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offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-06 23:08 [#00431340]
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I wonder how Echo-boy is doing...

Single?
Double?
Grand Slam?
Struck Out Swinging?

Hmmmm....


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-07 00:08 [#00431369]
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afxNUMB - i dunno, but i think love can happen at any time.

or never in my case. oh well am i complaining? i dont know
what im missing so......

omg omg i went up to a thug gangster and he was all
"hey motherfucker WHEEEEEEEEE"


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-11-07 00:18 [#00431370]
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Man, this topic has gotin pretty large.

Whats the run down here... has anyone done a summery at
all?



 

offline uviol from United States on 2002-11-07 00:20 [#00431371]
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you should read it fer yrself, it's priceless.. buuttt:
It's BlatantEcho saying he has the hots for this girl that's
his good friend on his preppy boating team ;).. he wants to
ask her out but doesn't want to ruin the freindship. The
rest is him saying 'fuck' and freaking out because he called
her and made a date..amidst a sea of semi-useful advice from
myself and others. we're all waiting to see what happened.
:)


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-11-07 00:26 [#00431373]
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Thanks Steph! :)


 

offline uviol from United States on 2002-11-07 00:34 [#00431376]
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anytime, err.. , candlewax :p you're not hitting on me
again are you..


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-11-07 00:38 [#00431378]
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Either that or I can't spell your name :P


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-07 00:40 [#00431379]
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go for it princo!

/me gives useful advise on how princo should ask out evol


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-11-07 01:11 [#00431394]
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HAHAHAHA!

Its Uviol!
Not even you can get his name right!


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-07 01:19 [#00431396]
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Whoa! How did I do that?

Seriousl it was like staring me in teh face!

Sorry!

Seriously though, sorry I know I'm a 'tard.

*pulls chair out from under self as he goes to sit down*

*oomph!*


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-11-07 01:29 [#00431402]
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your a tripper man 8-)


 

offline uviol from United States on 2002-11-07 01:42 [#00431408]
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!! =^o !! it's getting gay in here again...


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 01:46 [#00431411]
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OOOOOOOOOK
-------------------------
I'm too fucking tired to make an entire post. Here is the
skinny:

I don't know what the fuck happened.

1) She broke up with her longtime boyfriend 30 minutes
before comming over. I didn't even know she had a
boyfriend, so fuck that, but my mates say that's a sign or
something....

2) SHE FUCKING LOVES APHEX. I'll leave it at that. She
said she had never heard anything like it, and wanted to
here the RDJ album over and over. I fucking melted.

3) After hearing the BF thing, I didn't push any contact,
but I did find myself on our couch stroking her hair. My
god it was fucking heaven.

4) Saw punch drunk love, well that prolly wasn't the best
idea, but not the worst...

5) She left kinda quiet, as I dropped her off, she mentioned
she really wanted to see some play with me......
-----------------------------------
SOOOOOOOO
I built this up, and it went really well till the end, but
my mates are saying that I should be pissing my pants with
joy. She broke up with long time BF for me, or
something..........

So, maybe I'm tired, but I want this bad, and I dunno, do I
call her, do I wait? What do you take of these signs? She
loves sailing and Aphex Twin, wtf else is going to go right
in my life.
-----------------
Sorry, this is kinda the first serious post, I'm too tired
to swear, but I must admit I haven't wanted to hold someone
so much before..............

I will fall asleep struggling to think I didn't fuck this
up, hopefully dreaming she wants me as much as I do her.


 

offline uviol from United States on 2002-11-07 01:55 [#00431416]
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I hate to be the first to reply to such a momentous event,
but from yr synopsis it sounds like a winner to me!
Congratulations man, seems like she likes you. If you
aren't kicking yrself for any particular thing then I would
guess that it was a success. Plus, you might be
instrumental in getting her into AFX, so hey.. :)


 

offline map from mülligen (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 02:01 [#00431418]
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oh my god, blatant, keep on her! just keep on her! an
afxgirl is one of the nicest thing you can have! i had a
dream about a girl last night, and it was so real, she said
me her name, and where does she live, but i can't remember
it exactly, fuck it was so real..


 

offline map from mülligen (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 02:01 [#00431419]
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sorry my english again, i mean told ...


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-07 02:02 [#00431420]
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Um avoid her bf, duh. He probably won't be out to fight you
or anything, but he probably won't want to be your best mate
:P
Don't worry this shit happens all the time (I think).

