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The_Funkmaster
from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-08 08:25 [#00433081]
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snuggling is such a cute word... I want to snuggle with a girl in my class man, OH SO BAD!!!! I just have to let her know I exist first... :)
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 09:22 [#00433135]
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MF------It's 8 in the morning, and I should be typing a paper due today.....
HOWEVER, I'm fawning over a girl who hasn't responded to me yesterday, and I getting paranoid.
fucking shit, should I just bail out of this and be friends and shit? She prolly wouldn't even know the fucking difference. God DAMN. All this fucking work and inspiration and shit, and I'm still left in the dark. I don't know what's going on, she hasn't told me shit.
She prolly doesn't even know any of the things I think she does and is playing this like any other friendship outing.
Mother fucker, someone gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon. I can't call her, cuz that is stalker style, I can't write, cuz I already did.......I'm going to see her today in class too, and she won't play it off like anything is different....................AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I want my fucking hugs
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 09:38 [#00433161]
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so all these posts for nothing...come on man rape her in the ur schools toilets
:)))
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 09:41 [#00433165]
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Don't ponder it too much. It's best to relax. If you think about something ponder it a little then store it and wait until you need to act on it. You don't want your thoughts to get ahead of your situations.
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 09:41 [#00433167]
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Rape is about as funny as being born dead with cancer. Shame on you dude. :(
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 09:43 [#00433171]
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sorry to be joking around so often! im stupid u know? its better not to pay attention when i post things like that...
:) xcuse me again dragon
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 10:01 [#00433194]
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i feel you, but still. Wtf am I supposed to think about? Wanking it by myself?
Man, fuck, it's not all for nothing, but...............fuck, I'm analyzing this too much
well, i have the school day today, if shit doesn't go well, then........I'll prolly come home crying like a little girl on the first day of school.
Sometimes I htink Homer said it best "trying is the first step towards failure" *don't let this be like that, don't let this be like that*
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Spikee Dragon
from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 10:10 [#00433208]
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Yes. I see this. However you will make no progress by thinking this way. It has no other action other then to bring yourself down.
Fuck it man. Kick back and act as things move on. I drove myself insain doing what you are doing to yourself now. You mind needs a rest.
Try to relax. I need to go now. I hope things work out.
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2002-11-08 15:22 [#00433601]
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Well if anything it's comforting to know that I'm not the only fucked-up guy who gets totally worked up to the point of screaming !! Blatant I totally know where you're coming from. I get into similar situations where I feel as if my guts are slowly being tied up in knots and that my head is between exploding and just disintergrating into thin air!! I'm become the physical incarnation of the word 'stress'. Thank god for music it's the only thing that can calm me down (other than the object(s) of my desire). So anyway it sounds like things are going to be fine and I certainly wish you two the best.
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:41 [#00433993]
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you expressed what my insides do just fine......:)
BUT, she sat next to me in class today, which was grand, but then just kinda left class without saying anything. Hasn't replied to any e-mails or anything, we supposedly have a date for tommorow, but yeah, I haven't heard from her so..............
Once again, I am stressing out, and frankly, wondering if this girl or ANY fucking girl, is worth this much anguish when I don't even know what the outcome might be.
It feels good talking about it. It's all going to work out
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BILE
from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:44 [#00433994]
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always so much fun when girls play head games like that
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 19:44 [#00433995]
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yes it will work out dont worry i just hope ur not as nervous in front of her than u seem to be talking about her...
:)
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DaWeeze
from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-08 19:45 [#00433997]
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Make sure you type "OMG" plenty of times, too...
;)
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BILE
from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:45 [#00433998]
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but...............fuck
hehe! butt fuck!
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 19:46 [#00433999]
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yes pretty girls are powerfull daemons in fact, they know magical stuffs for sure...
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:51 [#00434008]
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no it ain't, it's killing me
and I'm about this nervous in front of her, it's terrible.......
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BILE
from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:52 [#00434010]
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yeah... it was sarcasm. of course it's not fun, duh.
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b0nk
from 1969 in the sunshine (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:58 [#00434020]
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did u tell her yet? i havent read most of the post.. good luck
this has been one of the biggest post in recent time.. i think?
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 20:12 [#00434038]
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she never send u one e-mail back? but yes... if shes sitting next to you... well i can confirm shes must be mind-gaming u...
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 20:12 [#00434040]
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haven't said shit to her, don't wanna rush this, but I am pretty fucking anxious
Dunno about thread length, but it's going to get longer until I get definte answers from this girl
*sigh*
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 20:13 [#00434043]
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yeah no shit eh?
fucking crazy, and well, it's a friday night, so she is prolly out and shit, and fuck, WTF was I thinking
god damn, I think I forced this or something, mother fucker.
