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offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:13 [#00742716]
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Just realised I'd cocked up the dates for something I had
to do for this year of my degree and I've missed the
deadline by over a week! Still not managed to get in touch
with my tutor as he's in a meeting today. I've been ill,
which work will confirm, but any other ideas of how to
explain this?

Should I just be honest and say I thought the deadline was
9th July rather than June?

It's pretty important as it affects my final degree grade
and is one years worth of work. Suggestions welcome as I'm
mentally kicking myself in the shins repeatedly. Cheers.


 

offline ambsace from canaDUH. on 2003-06-16 07:14 [#00742717]
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hoo. this is why i just do the work thing. no school.

too much stress. =]

good luck workin' it out, though. heh.


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2003-06-16 07:16 [#00742721]
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yeah be honest with them!


 

offline Spacecadet on 2003-06-16 07:16 [#00742723]
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honesty is the best policy, i dont see why anyone lies, it
just causes more trouble


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:17 [#00742727]
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agreed


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2003-06-16 07:17 [#00742728]
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oh you remind me... i still have to do some shit too... i
think you should be honest...

what other alternatives do you have?


 

offline giginger from Milky Beans (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:18 [#00742734]
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Be honest mate. If you've got the work to give them then
it's all good. They shoul've sent out reminders anyway if
you're not actually at the Uni. So they're partially to
blame.


 

offline Erronous from Netherlands, The on 2003-06-16 07:18 [#00742735]
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if you tell him honestly what happened he will sure show
respect. Don't worry!!! Tutors aren't that bad!!


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2003-06-16 07:19 [#00742737]
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over here .. you get a 5% deduction per week late .. no
biggie :)


 

offline korben dallas from nz on 2003-06-16 07:19 [#00742738]
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but just tell them where its at ..


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 07:20 [#00742740]
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All I can think of is a good chat with the tutor. Is he a
reasonable man? Maybe you can still persuade him to give you
a chance to hand in your work after the deadline. He will
understand the importance of this matter as your degree
depends on it. You do have it finished don't you? Tell him
that. And make clear that you can hand in your work anytime
he wants. Also do your best to come across as if you're
really mad at yourself for forgetting it. At the moment I
cannot think of anything better. Best of luck mate!


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:23 [#00742746]
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when people said that "honesty was the best policy" that
statement was also a lie: eat loads of polo mints and it
will give you the mega shits. the doctor will confirm you
are seriously ill if you tell him the blood in your poo
really worried you so your excuse is water-tight plus in
cases of bad illness they bump your work up a grade.
if the tutor won't cut you slack pretend to cry and squeeze
your guts as hard as you can, forcing a jet of arse gravy
through your trousers. he will have no option but to help
you, because there is no sight sadder than a shit-stained
grown-man crying (well, impotence would make it sadder but
you get the point)

jingle


 

offline diablo on 2003-06-16 07:24 [#00742749]
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I'd stress the ill factor... if you can get a sick note from
a doctor (bit late but worth a try) that could help? Any
family crisis's you could exaggerate? If in doubt, cry. Or
offer up your body.

seriously tho', good luck. :)


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:25 [#00742750]
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sounds like a coward's way out to me.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:26 [#00742752]
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Yeah, I reckon I will just be honest...

Ambsace: It's a git, I've been working full time this year,
looking to return to uni in september. Thing is it's easy to
neglect the university work whilst working full time.
Fortunately I've done the vast majority of the big
commentary on my year. Just got to buy some stationary
tonight and get on the case. Looks like a night of staying
up till 4.00am+ doing coursework, just like the "good" old
days.

Got a pretty tight schedule, get home, buy a big envelope,
stay up finishing it all of and binding it. Tommorow, take
lunch early to get to the post office for recorded delivery
of the file...


 

offline Spacecadet on 2003-06-16 07:27 [#00742755]
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i'm sorry but i'd rather lose a grade than gain a grade by
shitting my pants, thats just fucked up


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:30 [#00742763]
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There are two staff members concerned, the tutor is v.
friendly and reasonable and shouldn't be a problem. The
"overseer" is also a decent guy, strict but fair. I've done
well in both their modules so they ought to cut me a bit of
slack.

I supppose I'm mainly angry at myself as I had it all in
hand and when the tutor visited he even said, "No need to
rush it, what you've done already is fine and you have
months left to finish it." that got me sort of complacent.
If it hadn't been to nice a day to play CS this lunchtime I
wouldn't have even seen the letter that reminded me of the
date!


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:31 [#00742764]
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yeah, but you are bound to shit your pants one day, so you
might as well do it when it is of use to you. anyway, if
this is the end of his degree he will never see any of those
people again, so he might as well go for it. shit yourself
or spend another year plus thousands of pounds retaking.


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:32 [#00742765]
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either way good luck ceri


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:32 [#00742767]
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and those are his only options, right?


