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offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-08 08:25 [#00433081]
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snuggling is such a cute word... I want to snuggle with a
girl in my class man, OH SO BAD!!!! I just have to let her
know I exist first... :)


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 09:22 [#00433135]
Points: 7210 Status: Lurker



MF------It's 8 in the morning, and I should be typing a
paper due today.....

HOWEVER, I'm fawning over a girl who hasn't responded to me
yesterday, and I getting paranoid.

fucking shit, should I just bail out of this and be friends
and shit? She prolly wouldn't even know the fucking
difference. God DAMN. All this fucking work and
inspiration and shit, and I'm still left in the dark. I
don't know what's going on, she hasn't told me shit.

She prolly doesn't even know any of the things I think she
does and is playing this like any other friendship outing.

Mother fucker, someone gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon.
I can't call her, cuz that is stalker style, I can't write,
cuz I already did.......I'm going to see her today in class
too, and she won't play it off like anything is
different....................AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I want my
fucking hugs


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 09:38 [#00433161]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



so all these posts for nothing...come on man rape her in the
ur schools toilets
:)))


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 09:41 [#00433165]
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Don't ponder it too much. It's best to relax. If you think
about something ponder it a little then store it and wait
until you need to act on it. You don't want your thoughts to
get ahead of your situations.


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 09:41 [#00433167]
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Rape is about as funny as being born dead with cancer. Shame
on you dude. :(


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 09:43 [#00433171]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



sorry to be joking around so often!
im stupid u know?
its better not to pay attention when i post things like
that...
:)
xcuse me again dragon


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 10:01 [#00433194]
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i feel you, but still. Wtf am I supposed to think about?
Wanking it by myself?

Man, fuck, it's not all for nothing, but...............fuck,
I'm analyzing this too much

well, i have the school day today, if shit doesn't go well,
then........I'll prolly come home crying like a little girl
on the first day of school.

Sometimes I htink Homer said it best "trying is the first
step towards failure" *don't let this be like that, don't
let this be like that*


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-08 10:10 [#00433208]
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Yes. I see this. However you will make no progress by
thinking this way. It has no other action other then to
bring yourself down.

Fuck it man. Kick back and act as things move on. I drove
myself insain doing what you are doing to yourself now. You
mind needs a rest.

Try to relax. I need to go now. I hope things work out.


 

offline TonyFish from the realm of our dreams on 2002-11-08 15:22 [#00433601]
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Well if anything it's comforting to know that I'm not the
only fucked-up guy who gets totally worked up to the point
of screaming !! Blatant I totally know where you're coming
from. I get into similar situations where I feel as if my
guts are slowly being tied up in knots and that my head is
between exploding and just disintergrating into thin air!!
I'm become the physical incarnation of the word 'stress'.
Thank god for music it's the only thing that can calm me
down (other than the object(s) of my desire). So anyway it
sounds like things are going to be fine and I certainly wish
you two the best.


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:41 [#00433993]
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you expressed what my insides do just fine......:)

BUT, she sat next to me in class today, which was grand, but
then just kinda left class without saying anything. Hasn't
replied to any e-mails or anything, we supposedly have a
date for tommorow, but yeah, I haven't heard from her
so..............

Once again, I am stressing out, and frankly, wondering if
this girl or ANY fucking girl, is worth this much anguish
when I don't even know what the outcome might be.

It feels good talking about it. It's all going to work out


 

offline BILE from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:44 [#00433994]
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always so much fun when girls play head games like that


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 19:44 [#00433995]
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yes it will work out dont worry
i just hope ur not as nervous in front of her than u seem to
be talking about her...
:)


 

offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-08 19:45 [#00433997]
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Make sure you type "OMG" plenty of times, too...

;)


 

offline BILE from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:45 [#00433998]
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but...............fuck

hehe! butt fuck!


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 19:46 [#00433999]
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yes pretty girls are powerfull daemons in fact,
they know magical stuffs for sure...



 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:51 [#00434008]
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no it ain't, it's killing me

and I'm about this nervous in front of her, it's
terrible.......


 

offline BILE from São Paulo (Brazil) on 2002-11-08 19:52 [#00434010]
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yeah... it was sarcasm. of course it's not fun, duh.


 

offline b0nk from 1969 in the sunshine (United States) on 2002-11-08 19:58 [#00434020]
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did u tell her yet? i havent read most of the post.. good
luck

this has been one of the biggest post in recent time.. i
think?


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-08 20:12 [#00434038]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



she never send u one e-mail back?
but yes... if shes sitting next to you...
well i can confirm shes must be mind-gaming u...



 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 20:12 [#00434040]
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haven't said shit to her, don't wanna rush this, but I am
pretty fucking anxious

Dunno about thread length, but it's going to get longer
until I get definte answers from this girl

*sigh*


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-08 20:13 [#00434043]
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yeah no shit eh?

fucking crazy, and well, it's a friday night, so she is
prolly out and shit, and fuck, WTF was I thinking

god damn, I think I forced this or something, mother
fucker.

