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offline Mertens from Motor City (United States) on 2005-08-18 08:20 [#01699293]
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I was going to say that, yes, I am slightly pissed about
all the nigger comments and jokes pop up occasionaly. I just
wanted to show what that word means to me. As they say, a
picture is worth a thousand words.


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:21 [#01699295]
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yeah that wasnt fair.


 

offline _gvarek_ from next to you (Poland) on 2005-08-18 08:22 [#01699298]
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black people seem to be less tolerant then white people
these days


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:22 [#01699299]
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i just don't get..why do afro americans always make such a
big deal about it..they/you should know better. we're all
just people..jav


 

offline nacmat on 2005-08-18 08:23 [#01699302]
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mertens is a nigga?


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:25 [#01699306]
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yeah i can see that. I get called "cracker" and "Honkey" and
"stupid white boy" from time to time depending on the area
that i am in.

I think its funny though. "honkey" really makes me LOL


 

offline nacmat on 2005-08-18 08:26 [#01699310]
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why honkey?

where does it come from?


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-08-18 08:26 [#01699311]
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in case you haven't noticed, "cracker" and "honkey" aren't
words that bear the stigma of hundreds of years of slavery
and oppression. so they have different fucking meanings.


 

offline Mertens from Motor City (United States) on 2005-08-18 08:26 [#01699312]
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Less tolerant? Could you explain please?


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:28 [#01699314]
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well exactly.


 

offline _gvarek_ from next to you (Poland) on 2005-08-18 08:28 [#01699315]
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it's somehow justifiable, but I don't know....


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:29 [#01699316]
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they were fcuked in the past..why do they have to make such
a big deal out of it? im pretty sure that everyone knows
what was going on, and it was wrong, and we all feel sorry
that happened. but when will all this stop? how is this
constant remembering helping?


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-08-18 08:29 [#01699317]
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i think it's really shit how some of you have been throwing
around racist comments like it's ok. it's not ok. it may
be "just a word" to you, but it's extremely offensive to
others. and don't give me that shit about free speech and
what a "nigger" is. obviously you can say the word, but
don't expect people to love you for saying it.


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:30 [#01699318]
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to put it oversimplified: the word keeps being used - hence
it keeps being remembered.


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-08-18 08:31 [#01699319]
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maybe it's different in the states than in slovenia, but
using language like that here can evoke a very recent and
frightening hatred.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:32 [#01699320]
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ok, perhaps it's just me, but i can't be offended that
easilly. you can call me anything and i just won't care..


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:32 [#01699321]
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yeah, i just can't see it why..it's just a word..


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:33 [#01699322]
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also, it's not as if black people are now on the same level
as, for example, white people.

in some way or other a lot of that is a consequence of the
past - it is good to remember what happened in the past that
helped create the current situation, to help to understand
it.

you know, that whole thing of the past helping us to
understand the present.


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-08-18 08:34 [#01699324]
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well, it may be hard to understand if one not been hated for
the color of one's skin.


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:34 [#01699325]
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I wonder if you know a word that has the same connotations
attached to it, though, the same kind of history.


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2005-08-18 08:35 [#01699326]
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you're either black or white or brown or yellow or whatever.
it really doesn't fucking matter. why do people continue to
give a shit.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:35 [#01699327]
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yeah definitely. but they have equal rights now, but they're
still not ok with it. i hate the fact that you must be
careful of the words you pick when a black person is
present..


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:36 [#01699328]
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Nigger in its original context meant "ignorant fool". People
dont like being coined terms such as "fag". But instead of
saying nigger they actually said "fool" or something else it
would be racist today.

I dont know. I dont find anything really racist. i am not. I
dont see the point in labeling people based on skin colors.
I do use the word to show a difference in actions though as
i explained in another thread.

I dont know i think Edward Norton hit it on the head
"Slavery ended 157 years ago. Move the fuck on"

Why should anyone focus on the past? Its good to know
history but we should focus on the now. Its like you dont
see the jews making a big deal when we and if we call them
jews and theyve been oppressed since like the dawn of time
and shit.

my point? although i understand the meaning behind that word
i feel as though many various cultures have endured shit.
One situation is not better or more significant then
another.

i dont know.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:37 [#01699329]
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i don't think a 20 year old african american has the history
in mind when you say 'nigger' in a small talk. just silly to
think that. IMO


 

offline _gvarek_ from next to you (Poland) on 2005-08-18 08:37 [#01699330]
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Sorry, I don't want to enter a in-depth discussion, I don't
feel competent enough, for I don't know any black
people in person.

Only an impression...

It's the same old "constant remembering" issue with Jews.
Another example: We, Poles are often (still) hostile to
Germans, and so on...


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-08-18 08:37 [#01699331]
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SORRY

i just wanted to make a joke -- the fact that the AFRICAN
AMERICAN was bound to a wheelchair was also integral to the
joke. "the nigger in the wheelchair". it's exhibiting
ignorance at both ends of the sentence.

a few people found it funny. i'm glad it made people laugh.
none of these people are racist, i am certain, and I for one
am certainly not a racist. I do also understand and
recognise the connotations attached to this word -- and
these were essential to the joke.

the joke was about ignorance. "the nigger in the
wheelchair". it's a completely ignorant and dickheaded thing
to say, that's what made it funny. So I wrote it. And people
found it funny.


