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why does life have this funny(!) habit of like, seeming to go okay for a while, and then just revealing stuff you wish you'd never found out? sorry to get a little "teen-angsty" here, but i just had to ask ?? |
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i know exactly what you mean. three months ago i just got this job on a phone-support company. Now i'm getting fired cuz they lost theyre deal with HP (my department) |
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damn, sorry man :( hope things pan out for you |
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my problem is a bit too ermm...."obvious" lol |
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For me, life is allways like everything seems to be fine and still something ain't right, like something is allways missing and i even dont know what the hell it is...weird shit, can't really explain it. |
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oh yeah, i kinda know what you mean... that's kind of like my situation....i guess(?) lol.....ignore me......i'm too fucked up in the head at the mo! |
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shit happens. you've just got to learn to wipe your arse. |
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heh lol too fucking tired of that |
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Its peaks and troughs lads... cyclic, a cosmic ballet of vast complexity. it's all we have so.. its exciting. You cannot take it too seriously! |
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yeah but my life is an irregular waveform......too many troughs!!! lol isn't that like, scientifically impossible? lol anyways, i just wish i could "un-find out" some things! lol anyone else ever wanted to do that? un-find something out? |
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knowledge allways mean pain |
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but why does it always mean pain? :( |
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if u don't know something, it can't hurt u. as far as u know it, u r exposed. |
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yeah, i guess you're right |
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"yeah but my life is an irregular waveform......too many troughs!!! lol" If you want a synth analogy, mine's white noise... |
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And I'm the Low Freq Oscil |
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fuck that's not good man |
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watched 24PP .. that wheel of fortune analogy is pretty cool - whilst cheesy - might cheer up this teen-angsti-ness ?? |
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life seems to be constant cycles of highs and lows _ you can always say it'll go better when it's going bad, but it's only as true as saying it'll go worse when it's going well. a bit like a rollercoaster, but much less exciting. imho. |
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I was under the impression that life was like a box of chocolates... dark and sweet on the outside... and full of shit inside. Maybe thats a bit negative... |
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lifes a box of cholates.... you always end up with the fucking coffee-creams at the end!!! |
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bend the negative to positive. Manipulate life as much as you can. You make your own rules within your life. Did you find out you've got a big red cone for a head or something btw??? |
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oscillik: exactly what happened to ya? |
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It's never just one thing either ! It's like it's never going to end !! |
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it will end, someday |
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LOL@ big red cone for a head! lol well, i think i've found evidence that my girlfriend of 1year and 3 months is cheating on me and i'm REALLY burned by it |
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PoGo like the Trevor AV lol |
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Man... theres evidence and theres evidence... You HAVE to talk to her about before you accuse her of stuff. Unless you are 1000% sure beyond ANY doubt... or else you'll fuck things forever... trust me! |
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yeah, but the things that have been happening, and everytime she denies it, or says that it's something else anyways, i think she is because i honestly can't see a reason why she'd wanna stay with me, but that's a different story :( jeez, it's getting like bloody Trisha on here! lol |
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I had recently broken up from a long relationship and I hadn't gotten over the girl yet. I met her amongst some friends a couple of weeks later and she was telling detailed storys of how good the 6 rebounds were and totally ignoring my presence. I wish i could un-heard those things, I can barely imagine a greater pain than that. |
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ouch sorry man that's messed up :o( |
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hmmm... Maybe you should follow her, hiding under that bright red cone |
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lol i couldn't even if i didn't have a huge bright red cone glued to my head she lives 2 hrs drive away |
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oh, i forgot to mention - I CAN'T DRIVE and I DON'T HAVE A CAR just so no-one can say "well, go and drive there" |
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take a bus! jk. hope you feel better man. |
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lol wish i could not that easy i'd walk there if i thought i'd make it there alive |
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Break up with her! That way you will be in control ;-) Why should she have the upper hand? Once in your life you should have the upper hand. You have no hand. No hand at all. She has the hand. You have no hand. A man without hand is not a man! Just kidding ofcourse, as you also still seem to be able to laugh about the situation... but it's bad though :-( I hate it when people lie. And especially your loved one! You should be able to trust her no matter what :-/ I honestly hope your suspicions will turn out to be wrong! |
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lol that first paragraph was funny as hell lol sounded really stern too heh yeah, it is bad.....i just wish it were a bad dream...but wishes never come true.....not for very long they don't anyways thanks man i really appreciate that |
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Well... sometimes when you are suspecting someone of something, you can get a little paranoid. And you start to interpret every little innocent detail as a sign that proves she's cheating on you. Everytime you think about it you convince yourself a little more that she is cheating on you... until you have no more doubt and are sure she is. But you might still be wrong... i know nothing of your situation, so i can't really judge... i'm just saying don't jump to any conclusions unless you're absolutely sure. And then i think you have to ask yourself if you are able to forgive her and trust her again if you were somehow to find out she really is cheating on you :-/ It's tough... i can only wish you good luck and lots of wisdom. |
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Yes, I know how it can be, I used to get really paranoid about it, but in the end decided all I could do was trust. Shame that it wasn't reciprocated really, my ex claims one of the reasons she dumped me was because she couldn't force herself to believe I wasn't cheating on her (I wasn't) even though she knew deep down I wouldn't... It's a pain really, unless you're with her 24hrs a day or trust her implicitly, you'll never no for sure. |
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yes... you have to be able to trust your partner, otherwise no relationship has any chance of ever lasting. But it can be really hard i guess. There is no way of knowing 100% for sure, so you've got to believe and trust in your partner. On the other hand... in a good relationship i think this is a thing of beauty :-) Two people who love each other so much, they can trust and rely on each other completely! That is an awesome feeling... but it takes time to get that far. |
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My ex allways jokingly threatened me she wanted to score another guy. That joke is funny a few times, but when I was fed up with that, I gave her 20 euro's or something and told her to go out, get drunk and score a guy. I drove off then. If you're bluffin, be prepared to call your bluff *grinz* |
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Did she? |
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this was your EX, you say..? |
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She didnt actually, cause I knew she was teasing, but she went too far in that sometimes. She got kinda upset by that. Later on things just didnt work out. So I'm single again, and allthough I'd love to have a girl, and I put up a shitload of desperate topics, I'm quite happy right now. |
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there is no love like the love of a mans own hand |
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My help in lonely days... http://www.henryvac.co.uk |
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I know, even if a partner is just joking, it still hurts. It sows seeds of doubt. Still, in the spirit of one-upsmanship, you can say, "Look I'm sorry, I've been seeing your mother." When they inevitably break down into tears you can say, "Don't worry, I was just winding you up." Actually, maybe that'd be too cruel :P |
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heh. Wanted to teach her a lesson,she had more things like that. BUt anyways, we see eachother once in a while and its like Hi - hi how are things, great....silence... Buhhh Going home now, be back later tonight maybe |
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