It sounds all good to me, she might be a bit quiet or
whatever at first I tink, becasue hey she's just broken up
with someone.

She might also pull a "it's too soon" on you and want to
keep it all cooled off for a while,b ut I think you aren't
in it for sex (good for you mang) so she willprobably
appreciate it and be cool and stuff.

I say don't call her. Maaaaybe tomorrow. I don't know, just
maybe ask her how she felt about it?
Uhh might wanna see what other people say about this though,
I'm not too sure.

Don't worry about fuckign it up, man. Worrying abotu it only
makes you ....well nervous and shiz.
You gotta be confident and happy and shit.

Like I said earlier if she lets you go, then it'sher, not
your fault (most likely anyways)

I'm glad for ya man.

Best of luck.

Oh and I don't mean to rain on your parade or anything, but
kinda watchuot about the whole "broke up w/ longtime bf 30
mins before"
You know she could do it to you.....
I wouldn't wory about it though.

OI!!!!
YOU FUCKIN' DID IT MATE!

*slaps BlatantEcho on back*

I'd totally buy you a beer for that, nice one.

Maximum word up

:):):)


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-07 02:04 [#00431422]
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ok and with that im totally going home
(at work)

check this later on tonight


 

offline pOgO from behind your belly button fluff on 2002-11-07 02:07 [#00431424]
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You could just show her this topic, it's had such a response
she may be flattered

;o,


 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-07 07:26 [#00431656]
Points: 16280 Status: Lurker



whoa, you're a GOD man... congratulations on a job well
done... and now I totally envy you!!! ;)


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-07 08:11 [#00431694]
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good job but careful w/ the idm stuff.. you got lucky w/ the
rdj album but i wouldn't try anything else, it'll put her
off bigtime.


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 09:48 [#00431830]
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I think that is the deal. She is just a little quiet over
the whole thing.

She did write me an e-mail asking me out this weekend
though!!! I think I will give it a little while before I
actually go in for the "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MARRY ME RIGHT
NOW FOR THE LOVE OF GOD" speech that I have planned ;)

I'm even more nervous now, though laying on couch with her
was absolutley mind numbing, omg, it was wonderful.

Tits- She loves BOC too.

So yeah, most people said play it slow, and just kinda work
through the weird part here after her BF thing, and then it
will be cool.

She loved dinner too :) and my card, which was super lame
but yeah.

btw: I have midterms today I didn't study for cuz of her,
MOTHER FUCKER!!!

I'm much more calm now. This weekend will prolly make me
super nervous again, ........... ah well, I'll burn that
bridge when I cross it.

-------
thanks for all the support everyone, I can 100% say, you
guys are the only reason I sacked up and went after her in
any way, I really appreciate it.


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-07 09:52 [#00431835]
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just make damn sure she's not just placating you with that
idm stuff, cos you could slip up easily if you put on the
wrong cd or track. also don't send TOO many emails... girls
definitely prefer phone calls, even if it's not about
anything.


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 09:55 [#00431839]
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i feel ya tits. Not going to e-mail her back for a little
while, and will prolly call instead.

But she was digging all the rdj stuff, and Boards, well,
I've played her the whole CD twice now, and she loves
MHTRTC

:) Maybe not time for autechre yet though.......


 

offline titsworth from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-11-07 09:57 [#00431842]
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NEVER time for autechre, promise me you won't put that on.

just to clarify, when i say she might be placating you i
mean she might be pretending she likes the music cos she
likes YOU and wants to make you happy. if this is the case,
lots of idm would eventually get on her nerves.


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 10:07 [#00431849]
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blaaaatant
greeat
i wish u all the happiness as possible in your
relationship!!!
(springer style)


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 10:08 [#00431850]
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did u put ventolin?
lol


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 10:11 [#00431851]
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just ask her what music she likes besides idm...

and man try not to make such a fking big deal about it...
just chill down a little and anything'll go a lot better


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 10:14 [#00431855]
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well... ventolin isnt such a bad idea.. she'll probably go
into a spasm so you get to save her life and she'll like you
even more


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 10:18 [#00431863]
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thats it
or yes i know!
try venetian snares, ull get more chances!


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 10:27 [#00431870]
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tits- you could be right, I hope not. I'll let her choose
the music and she what she goes for.

