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Im almost 24 now, and still avirgin. I cant talk to women, I lack self esteem and confidence, and im getting fat....I will never have sex....thank god for porn |
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I thought you did it with a pro |
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nope |
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another friday... |
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so, you're fat, lonely, bitter, pessimistic, pathetic, anti-social, and horny. we got it. |
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Im @ home... |
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another topic... |
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Damn, you are 24? I thought you had to be like 15 or 16 |
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what i don't get is, if your personality is so fucked up, why not just approach women with the attitude that any rejection couldn't possibly lower your self-esteem any further. you got nothing to lose. get out there and meet some females. |
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im 23....24 in 9 months |
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you've got fucking huge arm muscles though |
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Im a socially inept fuck, Í cant talk to women, I m just to boring |
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monoid practice tennis? |
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why don't you practice by trying to chat me up? i'll pretend to be a nubile 18 yr old virgin all alone at a bar who looks as though she's been stood up. give it your best shot... :) |
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Monoid, take up the Shaolin arts... start with Shaolin Kungfu, then Shaolin Chi Kung, then finally Zen. |
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come on, i'm waiting... *looks at watch, and tuts* |
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Wanna fuck ? |
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How are things at home these days, I know you posted a while back that things weren't to good :( |
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err, yeah, go on then. but only up the bum as i'm on the blob |
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we all know now that you have relationship problems with women, Monoid... =/ did you get screwed by a women in particular or is it general hate caused by frustration? have you talked to other people, friends etc. about that? DJ Xammax > just what is it in your avatar? a plant? |
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like you physically cannot generate speech in the presence of women? well you either got to do something about it, i.e. practice talking to women. OR accept it and move on i guess. |
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monoid, just forget they are women and pretend they are men. then you will love them all the more easily |
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hmm, perhaps your parents or some rich relative could give you a bigger amount of money...i heard that makes you quite selfconfident for some reason. you'll own all the bitches then... |
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ya. you are probably right. |
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Don't worry about it and don't focus on it that much. It's nothing really. |
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I CANT TALK TO ANYONE......im just.....a social phobic..... |
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All you need is confidence. Really. Just have a couple of drinks and be yourself. |
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thanks...! : ) (note to other people: link not worksafe! the picture itself though is, i think) i like the , very nice aesthetic (especially maybe because i thought it was a plant on the thumbnail!) - reminds me of the Isness cover... |
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can you talk once you break the ice? |
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Alcohol doesnt helß...seriously, whenever I droink, i get really depressed, and sometimes I just cry.... |
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Well I guess you're screwed then |
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i know |
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I have no luck with women. I used to get down about it, now I don't much care any more. All the "was" and "almost was" and "would like to be" relationships just never seem to work out. I find it impossible to make small talk unless I'm really really comfortable (emotionally). I was going to type a really scathing sarcastic response to this thread but then I thought better of it, so you get that instead. |
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Monoid, you have to realise that you're self-imprisoned, and after this realisation you will be free from self-consciousness. |
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actually, that's what he's hoping for but doesn't get. |
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Oh ,my god, lets just hope that I will die one day in a car accident on the way to work... |
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...must... ...restrain... ...myself... |
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Post a picture of yourself. Lets see what we are dealing with here. |
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Don't listen to marlowe, he'll have you standing on your head chanting and drinking your own semen out of a lacquered bowl. What you have to realize is that you can fuck women if you have your shit even slightly together. I was a virgin until I was in my 20s and when I discovered that, it blew my mind. Exercise some, get a job, make friends with females. You have to have female friends to get comfortable around the ladies. Resign yourself to not boinking them, they're to acclimatize you to femaleness. Besides, it looks good to other women if you have females in your social circle. |
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Here |
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Yep, definitely the face of a serial killer/rapist |
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Your not a bad looking guy. Good face. which in numero uno important with meeting girls. As you approach them they are already sizing you up in a sense. Everybody pretty much does it. Now how does this work? Do you rarely leave your house? Besides for work purposes that is. Do you frequent any bars around your area? Do you live in a big city and if so what kind of girls frequent that area? |
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i'd really like to say there's always hope... and i do think it there, in the mood i'm in (i'm not in a particulary good mood, i'm a lot worried fact - but i have some temporary relief in some way though, in escaping my worries - it doesn't solve them at all but it eases the pain...) i do think that there's still hope... but i know that when i'm really totally depressed and hopeless, when someone else says to me that there's still hope, i just get angry about the person who said that, since he doesn't know the situation... no one can understand yet they still give their advice... "happy people can be so cruel"... |
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agree |
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I dont leave the house, except for work, and I live in small german hick village...NOT IN A CITY |
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well, you're not ugly Monoid!! (but you look aggressive ' _ ') |
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anyway, it's all about confidence. The confidence to approach, the confidence to speak the confidence to face rejection the confidence to try again seriously, go to the gym for a month or so, star feeling good about your body, and then just talk to girl, it's really easy when you are comfortable with yourself. "some girls are nice, some girls are whores" that doesn't reflect on you unless you let it, confidence to make it all happen just like you imagined |
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You don't look German... Maybe you should give up that bizarre music you listen to, and start listening to something like Sixpence None the Richer. That might increase your chances of getting some poontang. |
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oh grow up. stop posting on messageboards about how shitty your life is and simply go out and do something. it really is that simple. |
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