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do women like gays as men like lesbians?
 

offline nacmat on 2004-05-02 05:46 [#01169943]
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do gays excite women as much a slesbians excite men?

do women dream of fucking with two gay men as we dream of
fucking with two lesbians?

if no, why?


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2004-05-02 05:47 [#01169947]
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I don't dream of fucking two lesbians


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2004-05-02 05:54 [#01169949]
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Lesbians are sexy. Gay men aren't. Simple.


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-05-02 05:56 [#01169951]
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I have no idea why not, but I have a feeling that women do
not dream of getting slamdunked by two gay men (and if the
men are gay they are most likely not interested in banging a
woman).
Weirdly a girl I made out with the other night was
appearantly quite lesbian, her friend had never seen her
with a dude, well before I showed up. That was one scary
evening with loads of alcohol, btw.


 

offline dariusgriffin from cool on 2004-05-02 06:00 [#01169952]
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This will reach 100. At least.


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2004-05-02 06:01 [#01169953]
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"slamdunked"

Ha!


 

offline Doomed Puppy from on and off and on and off and on 2004-05-02 06:03 [#01169954]
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And where have any of you seen these.... "women". I keep
hearing about them all the time. I thought people here
reproduce with each other.


 

offline k_maty on 2004-05-02 06:06 [#01169956]
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SERIOUS THREAD

Guys, please, stop ruining this thread.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-05-02 06:16 [#01169961]
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i had a discussion about this with 3 girls couple of years
ago...one of them was saying that for her it seems less
weird to see two girls together as two guys...so the other
two called her a potential lesbian. these other two said
it's the same for them to see two girls or two guys
together. personally i prefer lesbians...


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 06:25 [#01169966]
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Women aren't as visually driven as men when it comes to sex,
also their natural motivation for having sex is, in general,
different to a mans as well. So in answer to your question,
no, women aren't as attracted to gay man sex and men are to
(fake because lesbians in real life never look so good)
lesbian sex.

(This opinion comes from discussions I have had over the
year with various bitches and sluts).


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2004-05-02 07:12 [#01169979]
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let's "ask doctor ruth"


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 07:17 [#01169984]
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Women fantasise about being raped more than lesbian sex or
sex with two gay men.

FACT.


 

offline Sido Dyas from a computer on 2004-05-02 07:20 [#01169985]
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I think many women fantasize abouty gay men.
Why shouldn't they ?
Many Gay men look very good in a super clean latest trendy
hairdo kind of way.



 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-05-02 07:26 [#01169989]
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ohh, and their bodies!! uhh


 

offline hepburnenthorpe from sydney (Australia) on 2004-05-02 07:48 [#01169998]
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are'nt lesbians gays?


 

offline nacmat on 2004-05-02 10:29 [#01170012]
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I mean:

gays: men
lesbians: women

and all of them are homosexual


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 10:33 [#01170013]
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...says the man in the pink cap


 

offline nacmat on 2004-05-02 10:37 [#01170015]
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my parents still think I am gay.... even though I have a
girlfriend for the last 4 years


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-05-02 10:40 [#01170018]
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not wearing pink, might help you there...unless you want
them to think that ofcourse.


 

offline nacmat on 2004-05-02 10:48 [#01170024]
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anyway lee´s answer cleared up the matter


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 10:51 [#01170027]
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he's keeping his options open just in case


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-05-02 10:52 [#01170028]
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haha, nice thinking...not to shock them, in case...nice!


 

offline nacmat on 2004-05-02 10:56 [#01170033]
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exactly... I have a couple of hansome friends i feel very
tempted about


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2004-05-02 11:52 [#01170066]
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I don't find any REAL lesbians I've seen sexy but lesbians
in pornos, I do, but they're not realistic. I'm sure a lot
fewer men would want to have sex with two women, who could
well be butch, that were into women and women only. Gay men
do not turn me on at all because a lot of them are too
feminine and remind me too much of women. Masculine men are
much better in my opinion!


 

offline hepburnenthorpe from sydney (Australia) on 2004-05-02 12:40 [#01170109]
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my present girlfriend is bi, and for a while there (4 years)
she would only see women. so, i suggest she may have been
lesbian (if that is at all possible) and i find her DAMN
attractive.

she also has lots of gay guy friends, all of which she loves
dearly but finds there campness a huge turn off. lets face
it, gay men are only attractive to gay men. women who like
men like there men to be men.

of course this is all just from my observations/experience.