*I do honestly think she like Aphex....I have been known to
be wrong from time to time....*

She likes pretty solid rock music just like me too. She
enjoyed Braid, uhm, well, fuck, a whole bunch of bands that
I like.

-----------
once again, this weekend is going to be a ball of nerves
until I get touch confirmation she is into this.

until then, FUCKING FReAK OUT!!!!!!!

*note: that is really what is going to happen, I can't stop
it, it just happens, some of my neruons aren't connected
right or something....."

The wait for this weekend is killing me! I hope it
lasts.......


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 10:44 [#00431889]
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I need drugs to slow me down.

This is beyond insane. I don't even know where these
emotions come from, cuz I'm usually pretty lazy and shit.

mother fucker, more pressure for this weekend.

so saturday or sunday for the date? And why? She made it
my choice, fuck, I hate choosing.


 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-07 10:52 [#00431904]
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I wonder if she is freaking out and posting all kinds of
message about being nervous about the weekend on a message
board she frequents... that would be funny... :)


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2002-11-07 10:53 [#00431905]
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saturday is 'couples' night


 

offline glass_eater from a blind nerves area (Switzerland) on 2002-11-07 11:14 [#00431942]
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ur in love dirty boy
lol


 

offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-07 11:29 [#00431949]
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I wonder if the number of OMGs will increase in
BlatantEcho's posts now...

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG

:D


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 11:34 [#00431951]
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you want some fenobarbital it makes ppl/animals sooooooo
lazy and chilled and well sedated? i got some left (my cat
is an epileptic µwhahahah)


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 11:56 [#00431971]
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that would make my life :)

I think I'm the only retarded out of the two of is. Man,
she's so fucking cute. Why does she have to be so far away
from me?

mother fucker, I have a midterm today, and I haven't
studied, and it's so worth it.

Saturday says funk , is that true? I need to know! HOLY
SHIT


 

offline Quoth from Sweden on 2002-11-07 11:58 [#00431973]
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why not both nights? :)


 

offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-07 12:08 [#00432000]
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OMG OMG OMG...FUCK FUCK FUCK...

This is a great thread...

;)


 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-07 12:10 [#00432004]
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hehe...

you da man though... everything seems to be going great so
far...


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 12:13 [#00432011]
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this one is already a classic...

congrats btw


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 12:13 [#00432012]
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oooooooooooooooooooh

well, I'd be all up for that, but I don't wanna smother her.
Well I do, in LOVIN.....

ok, yeah, I wrote her an e-mail and said to surprise me, and
that she should call me cuz I would like that, or something
lame..

is that REALLY lame? mother fuck, it might have been, but
she's cool, she won't mind? What if she does.......holy
fuck this shit is making me paranoid
------------------------
Breathing..............
------------------------
ok, I'm going to take more advice and be cool.......be
cool........fucking cool.........cool......FUCK!



 

offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-07 12:16 [#00432021]
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I say we nominate BlantantEcho as xltronic.com's official
Spaz Attacker...

;)


 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2002-11-07 12:19 [#00432025]
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man, really you just gotta relax and be yourself... I know
it's hard, but remember she likes you for you... she knew
you as a friend for ages before this, and she like that
person... just be yourself... don't try to be cool and shit,
cause she'll probably see right through that... and well, if
she sees you like this she'll probably think you're cute and
stuff... :)


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 12:19 [#00432027]
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just act like your normal self, dont try to be different

if she doesnt like you as you are, then she aint the girl
for you


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 12:20 [#00432028]
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fuck that, I want to be nominated as person MOST LIKELY TO
MAKE THIS FUCKING SITUATION WORK OUT.

mother fucker, I doubt I've ever been so worked up about
something I had so little control over
------------------
DaWeeze, that mean I should go out on Saturday or Sunday?


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-11-07 12:20 [#00432029]
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hey thats not fair! you stole my idea!


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-07 12:21 [#00432031]
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ages? no, just since school started. We have seen lots of
each other, talked tons and had good times, but she doesn't
know me like a lifelong friend.

I wish she did, then she would know I'm not usually this
retarded, and it's just cuz i want to hold her for 6 years
straight.


 

offline DaWeeze from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2002-11-07 12:22 [#00432033]
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Saturday, you'll at least have Sunday to recover if
something goes wrong...


 


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