Every emotion, every minute, I hate this.
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wayout
from the street of crocodiles on 2002-11-08 22:47 [#00434215]
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yeah..girls can be brutal like that..
giving you hints that they like you one minute... and then the next minute, acting as if they dont even see you
i wonder if girls realize how much the slightest things they do fuck with us..
i always wonder if they're going through the same thing.. or if they really are as oblivious and indifferent as they act..
well, i must say.. this thread has inspired more confidence in me.. your situation seems very similar to my own
i hate to put a competitive spin on the whole thing.. but you really do have to take the chances you get..because god knows if you dont...some other guy will
i just hope the right oppurtunity comes up for me.... soon
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 01:36 [#00434276]
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"but you really do have to take the chances you get..because god
knows if you dont...some other guy will"
that is so telling...........
fucking girls
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2002-11-09 01:43 [#00434278]
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here here !
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dan7250
from Osaka (Japan) on 2002-11-09 05:03 [#00434324]
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the main problem is intensity.
if u are to intense with her she will be totally freaked out! trust me. chill out with everything if u want it to be cool.
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 05:18 [#00434329]
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u still havent see her again?? tonight did u say?
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 11:05 [#00434459]
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yeah, she wanted to go to a play 2night or tommorow night. But I haven't heard from her since.
dan: you're prolly right. I'm so relaxed now, really, doesn't matter anymore. I was prolly 150% overwhelming so now it's just me. If thinks fly, cool, if not, well, not as cool, but wtf else can I do?
yeah
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Pietro
from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-09 11:09 [#00434466]
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Get her round your house...both get really stoned and impress her with your inciteful, romantic, and stimulating conversational skills....then offer her a head massage (make sure you practice first!!) ...she will be in extacy and realise that you were the perfect companion she has been searching for!
P.S. Women love being listened to...and they can never turn their noses up at a true romantic!
.....Ramblings of a romantic stoner.......good luck!
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 11:10 [#00434472]
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u always finally fuck those kind of girls she will beg u please in a few months maybe or yes i hope :)
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 11:12 [#00434474]
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oh man oh man oh man,
if you were right, but fuck, I'm cool, I'm fucking cool as mother fucking ice......
and Pietro: whatever blows your skirt up man
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Pietro
from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-09 11:17 [#00434480]
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Shit man...you can see my skirt from here?.....I want your soul!
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 12:13 [#00434532]
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*shudders*
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 12:13 [#00434533]
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hey, why don't some of you guys e-mail my wife and tell her to hurry up and fucking call me
really
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weatheredstoner
from same shit babes. (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:04 [#00434654]
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Dude you are WAY TO STRESSED.
Smoke some bowls then hit up the strip joint. Do something that will make you forget about her. It sounds like everything is gonna turn out right between you and her so just relax! Say to yourself "everythings gonna be fine". And dont worry if she hasn't responded in a few days.
The only way you can screw it up now, is if she finds this thread!
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 15:12 [#00434660]
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give me her email if u want be sure ill do it i cant be seducing her cos im in switzerland... so as u want really i wont mind ! :)))
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:19 [#00434666]
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lol man.
I called and she wasn't home, what about our damn date tonight? Seriously
I'm calm, but it's eating at me again.
Do I send e-mail? No, call again and leave message? Mother fucker, I can't handle this, I want answers!
Freaking out again. -------------- Do I get an award for dealing wtih all this stress? I think I've lost 10 years of life worrying about her, she's so fucking cute :)
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 15:31 [#00434673]
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sorry i posted something for u in the good movies thread.. sorry sorry *acting like a japanese tourist* sorry ;)
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titsworth
from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:35 [#00434681]
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only love will break your heart
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rarndaraki
from from from from (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:20 [#00434729]
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news Blatant, but the fact that you guys have not talked and she hasn't called or emailed it not good. I think she may feel like things moved a bit to fast from her last boyfriend to you, and she is just trying to be passive and subtle, two extremely nasty traits for a girl to posses. however, this may not be the case at all, but im speaking from experience here, pretty much the exact same situation, so ya know.....
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titsworth
from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:22 [#00434731]
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it's her fault tho, that's plain coldblooded to dump her longtime boyfriend 30 minutes before seeing Blatant. i wouldn't trust this girl at all, she seems like a ho.
