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I met a girl over 2 years ago, at an art school. She was seeing someone else at that time, and i was completely cool with that. We became great friends, and joked a lot and such, and i even liked her boyfriend quite a lot. She broke up with him a year ago, and we continued our platonic relationship in spite of that. Just having a nice, platonic relationship, that was really magical. 3 months ago we slept together. We where very drunk. It was kind of shitty, as she had her period that day, and i ended up pissing out her blood the next day (i have no idea how this happened, but it did) I called her the next day, to say that we should just continue being friends, and she agreed. It was just drunken stupidity we said. (that same day, i was with another girl, and almost got beaten up because of it) After that, the friendship was still magical, but also had the dimension, that we kissed occasionally. Only while drunk, mind you. I then became more and more fond of her (these last 3 months) and we saw each other more and more. I eventually falled in love with her. New years eve, she hooked up with this danish celebrity. An ugly motherfucker, but he's a rich musician. I was jelaous as never before in my life. She calls me up to say, that she doesnt really like him, and she want's to break up and so forth. I'm happy. I invite her over to a dinner today, to tell her how i feel. I cook some nice dinner and, buy some wine etc. Candles, and all that shit. I call her up, because shes late. No-one answers. I then get a call later, wich train she should take next. Everything seems to be alright. When the door buzzer buzzes, i just finished cooking dinner. When she comes in, she is crying, and fucking bleeding out of her mouth, and has a blue eye. She spends 2 minutes on the bathroom using toilet paper to wipe up her blood. Apparently, things get fucking bloody and dramatic with this chick. A dude that had tried to make passes at her before, that she obviously denied,had spotted her today, and |
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A dude that had tried to make passes at her before, that she obviously denied,had spotted her today, and punched her several times in the face. FUCK. What the fuck do you say in a situation like that? i'm dumbstruck. I don't know what to say to her. We either talk about the incident, or stupid shit that has nothing to do with anything. We drink some wine. I hold her. She cries. I cried a while ago. She wen't home 15 minutes ago. I'm messed up right now. To much to think about. This world is fucked up. |
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I did read the rest of the story, but it didn't really register after the pissing menstrual blood bit. |
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Holy shit man, call the police. |
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We will, we will. Her dad is an police officer. |
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fucked up! i hope someone will teach that fucker a propper lesson!!! |
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Yeah thats fucked up. But wait.... you pissed out HER blood? Thats just not right. |
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I'm sorry... |
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She's my new avatar, if you're curious. Not the fucking owl cat, if you're still seing that... |
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That's fucked up indeed. And it happened today. Good thing to get that of your chest right away! |
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I'm so glad to see xltronic come together without the sarcy bullshit, when things go to shit. You people are all decent. Thank you. |
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If I was you...I would find out who this cat is and teach him a proper lesson.... Let him have a nice steel toed boot to the ribs and than ask him how he likes hitting women.... Just when hes about to answer....answer for him with a punt to the jaw. |
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yeah but did you tell her you loves her? i thought that was where this story was going |
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That pretty much sums up my feelings right now. But fuck. Being in love with a woman thats just wants to be your friend, that just got beaten up. Not ideal. |
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Harsh, very sorry to hear about this DirtyPriest. |
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I sort of in a sneaky way did, and she doesnt want me in that way, i believe. Fuck. |
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i guess you'll both have to learn and live with the knowledge bad people like this exist. and hope and work for this guys arrest |
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damn... that really is fucked up : ( it's a good thing her father is a police officer i guess... but i especially hope that she'll be able to recover/get over it. my thoughts are with her and you anyway. |
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well, it seems that she likes you too, isnt it? she tolds you about the other guy and you both shared an intense experience... youre on the right way imo... but what is that of pissing her blood? i fucked thousands of time with a girl while her on period and i had no problems, just some blood over me and thats all... |
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Violence isn't going to solve anything; don't let people like IronLung vicariously live out their darkness through you. All you can do is be supportive and let the police deal with the other guy. |
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Again, i'm glad to see some support from this fucked up messageboard. Keeps me from feeling completely fucking alone. Listening to Sigur Ros now... I can't recall crying in the last 5 years or something. Today breaks that streak... |
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try it properly, when she hasnt just been lamped, cause it sounds like youd be in with a good chance to me |
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Thats a mystery as well. I can't figure it out. I guess i was in her, and didn't ejaculate or some shit... |
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couldnt it be your own blood, an internal hound of something? misterymistery... it was a bit embarassing but i liked being covered with blood after a good fucking... aaah good times are gone, man... just take care of her |
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in any situation, i'd say find this guy and kick his ass, but if her dad is a police officer, i'm sure he'll be glad to do that for you. sorry to hear about the drama. hope things get better for you. |
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I think the biggest thing on her mind was that she had been beaten up. I don't think you can rely on the way she reacted to you telling her you love her in a round about kind of way tonight, as being how she really feels. As Dannnnnnnn said, try talking to her properly about it in a few days when she's calmed down a little bit. The very fact that she still came round to see you and trusted you enough to hold her and to confide in you after something so traumatic, shows that she thinks very dearly of you. Don't be too disheartened, and make sure that you concentrate on her for a while, as opposed to how you feel. That will keep your mind off feeling sorry for yourself at least, and will show how much you care for her, and make you very appealing to her. |
