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DeLtoiD
from Ontario on 2005-06-14 00:57 [#01631933]
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when your gF is kissing girls in front of you and won't let you join?
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-14 01:02 [#01631934]
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I work in a job that I get a bunch of stupid questions every day. I am expected to answer the stupid questions honestly, with a smile on my face. That is probly one of the stupidest questions I have heard lately (considering that you made a brand new thread about it).
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-06-14 01:07 [#01631935]
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why dont you kiss boys in front of your gf and she if she thinks it is cheating.
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DeLtoiD
from Ontario on 2005-06-14 01:07 [#01631936]
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y'know what's even stupider?
when someone attempts to sound somewhat smart about something they have no idea about and does the following:
a) doesn't answer b) can only bitch about how stupid it is without an honestly good reason about it.
let me clarify. answer the question... don't whine about it. i just want to know your opinion about the subject. period.
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DeLtoiD
from Ontario on 2005-06-14 01:08 [#01631937]
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hah. i was thinking of doing that...
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2005-06-14 01:16 [#01631939]
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i wouldnt buzz off it at all. how does it make u feel?
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-14 01:34 [#01631942]
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I just thought you sounded like you were 'cleverly' bragging by hiding it under a sincere question, something I hate practically more than any other cheap means of trying to get attention. If this is the case, then I felt your question wasn't worth an answer because it was stupid.
It is actually was a sincere question, then my answer would be no, its not cheating. She's not going behind your back, therefore their is no deception. Altho if it bothers you, you should talk to her about it, because she's probly a pretty shitty girlfriend.
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-14 01:37 [#01631943]
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Seriously, I thought you were bragging. If you weren't, then I appologize.
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2005-06-14 01:51 [#01631947]
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I'd say the fact that it occured right in front of you makes it slightly less shitty than cheating, but it still seems weak that she wouldn't let you in on the action.
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-06-14 01:52 [#01631950]
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bun in the oven
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2005-06-14 01:53 [#01631953]
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doesn't that mean pregnant?
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2005-06-14 01:54 [#01631955]
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not in the bakery it doesnt
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2005-06-14 01:57 [#01631960]
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hahah, touche
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:05 [#01632038]
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you mean like this? if so then no, as long as she doent leave you for a chick, i told my significant other, she could fuck another chick, and i still wount consider it cheating.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:08 [#01632042]
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it depends. Is she bi? if so then yes I wouold say it was
If she's only doing it for a laff, playing up for the crowd so to speak then no
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:10 [#01632045]
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even if she is bi, as long as she isnt planning on leaving the dude, i wouldnt classify it as cheating - can two women really have sex?, i mean they can get down with each other, but not have actual sex.
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giginger
from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2005-06-14 03:16 [#01632047]
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My ex used to do it. At first I thought it was funny then it just happened all the time and then they all started having showers together and doing other things no doubt. I was starting to get pissed off in the end.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:20 [#01632050]
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my ex did it all the time, and it didnt bother me -sometimes i would get to join in: until she left me for a chick - but i still say that it is not cheating and its fine unless the girl is planning on leaving you for the other chick.
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-06-14 03:22 [#01632052]
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This is the post the "touche" in this thread belongs to.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:25 [#01632054]
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'douche'
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:33 [#01632061]
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I dissagree
Would you say the same if she was going out and kissing men but not planning on leaving you?
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:36 [#01632063]
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i dont think that way - if she wants to get laid but another chick thats fine - but if she wants to get emotionally involved with another chick and stop dating me - thats where i draw the line, with another guy, i wouldnt care if a chick i was only causually dating was with other guys, but not my exclusive girlfriend - thats the difference.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:37 [#01632065]
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but you wouldent mind your exclusive bi girlfriend being with other girls?
That makes no sense!
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:39 [#01632066]
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no i really dont - its doesnt bother me - maybe its a male vs male thing
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SValx
from United Kingdom on 2005-06-14 03:40 [#01632069]
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Just because she's doing it in front of you doesn't mean she isn't cheating. Going by that theory, it wouldn't be cheating if she was kissing another guy, as long as you could see?! I think what determines whether she's cheating or not is whether you are happy about it. If you're not and she knows it and continues to do it, then no it's not on. If she knows it gets you off then she's probably doing it for your benefit. If you don't like it, talk to her about it. If you do then just enjoy it!