Every emotion, every minute, I hate this.


 

offline wayout from the street of crocodiles on 2002-11-08 22:47 [#00434215]
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yeah..girls can be brutal like that..

giving you hints that they like you one minute... and then
the next minute, acting as if they dont even see you

i wonder if girls realize how much the slightest things they
do fuck with us..

i always wonder if they're going through the same thing.. or
if they really are as oblivious and indifferent as they
act..

well, i must say.. this thread has inspired more confidence
in me.. your situation seems very similar to my own

i hate to put a competitive spin on the whole thing.. but
you really do have to take the chances you get..because god
knows if you dont...some other guy will

i just hope the right oppurtunity comes up for me.... soon



 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 01:36 [#00434276]
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"but you really do have to take the chances you get..because
god
knows if you dont...some other guy will"

that is so telling...........

fucking girls


 

offline TonyFish from the realm of our dreams on 2002-11-09 01:43 [#00434278]
Points: 3349 Status: Lurker



here here !


 

offline dan7250 from Osaka (Japan) on 2002-11-09 05:03 [#00434324]
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the main problem is intensity.

if u are to intense with her she will be totally freaked
out! trust me. chill out with everything if u want it to be
cool.


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 05:18 [#00434329]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



u still havent see her again??
tonight did u say?


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 11:05 [#00434459]
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yeah, she wanted to go to a play 2night or tommorow night.
But I haven't heard from her since.

dan: you're prolly right. I'm so relaxed now, really,
doesn't matter anymore. I was prolly 150% overwhelming so
now it's just me. If thinks fly, cool, if not, well, not as
cool, but wtf else can I do?

yeah


 

offline Pietro from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-09 11:09 [#00434466]
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Get her round your house...both get really stoned and
impress her with your inciteful, romantic, and stimulating
conversational skills....then offer her a head massage (make
sure you practice first!!) ...she will be in extacy and
realise that you were the perfect companion she has been
searching for!

P.S. Women love being listened to...and they can never turn
their noses up at a true romantic!

.....Ramblings of a romantic stoner.......good luck!


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 11:10 [#00434472]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



u always finally fuck those kind of girls
she will beg u please in a few months maybe
or yes i hope
:)


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 11:12 [#00434474]
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oh man oh man oh man,

if you were right, but fuck, I'm cool, I'm fucking cool as
mother fucking ice......

and Pietro: whatever blows your skirt up man


 

offline Pietro from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2002-11-09 11:17 [#00434480]
Points: 59 Status: Lurker



Shit man...you can see my skirt from here?.....I want your
soul!


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 12:13 [#00434532]
Points: 7210 Status: Lurker



*shudders*


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 12:13 [#00434533]
Points: 7210 Status: Lurker



hey, why don't some of you guys e-mail my wife and tell her
to hurry up and fucking call me

really


 

offline weatheredstoner from same shit babes. (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:04 [#00434654]
Points: 12585 Status: Lurker



Dude you are WAY TO STRESSED.

Smoke some bowls then hit up the strip joint. Do something
that will make you forget about her. It sounds like
everything is gonna turn out right between you and her so
just relax! Say to yourself "everythings gonna be fine". And
dont worry if she hasn't responded in a few days.

The only way you can screw it up now, is if she finds
this thread!



 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 15:12 [#00434660]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



give me her email if u want
be sure ill do it
i cant be seducing her cos im in switzerland...
so as u want really i wont mind !
:)))


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:19 [#00434666]
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lol man.

I called and she wasn't home, what about our damn date
tonight? Seriously

I'm calm, but it's eating at me again.

Do I send e-mail? No, call again and leave message? Mother
fucker, I can't handle this, I want answers!

Freaking out again.
--------------
Do I get an award for dealing wtih all this stress? I think
I've lost 10 years of life worrying about her, she's so
fucking cute :)


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 15:31 [#00434673]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



sorry i posted something for u in the good movies thread..
sorry sorry
*acting like a japanese tourist*
sorry
;)


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 15:35 [#00434681]
Points: 14550 Status: Lurker



only love will break your heart


 

offline rarndaraki from from from from (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:20 [#00434729]
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news Blatant, but the fact
that you guys have not talked and she hasn't called or
emailed it not good. I think she may feel like things moved
a bit to fast from her last boyfriend to you, and she is
just trying to be passive and subtle, two extremely nasty
traits for a girl to posses. however, this may not be the
case at all, but im speaking from experience here, pretty
much the exact same situation, so ya know.....


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:22 [#00434731]
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it's her fault tho, that's plain coldblooded to dump her
longtime boyfriend 30 minutes before seeing Blatant. i
wouldn't trust this girl at all, she seems like a ho.