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That's probably the best advice i could have asked for. Coming from a girl, i really believe that. Thank you so much. |
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thats some shit right there |
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It's my pleasure sweetheart. It was just an amalgomation of the advice that everyone had given! I'm glad it helped you though. Don't stress and good luck x |
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Thanks... yeah, i guess youre right. It's just different to hear it from a woman. I suppose you know what you are talking about. |
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it's not only that... your advice contains exclusive conclusions wich would never bring up from male minds! |
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i certainly feel validated by female approval |
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lets all fucking gang up on the motherfucker that hit her. i'll be there playing some IDM in a stereo |
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yeah, i'm with svalx and marlowe on this one.. as for the pissing blood bit, i'm not joking around, get yourself checked out.. that's not normal.. i hope everything works out alright for you two. I really wouldn't see this as a tragedy: it might be very traumatic for both of you, especially herself, but ultimately it'll bring you two closer together. |
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I've never been in a situation like that really, where a female friend was beaten up, but I imagine there's really nothing you can do but be there for her. Probably don't even have to talk much, just let her know you're always there for her. And yeah, I'd say leave it to the cops as well. If you went after the guy it'd probably do more harm then good. |
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I was in a long distance relationship and when my girlfriend would visit her period would alwyas hit. I would still fuck her, but it got messy. Reeally messy. Didn't piss her blood though. |
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you guys really shouldn't get so graphic though... kinda gross! :P |
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I was with a girl that liked a lot of drama too. In that situation though, those wierd bruises and mouth bleeding and stuff ended up being her boyfriend/roomate who I thought they were platonic. Maybe theres a chance her bf found out she was having dinner with you and he got jelous? If that is the case, there is a chance she won't tell you because she doesn't want you to feel responsible, so she may make up a story about some guy on the street. Now, given the situation, I would put my money on that before what she told you. |
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you know marlowe, you shouldnt be saying stuff like: "don't let people like IronLung vicariously live out their darkness through you.".... you know nothing about me. I am not one to just go kicking peoples ass, in fact I am a very non-violent person...but there was a line that was crossed here, especially if it involves someone you truly care about. If the woman I cared about and loved got her face punched by some guy, then all bets are OFF...thats the time when that man needs to have his clock cleaned atleast for good measure...I cannot stand it when guys beat down on women and I think its a really pussy thing to do...Ok so her dad is a cop and I am sure he will be able to go thru the proper channels to see that this guy is arrested, but in the meantime, he deserves an ass whipping plain and simple. Once and done with...Im not saying stalk the guy and kick his ass repeatedly, just a once over.... Fuck him he's scum.... Dirty Priest I hope everything works out with this situation and the guy gets whats coming to him.... Good Luck man. |
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I see where you are coming from. I seriously doubt that he's the one responsible tho, he's not that kind of guy. In fact, i really think thats impossible. I actually felt extremely bonded to her already. We have seen a lot of good shit, and some bad shit together. Travelling etc. If i end up with her or not, i care about her to an extent i've really never felt before. Now more than ever. Thank you all. |
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Sounds pretty shitty... But my feeling from your post is that in the end you will be able to tell her how you feel about her and she will likely recipricate. If she can't accept the "nice guy" type then she's bound to keep living in these destructive circles (not that getting beat was in any way her fault though) until she's a single mom waitressing somewhere with dark circles under her eyes and an addiction to alcohol, while the "nice guy" she should have ended up with is happily married with 2 kids by the age of 35. In the end it would be her loss. Good luck to ya |
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I wouldnt say she's in a destructive circle. As i said, i met the guy she was dating back at the art school, and he was actually a nice guy, and i actually had some fun with him. She just has this personality that attracts trouble for some odd reason. |
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That's some tangled up stuff DirtyPriest. I can't really make a usefull comment as you've been given some good advises already. I just hope you are feeling a bit better this morning. Visit your doctor.. pissing blood is not normal. |
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I'm just grueling a bit for that doctors visit. I have a feeling it might as well be the script for an Episode of Curb your enthusiasm. How on earth do you say that to a doctor? The odd thing is i wasnt really in love with her, at the time we banged. It came later. |
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my mother is a doctor and she is used to the most weird stories in the universe! tell the truth and don't worry about that. i feel there is going to be a happy ending :) you seem to be sincerely being at her side. |
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PS this red avatar just make me remember of the period... you should put a better picture! anyway i love the cat-owl and miss him. |
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You can say it just like you did in here... it's for your own good. |
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screw it and just see a doctor! and um, you've had some good advice here. best of luck to you! |
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Hahaha. That actually made me laugh! Yeh, i guess i just wanted to let you get a glimpse of her pretty face. I suppose i should be happy that she's alright. I should be happy that i know someone so special. I didn't make a point out of this, but the reason i adore her, is she's this supergeek, trapped inside this frail beautiful body. She fucking likes Battlestar galactica, futurama, computer games and Judge Dredd comics. At the same time, people turn their heads on the street to see her. I seriously doubt that i will ever meet anyone else i have this sort of connection to. |
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indeed, that's a hard to find combination! |
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