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:40 [#01632070]
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ONE penis per relationship 8)
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:43 [#01632074]
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ahem
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:43 [#01632075]
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LAZY_TITLE
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:45 [#01632080]
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you can have as many of those as you want
and also these LAZY_TITLE
but only one of these LAZY_TITLE
thats just me though :(
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 03:49 [#01632086]
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What if another girl was using it on your girlfriend and it was bigger than yours?
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 03:52 [#01632088]
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thats fine, i dont really mind it - whatever gets her off - i am secure in the fact that she wants to be with me so she must enjoy the sex with me.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:00 [#01632100]
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then it should be fine to do it with a bloke then if you think like that surely?
If she's bi then she's just as easy to like a girl as much as another man, so the male male envy thing should be the same
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Taxidermist
from Black Grass on 2005-06-14 04:02 [#01632104]
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Its his double standard. If he's comfortable with it thats fine.
He probly likes girl on girl action.
Personally, I don't mind if my girlfriend has sex with another person. As long as she doesn't get too into them. I fell in love with her for reasons other than sex, and a little sex with someone else is not going to change that.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:06 [#01632110]
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well i dont actually have a problem with my girl being with another guy, i just would stop being her boyfriend - exclusively - thats the whole reason i am saying, i would view it as cheating if it were with another guy but not another woman - the whole exclusive thing - and its not so much i like girl on girl - because i wouldnt even have to be there - i just dont see a girl being with another girl as cheating.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:06 [#01632111]
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oh yeah, nothing wrong with it don't get me wrong, I'm not having a go or anything, just trying to understand =o) As long as everyone is happy then that's the main thing
People's minds work in different ways at the end of the day
imo I couldnt even have a 3some with my partner, even with another guy
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:08 [#01632115]
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it has more to do with the nature of an exclusive relationship than anything - i girl would have to be exclusively with me, a man, in order to continue the exclusive relationship - but she would be with other women and still remain exclusive to me, its just how i feel.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:09 [#01632118]
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that's crazy
You're gonna be a pushover to bi girls everywhere. Sorry but it's true
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:09 [#01632120]
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and dont get me wrong, its not like i encourage it - if she feels the urge to do it or is into it, then i dont mind or get all insecure about it.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:10 [#01632122]
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well i wouldnt be a pushover, because its not like i have a problem with it or that they are doing it behind my back - i really dont care, i dont see it as cheating.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:15 [#01632125]
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plus, i have been dumped or whatever by my girl for another girl, and i do have a problem with that - i would let my girlfriend know that - its not like i am sitting at home while my girl is out getting gang banged by the local lesbian or bi - its more of an understanding you have the other person. if you are close with someone, and you already know that they go the other way, you should realize they are not going to stop. now if a girl never went that way in the first place and all of sudden she wants to experiement...that might be a little much.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:15 [#01632126]
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Yeah, but they'd be like "This is great! I can get some dick of my boyf and have a fiddle with any girl I like and he won't care!"
It wouldn't be an exclusive relationship then cause she'll be getting intamate with other people
If I were going out with a bi guy, then the rules would stay the same as with a straight guy, nobody else but me, exclusive
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-06-14 04:19 [#01632130]
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Ahh, yes, I see there is a lot of deep profound thought (on this unfortunately stupid subject.)
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:19 [#01632131]
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i see what your saying - you see the exclusiveness indepent of the sex of the other person - you see the relationship in terms of comitting to each other - thats fine - would i marry a bi person - hell no - but i would date a bi person and carry on a relationship with a bi person.
so maybe i see marriage like you see an exclusive relationship.
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:21 [#01632132]
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well them what do you think of it? if youve got something to say, then say it.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:23 [#01632134]
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aye that sounds about right =o)
Personaly I think your crazy but that's not an issue ;oD
xxx
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mrgypsum
on 2005-06-14 04:25 [#01632136]
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eh, most of my friends have the same viewpoint as you, so i think youre crazy too :D
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2005-06-14 04:25 [#01632137]
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yay!
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2005-06-14 04:30 [#01632140]
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Let's just all ignorantly bliss ourselves with sex. Humanity is an unstoppable wall of fuck ups. That's why I'm manufacturing a strain of replicating robotic land crocodiles to keep us all in check. This post is coherent insightful an dfoa oijg algj alfg agjg ad SHTU UP WHOS TALKING TO ME WH AOITJ OE WOI TOWE O NO
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
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