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That kind of lazy is great ! |
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hahahahahaha, blatant, do you think she would dump you if she found out you just told a few dozen people about your romantic night? |
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oh man i just read the 200 posts i missed voer the w/e CONGRATS MAN! I'm so happy for ya, dude! Well fucking done, Blatant! |
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the BEST kind of lazy |
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Yeah! good stuff! |
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damn, i have to get me one of those... ehhrr.. girlfriends! |
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dunno if we're there yet, but man this great! seriously man, never question yourself, just go for it, the worst that can happen is nothing. |
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oh yes well done again ;) |
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yeah, I want me a girlfriend!! |
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Blatant! Congrats! And you know what, I dont think she'll kill you when she reads the posts, because for as far as I read them, you havent said a discespectfull word about her... (in contrast tu us *grin*) |
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I say continue your friendship with her and take the time to increase the level of comfort and closeness between the two of you. The timing is important. She has to know a lot about you but and see how well you would treat her. You still need to still retain a bit of mystery though, so that she's always curious about what it would be like to date you. Be your charming self and give her the opportunity to consider you in a light other than that of friendship. Then, after a long long time, take things up a notch, set up conditions for romance around you, nice picnics, thoughtful notes, etc. and see how she if she shows any signs of interest. Don't buy her flowers or write her poems yet. That's for when you actually see some interest. That's my penny times two. |
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Thank got I recently got me one or this thread would make me reaaaaallly depressed :P |
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shaaawweeeet~ :) |
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i totally agree. I try to keep it simple. Not ask her out everyday, or call her very often, just a little. She seems to like that, when I seem to smoether her or something, like asking her out today, she was kinda like.....uhm, yeah, no..... I worry, constantly, that she will change her mind or something, but I'm most def just going to start small and let her do the comming to me...... i hope :) nice to see a hearfelt post for only your 4th one on the board, welcome ! |
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That sounds complicated....jeez |
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When you want something badly nothing is unsurmountably complicated. Good advice ka and welcome. |
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But what if you lack "social competence" as bad as me.......................!!! Anyway you should be proud doode....I could never do something like this..... |
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Man... I didn't think this task was posible. Untill now my philosophy regarding girls says: "When they think you're friends, all hope is lost... Go pick on that other chick!" :) |
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no way man, always go for broke. always, otherwise you'll always wonder............. |
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or in the case of people with nervous/anxious/stressed out pre-dispositions (me) be tortured would probably be more appropriate... |
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Yeah, but than you might get labeled desperate by the girl and all the other ones who notice it and as a consiquence you wont get laid for weeks... even months. I think that's a good thing to considder before going for broke... But of course if you think the girl's worth it, go for it! :) |
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well, when I refer to go for broke, I simply mean approaching a girl....... Sex isn't part of the picture. But yeah, if you are going for sex, this go for broke thing might be too forward. Well, just go for it, is that more to the point? |
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Sex isn't part of the picture. Smart boy... :) |
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hahahhahahaha. congrats Blatant. |
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btw, how old did you said you were? ; ) |
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This thread is teh crazy incredible!! THIS THREAD IS TEH CRAZY INCREDIBLE!! WHEN WIL THSI THREAD END!!?///11111 |
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i dont think it would be good to show her this thread shed think... this guy is a psycho... he talks on the net nonstop. girls dont like that. not saying its right, and i agree, its just i dont think you should show it to her. espicially now, cause if she didnt think of this before, after reading my post, i may have gotten her thinking. so yeah i like music. |
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I like thsi thread to close donw! |
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lol, i think you just insulted me yeah, I won't show her this though..... |
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whats her email? |
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maybe we should change this to 'How to keep a girl that used to be your friend and is now possibly your girlfriend although you aren't entirely sure' ;) |
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do this be honest - girls appreciate it for sure tell her how you feel - if it freaks her out so what - you don't need anyone to survive if she's all for it - dig it if she is weirded out she may not call / come by for a few days - act like she doesnt exist - for some fuct up reason girls like guys who ignore them and treat em like shit (take my advice w/ a grain of salt - i got my present girlfriend by drinking two forties and five beers, and then just surprising her w/ a kiss in the middle of a party - i didnt even know her name...nor did she know mine - weeeeeeeeeeeeeee) "st. ides heaven" - elliott smith |
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*he is with her already* ;) but the soap opera is still good!!! |
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yeah i just read the whole ting and realized that good man...i congratulate you |
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it's hard to ignore someone you already feel like you want to spend 99.999% of your day with. That sounds obsessive compulsive, and I don't mean it that way, just that I enjoy time with her more than I have anyone in a while. THAT sound lame, but fuck you..... :) I still think I'm just going to kinda lay low and hope she gets into fucking calling me a bit more. *on the verge....* |
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whats the frequence of her calls? :) |
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dude, listen to sting :) |
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not often! I think I scare her off sometimes with my babbling. My m8 was with me, and he said I was a bit overwhelming. So yeah, I got to learn to lay low and let the stuff happen that will....... with that meant she would call me a few times during the school week......*sigh* |
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are you for real? i gotta say keep it real some people dig the chat drop the expectations, 2 ppl want to feel natural its good ah |
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"That sounds obsessive compulsive" Will you stop fucking describing the way I curse you !!! ;) |
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doh correction Will you stop fucking describing the way I feel damn you!!!! I'm a fool |
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U2's Greatest Hits is better in these situations I find. |
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You enjoy time with her even more than with us??? ; ) |
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it's only funny cuz it's true.......... I need more distractions in my life so I don't fawn over her every concious moment. |
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obviously not if I post when I'm on the phone with her! You guys prolly now know more about my dissorders than she does....... |
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"I need more distractions in my life so I don't fawn over her every concious moment." Tell me about it man. Oh well I'm not the only disfunctional one.. Listten to some coldplay. It'll either work or make it way worse... |
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hahaha! |
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ah chill as long as she doesnt send back your letters and your lp records all scratched |
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