 

offline pOgO from behind your belly button fluff on 2004-05-02 13:37 [#01170177]
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some women are in to it, but it's rare


 

offline uzim on 2004-05-02 13:41 [#01170185]
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little-known fact #9745:

adding "FACT." at the end of a sentence doesn't really make
it more likely to be believed; it just seems to.


 

offline uzim on 2004-05-02 13:51 [#01170199]
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for the men fantasying about having sex with lesbians: do
you imagine yourself as a man or as a woman in this fantasy?


 

offline ElectroMuse from New York, LES. (Chile) on 2004-05-02 14:34 [#01170251]
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i love gay men, they r sexy, its nice to watch them kissing
each other i dont think i have any fantasy about it, i dont
dream about fucking 2 gay guys at the same time, but i like
them, at least in my country they r quite good looking,
while heterosexuals are kinda rude and ugly. imo


 

offline rongEnemy from Atlanta (United States) on 2004-05-02 18:27 [#01170443]
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who wants candy?


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-05-02 18:30 [#01170446]
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that question deserves a topic itself.
go create one!


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 18:30 [#01170447]
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candy who?


 

offline rongEnemy from Atlanta (United States) on 2004-05-02 18:33 [#01170450]
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candy on patrol


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2004-05-02 19:13 [#01170500]
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Women (afaik) don't find the prospect of two men fucking
appealing. In genberal terms anyway.
They are often attracted to gay men as... well gay men look
after their appearance.

Also a lotta lotta women are curious about bisexuality anhd
aren't as repulsed by lesbian sex as they pretend to be ;-)

My question is: if someone finds people in their own sex
attractive, how come they end up acting ..... a bit liek the
other sex (ie generic gay men are more feminine that hetero
men and generic lesbians sometimes are like.... trucker
dykes).

Coz like, if a lesbian is attracted to women and wants ot
attract another lesbian, shouldn't she do it by acting very
feminine instead of getting a big mullet and looking
manish?



 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 19:15 [#01170506]
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You are just assuming that sexual attraction is purely a
physical attraction...which isn't the case all all. The
physical aspect obviously is important to an extent but it
also has a lot to o with mental connections.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 19:17 [#01170511]
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limahl was a lesbian


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2004-05-02 19:23 [#01170520]
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I know I know I'm simplifying it a LOT because man if we
went into all the factors behind it we'd never have the time
to explain the question itself let alone the answer.

There's also the whole sexual attraction subconciously based
on fitness hunter/gatherer roles etc which brings death to
conversations (whenever people ask me about it I end up
having to explain it all and it takes hours believe me -
I've watched a lot of dicumentaries and do a lot of research
on stupid shit liek this)


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 19:25 [#01170526]
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haha so why base a question on a vastly over simplified
analysis?

Makes no sense to me.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 19:26 [#01170528]
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that premise seems a bit out of date to me. a lot of
pyschology is a bunch of failed scientists desperately
trying to quantify unquantifyable things


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2004-05-02 19:29 [#01170532]
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Because MOST SEXUAL attraction IS based on looks!

Love isn't but sexual attraction is actually based like 95%
on looks. Do you ever see an ugly girl you've never sene
before and go "Shit yeah I wanna fuck her"?



 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 19:30 [#01170536]
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the rich ones i do


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 19:30 [#01170537]
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I agree that a lot of psychological theories are too
subjective in the interpretation of the results gained from
already subjective hypothesis.


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 19:31 [#01170539]
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Maybe not...but I have seen girls that I have thought "Shit
yeah I wanna fuck her" then spoke to the bitch for 5 minutes
and thought "nah, fuck you bitch"


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2004-05-02 19:32 [#01170540]
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Good luck with that but I..... don't.


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2004-05-02 19:36 [#01170542]
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Physical attraction is 50% of the matter for me.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 19:39 [#01170543]
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alchohol 10%
bank balance 15%
desperation 75%


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2004-05-02 19:39 [#01170544]
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*something a nice person would say*

haha we've all been there at some stage of our lives :D


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2004-05-02 19:42 [#01170546]
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ok so all the guys who have fantasies of doing two chick at
once, it's for their PERSONALITIES, right? ;-)



 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-05-02 19:50 [#01170549]
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ACTUALLY things are looking much better on that level. i
shall say no more ;)


 

offline rockenjohnny from champagne socialism (Australia) on 2004-05-02 20:26 [#01170574]
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its not different either way. as braindance said most of the
so called lesbian porn that men get into is fake. generally
speaking i think that a gay couple would be just as
appealing to a woman as a lesbian couple would be to a man


 


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