me... |
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Its called the FRIEND ZONE this is how it should sound when used in the appropriate context: "OH NO DEAR GOD WHY?!!! IM TRAPPED IN THE FRIEND ZONE!! |
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so, in the end he got therapy...? this blatantecho guy... |
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bbump |
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thanx George ........... we're still dating btw =) she is a cutie pie, and I told her about this thread, but she hasn't read it yet, hehe I think this thread got me the nerve to ask her out and it worked, so bless all the contributing xltronic members |
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her name's Jenny, if I didn't mention that earlier. |
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serious!! fuckin wikked.. :) its a good thread... |
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I have the same problem in a way. This girl I've known for years doesn't seem to think dating is good idea becuase "it might mess up our friendship." The dumb thing is, is that we dated a few years ago and it wasn't bad at all. Women just seem very unwilling to explain themselves. |
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i think women are just more picky than men about who's gonna be their significant other. they stand to lose more. |
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i am just too shy to ask out this girl i really have a crush on. damn me! |
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just constantly pester, and maybe admit to the fact you love their best mate! |
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i think im going to read the whole thing...if there are good advices someone should publish it |
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eventually this message board should be published. like: Xltronic.com: The Works ...or something. interesting to read, no? |
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this is where it all began! |
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How bizarre this is hehehehehehe, I'm now going out with the best friend of the girl I talked about earlier in this thread. Strange how things work out. That's not a slight to my gf though. I truly love her with all my heart and want no-one else (except for Christina Ricci...) and I think it took going out with her to realise that I didn't really fancy the other girl in the same way. I had really strong feelings for her but it's more like she's my little sister now rather than someone I fancy. It's strange how feelings get mixed up and you never really know what they actually mean until later on. Does that make sense to anyone? |
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sure does people change. emotions wax and wane. I'm still in love, and all I want is my baby to come back to me. *dragging the lake bringing this thread back, I tell you what* |
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ahh this thread is my baby. |
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oh my, there is this friend of mine, and I've only just recently started talking to her again... we went like 2 or 3 years without talking or anything... we never really went out back then, but we became really close, and got a little physical, not much, but enough... dammit, before a few weeks ago, I hadn't seen her for three years, and now it's like those years never passed almost, cause I'm as attracted to her as ever... we hung out tonight actually, and it was nice... unfortunately she has a boyfriend, and her boyfriend is a good friend of mine... ah well, such is life right... it's just amazing to me how these feelings just seemed to come back out of no where... |
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I'm thinkin' threesome. |
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This is kinda weird. Tomorrow I'm going out with this friend of mine, it's the SAME FUCKING SITUATION as you Blatant. I remembered your story, so I decided to read this entire thread, at 11pm before going to bed so that it helps me for tomorrow!!! I entered in Architecture last year, she's in the other class. I notice her, but nothing more. In January, both classes merge into 1 and we start chatting. We're good friends. I think that's what she wants, but I'm so TOTALLY INTO HER. I'm thinking about her all the time, drives me crazy. During summer we both work full time and in the weekend she goes back to her home while I keep working so I can't see her during the summer. That drives me fucking crazy. So tomorrow we're going out at an Amusement Park, but with a mutual (another Arch. student) friend. FUCK I didn't want the other person (she's cool but she's also her best friend). But she doesn't like to go on roller coasters so I'll have her all for me in those rides. AGH I'm so fucking nervous I can't go to sleep. |
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She's so damn cute, she told me she was a virgin. That changes nothing but she's willing to tell me such things. But I'm 23 and she's 19, so that changes a little the situation also. Damn writing this helps me. |
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we've got 2 more years together in architecture, so I can't do any fucking wrong move. Since we're only like 15 in the class and almost all the time together, that would hurt me more then how I'm hurting myself right now trying to hide my feelings. We are planning (with that third person) to move into our own appartement in half a year. That's a dangerous game I'm playing. I'm walking on eggs :) :( |
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welcome to heaven and hell kid |
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yeah my gf is in teh uk atm she's a model for citroen and i fucking miss her and she misses me and i'm going loopy a bit and she doesn't want me to go loopy coz she's been hurt by insane bf's in the past. so i have top be REALLY NORMAL OK and stop making weird music ahaha naw |
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ACK I'm off now to pick her up, I'm absolutely sure there won't be anything happening today. I'm keeping this whole thing until the end of summer (when I'm going to tell her). Or else it's hurting me too much. FUCK! |
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well, listen to this one: i am living in lithuania, been here 7 months. been seeing this girl for a while now who i like a LOT! in terms of her looks, she's my ideal woman. in terms of personality, she's adorable too. BUT.... i have to leave here in two months and return to sodding England. she's considering coming over to england for a bit, but i think it's next to impossible for lithuanians to get work legally in England so it's probably not going to happen. i'm almost certainly going to have to leave her behind. it's going to be a killer. in my experience, long distance relationships just don't work. i had a girlfriend who lived in the south of england, and therefore about 400 miles from me. it didn't last, it was a crap situation. but this is like thousands of miles apart! fuck. |
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p.s. i think that we're all a bunch of starry eyed romantics on this board. anyone have any advice / experience to offer regarding my aforementioned predicament? |
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23 and 19 is not that big of a difference IMO. It all depends on how mature you both are. I've seen relationships with one being 16 and the other being 19 work out. |
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rape her and look for another one |
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*wipes forehead* I can't believe I just read through that. I need to get out. Interesting nonetheless, it was like a fairy tale, the ending is a bit dissapointing though, when will he propose? Will there be a live webcast of the marriage? |
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i'm shocked u got herr. |
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try try try ------------ as for me, things are ok, I guess she needs the idea of freedom this summer, especially if we are far away. So I kinda need to be just "friend" but still within the confines of a relationship, even if it goes unsaid. this is very hard, but I can do it, and I hope it's worth it. |
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