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 16:27 [#00434742]
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yes but maybe blatant that night she maybe wanted some wild action (cos of her letting her boyfriend...)
i would have fuck her in ur case... i mean was she hotter than usual? maybe shes desapointed u should call again and tell her hot stuffs
shell love it girls always do love little horny sentences(not to horny neither...be subtil but strong)
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:50 [#00434757]
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humm......i've not said anything so far cos i didn't wanna burst your bubble but you need a woman's perspective cos you sound like you're going off the deep end.
1. hate to break it to you, but she didn't break up with her LONG time bf to go out with you......it was just circumstance.
2. if she just broke up with her LONG term bf she is not anywhere NEAR ready to get into another serious relationship, you NEED to realize this NOW.
3. since she just broke up with her LONG term bf who's to say he won't try to get her back/or vice versa. break ups are not always for good, especially the first time. usually they make up within a few days.
4. follows #3...as to why she hasn't called or emailed you. she is prolly back with her LONG term bf, or trying to figure things out. either way don't take it personally, you really caught her at the WRONG time. you never want to get into a relationship with a girl/guy who's on the rebound.....EVER!
5. she prolly mentioned going to a play cos she didn't wanna be alone this weekend, however since she mentioned it something has probably happened and she didn't remember her plans with you, or she just doesn't feel like doing something.
either way......while it's obvious you like her, you need to not take things so personally and CHILL OUT, cos worrying or OVER analyzing the situation will NOT help you or the situation. it will only HURT things in the long run.
if you really want something with this girl, give her space and try to just be her FRIEND, until she's ready for more. and that may be weeks or months.
girls are just like guys.....only MORE complicated, and believe me it's not like she is going out of her way to hurt you or ignore you. you seriously just are in the right place at the WRONG time.
i hope you really take my perspective in to account, i know how these things are, and you need to get back to YOUR life, thats what makes you more interesting to women.
you don't ever wanna be a door mat to anyone.....and you're close t
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:55 [#00434764]
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cont.
you don't ever wanna be a door mat to anyone.....and you're close to the edge of becoming that from what i've read.
good luck =0)
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:04 [#00434772]
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very sweet of you, and I guess you're right, wrong time, even when it felt right.
I was all ready to go guns blazing too, mother fucker. Ok, I'll call her and be all supportive and shit. I'll be a better friend.
It's just that I finally meet a girl without a cell phone, who likes my music, who fucking sails, is short, cute and nice to me. fuck me: waiting is so painful.
But yeah, I guess I go back to being a behind the scenes friend. this is sad :(
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glass_eater
from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 17:06 [#00434774]
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call her and be hot ;) Le Coeur!
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:11 [#00434776]
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a friend is a GREAT place to start any relationship.....it's not chopped liver.
just think if you were her LONG term bf....would you give her up that easy.....maybe that will put it in perspective for you.
just be yourself......and don't go nutso....cos that will scare her off. too much intensity can be off putting. wait till she's yours before letting that loose on her! =0)
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LeCoeur
from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:12 [#00434777]
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silly goose......i have a long term BF.....i don't need a gf right now *wink*
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:17 [#00434781]
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this girl, in my mind at least, is 10000% perfect for me, never seen a girl like her.
I don't think circumstances led me to feel that way just cuz she was close to me, I thought it was meant to be.
If this one slips away, well, it's already sad, hell, I don't want to be more sad
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titsworth
from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:19 [#00434782]
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she doesn't really like the music you like, you only introduced it to her a few days ago. it's not like she's a fan of the genre. as for the rest (especially your physical interests in her), it seems just like a crush -- sorry.
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BlatantEcho
from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:25 [#00434783]
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that's kinda cruel, but sure man. Maybe it's all cuz I needed someone close and she kinda fit the bill. I'd like to think the feelings i still have that were so new weren't just infatuation, who knows.
--------------------------------- I h8 poetry, but I wrote this *it's a song to me* after LeCoer's response:
nothing is more painful than knowing that you fucked up when you could have been a better friend to her
see her smile and you think it’s yours should have stepped back and listened some more only listening to your inner voice, never figured out she has to make a choice on her own
so what do you do with a broken heart? Feels like your whole world came apart You never had a chance to build it up Fucked it up before the start
So Run run run, along So go go go back in So retreat back inside of your life Come back when the timing is right
Trying to get closer to her heart Didn’t see she needed your comfort Now she’s scared cuz you’ve made it clear You loved her too much when she needed you near
Started out too fast Ran along when she crawled and asked For your help, for your hand You leaped on by thinking it would last
So Run run run, along So go go go back in So retreat back inside of your life Come back when the timing is right
Come back when the timing is right Lucky you if you ever get another chance
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