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 16:27 [#00434742]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



yes but maybe blatant that night she maybe wanted some wild
action (cos of her letting her boyfriend...)
i would have fuck her in ur case...
i mean was she hotter than usual?
maybe shes desapointed u should call again and tell her hot
stuffs
shell love it
girls always do love little horny sentences(not to horny
neither...be subtil but strong)



 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:50 [#00434757]
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humm......i've not said anything so far cos i didn't wanna
burst your bubble but you need a woman's perspective cos you
sound like you're going off the deep end.

1. hate to break it to you, but she didn't break up with her
LONG time bf to go out with you......it was just
circumstance.

2. if she just broke up with her LONG term bf she is not
anywhere NEAR ready to get into another serious
relationship, you NEED to realize this NOW.

3. since she just broke up with her LONG term bf who's to
say he won't try to get her back/or vice versa. break ups
are not always for good, especially the first time. usually
they make up within a few days.

4. follows #3...as to why she hasn't called or emailed you.
she is prolly back with her LONG term bf, or trying to
figure things out. either way don't take it personally, you
really caught her at the WRONG time. you never want to get
into a relationship with a girl/guy who's on the
rebound.....EVER!

5. she prolly mentioned going to a play cos she didn't wanna
be alone this weekend, however since she mentioned it
something has probably happened and she didn't remember her
plans with you, or she just doesn't feel like doing
something.

either way......while it's obvious you like her, you need to
not take things so personally and CHILL OUT, cos worrying or
OVER analyzing the situation will NOT help you or the
situation. it will only HURT things in the long run.

if you really want something with this girl, give her space
and try to just be her FRIEND, until she's ready for more.
and that may be weeks or months.

girls are just like guys.....only MORE complicated, and
believe me it's not like she is going out of her way to hurt
you or ignore you. you seriously just are in the right place
at the WRONG time.

i hope you really take my perspective in to account, i know
how these things are, and you need to get back to YOUR life,
thats what makes you more interesting to women.

you don't ever wanna be a door mat to anyone.....and you're
close t


 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 16:55 [#00434764]
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cont.

you don't ever wanna be a door mat to anyone.....and you're
close to the edge of becoming that from what i've read.

good luck =0)



 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:04 [#00434772]
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very sweet of you, and I guess you're right, wrong time,
even when it felt right.

I was all ready to go guns blazing too, mother fucker. Ok,
I'll call her and be all supportive and shit. I'll be a
better friend.

It's just that I finally meet a girl without a cell phone,
who likes my music, who fucking sails, is short, cute and
nice to me. fuck me: waiting is so painful.

But yeah, I guess I go back to being a behind the scenes
friend. this is sad :(


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-09 17:06 [#00434774]
Points: 4904 Status: Regular



call her and be hot
;) Le Coeur!


 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:11 [#00434776]
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a friend is a GREAT place to start any relationship.....it's
not chopped liver.

just think if you were her LONG term bf....would you give
her up that easy.....maybe that will put it in perspective
for you.

just be yourself......and don't go nutso....cos that will
scare her off. too much intensity can be off putting. wait
till she's yours before letting that loose on her! =0)


 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:12 [#00434777]
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silly goose......i have a long term BF.....i don't need a gf
right now *wink*


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:17 [#00434781]
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this girl, in my mind at least, is 10000% perfect for me,
never seen a girl like her.

I don't think circumstances led me to feel that way just cuz
she was close to me, I thought it was meant to be.

If this one slips away, well, it's already sad, hell, I
don't want to be more sad


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:19 [#00434782]
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she doesn't really like the music you like, you only
introduced it to her a few days ago. it's not like she's a
fan of the genre. as for the rest (especially your physical
interests in her), it seems just like a crush -- sorry.


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-09 17:25 [#00434783]
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that's kinda cruel, but sure man. Maybe it's all cuz I
needed someone close and she kinda fit the bill. I'd like
to think the feelings i still have that were so new weren't
just infatuation, who knows.
---------------------------------
I h8 poetry, but I wrote this *it's a song to me* after
LeCoer's response:

nothing is more painful than
knowing that you fucked up when
you could have been a better friend
to her

see her smile and you think it’s yours
should have stepped back and listened some more
only listening to your inner voice,
never figured out she has to make a choice
on her own

so what do you do with a broken heart?
Feels like your whole world came apart
You never had a chance to build it up
Fucked it up before the start

So Run run run, along
So go go go back in
So retreat back inside of your life
Come back when the timing is right

Trying to get closer to her heart
Didn’t see she needed your comfort
Now she’s scared cuz you’ve made it clear
You loved her too much when she needed you near

Started out too fast
Ran along when she crawled and asked
For your help, for your hand
You leaped on by thinking it would last

So Run run run, along
So go go go back in
So retreat back inside of your life
Come back when the timing is right

Come back when the timing is right
Lucky you if you ever get another chance


 


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