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2005-08-18 08:38 [#01699332]
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the grammar in that post was a bit shoddy


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:38 [#01699333]
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"but they have equal rights now, but they're still not ok
with it."


and that's where I have to disagree with you.

they seemingly have.


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2005-08-18 08:38 [#01699334]
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nigger meaning fool?

never come across that one. I've always believed it's a
variation of "negro". Which makes a lot more sense.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:39 [#01699335]
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yeah, totally depends on the context.


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:39 [#01699337]
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I don't think this is about one instance in particular, more
the ease with which it is used.


 

offline Mertens from Motor City (United States) on 2005-08-18 08:39 [#01699338]
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YOU make me remember when you use that word! The stigma
attached to it will NEVER go away. It's easy to say 'quit
your bitching' or 'get over it' but I can't as long as that
word and the attitude behind it remains. How can I make you
understand this?


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:40 [#01699339]
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can you give an example then? :)


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:40 [#01699340]
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I speak it better than i type it. I am also still fucked up
from yesterday. I hope i dont get a hangover. haha!

I got an idea. How about the african americans stop using
the word aswell. If it ends it should end for everyone.
Since we are all the same.


 

offline r40f from qrters tea party on 2005-08-18 08:41 [#01699341]
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racism didn't end recently - it's still very real.
and calling a black person a nigger still bears the
connotation of hate.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:42 [#01699343]
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you can't im affraid. something i just can't comprehend. for
me it's just a word, although it depends on how it's being
used i suppose. many words can sound very offensive to me
when used in an offensive context.


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699345]
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uhm i'm sure there are as many darkies who are offended by
the word nigger as their are white people. i'm sure they
don't all use it. you can't make that presumption.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699346]
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yeah, kinda funny that - it's ok for them to be calling
eachother nigger, but when a white person says it iit get's
offensive. so much for history..


 

offline plaidzebra from so long, xlt on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699347]
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from another perspective, i think that in many ways western
culture has strongly embraced many aspects of so-called
"black culture." in so many ways, "black culture" is seen
as a hallmark of cool. some african-americans historically
defused the sting of the slur by appropriating the word for
themselves, calling each other "nigger" within their own
social circles. now as "black culture" has been so strongly
embraced, many people who are not african-american feel more
comfortable in using the word as african-americans might;
not as a slur or an insult, but in the same way other people
might say "dude" or "man," but with a hip, urban and
slightly transgressive quality.

i'm not saying it's right or wrong or that anyone has to
like it, but honestly if an african-american calls someone
who is not african-american "nigger" (and i swear it
happens) , it would (in certain contexts) be a tremendous
compliment.

the word is also used very lightly in extremely popular
television programs like chappelle's show. it's working
it's way towards popular acceptance, and will probably end
up completely divorced from its origin as a racial slur.


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699348]
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Jesus guys, respect the darkie before he joins up with the
spics and rules america


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699349]
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Its hard for me to grasp this (with all due respect). I can
understand if you or someone you know that is alive went
through some sort of hate crime and you heard about it first
hand or experienced it yourself.

But its hard for me to think that something that is in the
past can effect someone that didnt have to deal with the
horrors that occured. I am not trying to downplay anything
here but i am just giving my honest view.

No offense intended!


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699350]
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yes that was a fucking joke btw


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2005-08-18 08:43 [#01699351]
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and I said I don't think you have the same field of
reference - do you have a word that has the same kind of
very negative historical background that still echoes in
modern society?

this does not mean that everytime you hear that word you
have to stand still and rethink the whole historic path of
the word - the word gets ingrained with the historic
knowledge.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:46 [#01699352]
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ok, why do young black people use that word so often then?
because they enjoy being miserable?


 

offline stilaktive from a place on 2005-08-18 08:46 [#01699353]
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"Nigger. Nigger. Nigger
Nigger. Nigger
Nigger, please
I'm treated like a fuckin disease.
You say: why can I call myself a nigger so quick?
Cause I can reach in my draws and pull out a bigger dick
Yo! niggers say nigger we cool"

NWA make me want to say the n word in your face


 

offline Mertens from Motor City (United States) on 2005-08-18 08:47 [#01699355]
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"Its like you dont
see the jews making a big deal when we and if we call them
jews and theyve been oppressed since like the dawn of time
and shit."

Jew is not a derogatory term. Call one a kike and see what
happens. And they do make a big deal about the holucaust and
rightfully so. Fuck, think of all the hollywood movies
dealing with the subject, the many holocaust museums and
anti-semitism organazations around.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:48 [#01699357]
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hollywood is crap. luckly there's oprah show. she keeps
people well informed about the opression against black
people.


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:51 [#01699362]
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I know some jews and saying something like "fuckin jew" with
extreme disgust will be offensive but rightfully so. We do
it for shits and giggles. We bust each others balls like
that. Then the jew tells Jesus jokes and such. Its more or
less lighthearted.

I know black people like that. I just grew up different. I
grew up with people that didnt give a shit about a word if
it was lighthearted joking style.

So that would kind of sort of explain my attitude on this.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2005-08-18 08:51 [#01699364]
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it's funny how america seems to be the only country raising
those issues..


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2005-08-18 08:51 [#01699365]
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fuck that "woman power" bullshit feminist crap. makes me
sick. you go girlfriend


 


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