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:36 [#00742770]
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well he could talk reasonably to the tutors get his problem
sorted and be done with the whole affair. then he could shit
himself in his own time as a purely recreational activity


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:38 [#00742773]
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There is a third option- my tutors daughter goes to a
college that is a client I deal with. I could alter her
grades in exchange for him turning a blind eye to this ;)

I wouldn't do that though- the guy is straight as an arrow
and he'd probably try to get me kicked out of uni & work for
even suggesting it :P


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:38 [#00742775]
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oh, and he could always burn down the uni, and tell them
that it was handed in on time. if there are any witnesses
burn them too. if the police get suspicious burn them
additionally.


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-06-16 07:38 [#00742776]
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mm. how to demonstrate you are impotent..?


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:38 [#00742778]
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then shit your pants in the ashes


 

offline mortsto-x from Trondheim/Bodø (Norway) on 2003-06-16 07:41 [#00742779]
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Wich degree is this? be honest anyway.


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 07:42 [#00742782]
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you can demonstrate your impotence by crying like a little
girl and jerking your as-recently-used-as-a-betamax penis to
no avail, sobbing the words "i'm useless! mummy, please i
can't get it up! oh my dick! my, dead, dead dick! i'm not a
real man! ..." trailing off into incoherence as you fall to
your knees squeezing your useless skin nozzle which will
never respond. i expect...


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 07:44 [#00742784]
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Don't give up hope yet. last week we (me and the group I am
in) almost got expelled from school because we were busted
for fraud a second time (2x fraud >>> kicked from school).
But after a long talk with the teacher we got off with a
warning instead of a (2nd) official fraud note.

Kinda stupid of us to do :\


 

offline roygbivcore from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2003-06-16 07:47 [#00742786]
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do everything you can to get the professor or supervisor or
what ever this guy is to understand, which will probably be
easy. let him know you've been sick, you got the dates
screwed up, i'm sure he'll understand. and if not i could
write him an email with lots of cusses


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 07:56 [#00742800]
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Computing. This year is optional, but now I've chosen it I
cannot pass my degree without this bit of work- that's why
I'm so worried... theoretically I could have to do another
years full time work and then go back to uni (highly
unlikely, but if uni were gits they could make me do it!)
which would not be possible for various financial reasons
and I'd end up in more debt than I could afford.

*single man seeks wealthy, moderately attractive woman for
loving relationship to fund him through final year of uni
should it be too late to submit this work*

Anyway, I'll know the result in 2 hours, I've managed to
find out when the tutor will be available :D


 

offline diablo on 2003-06-16 08:00 [#00742806]
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you can call it a cowards way out, i call it "mitigating
circumstances", ie heavy workload due to full time
employment, illness etc. "I forgot" is not a mitigating
circumstance, unfortunately. I've been there myself and a
friendly tutor will ask you to provide a reason for him to
pass on to his superiors to be taken into account. Previous
good working standards and good ralations with tutor will
also help of course.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 08:03 [#00742813]
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Mental- just rang back and the tutor happened to be in the
general office and was actually asking for my details to
contact me- the meeting he was in was about this project and
I was one of the "good students" who hadn't handed it in yet
so he was keen to chase it up. He sounded pretty pissed off
at me, but he'll accept it and I don't think they'll dock
too many marks.

I've been given the rest of the afternoon off to get
cracking on it and my manager's report glowed! Sweet, eh?
Yay! It has all worked out perfectly.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-06-16 08:04 [#00742815]
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diablo, wasnt responding to you.

sorry if you thought i was. i was talking to jingle.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-06-16 08:05 [#00742816]
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ceri: awesome news!


 

offline jingle from London (United Kingdom) on 2003-06-16 08:05 [#00742818]
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you know whats a good way to celebrate...? ahem


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 08:05 [#00742819]
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My flatmate used his grandad dying (despite it happening
after the deadline!) as mitigating circumstances. I'm
generally adverse to unis being too lax, but if there's a
good reason fair enough. Personally I would have docked a
fair whack of marks off me, but I'm not complaining ;)


 

offline diablo on 2003-06-16 08:07 [#00742821]
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oh sorry! :)

ceri: phew! get going!


 

offline Jedi Chris on 2003-06-16 08:37 [#00742871]
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I'm glad things are not as bad as you had first thought
Ceri. Good luck with the work!


 

offline S M Pennyworth from East Timor on 2003-06-16 08:50 [#00742879]
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hahah jingle youre fuckin killing me mate


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 08:52 [#00742882]
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See? Told you not to get overstressed! School must NEVER be
a stress factor! *cough*


 

offline Jedi Chris on 2003-06-16 08:58 [#00742887]
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Hahahaha!! ;)


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2003-06-16 09:44 [#00742960]
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Should I just be honest and say I thought the deadline was
9th July rather than June?

NO. them cunts don't give a shit about that, they won't
carre less - trrust me, i know :(


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 09:48 [#00742965]
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OK, now the topic title can be changed to "I was screwed :D"


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 09:56 [#00742975]
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"... and now I just have to do a lot of work in short space
of time, but it looks like I'm back to uni in September!"


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 09:58 [#00742977]
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I bet you've never been this glad to be able to go to uni
before! ;)


 

offline Jedi Chris on 2003-06-16 10:41 [#00743048]
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The hard work will kill him though! :P


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-06-16 11:18 [#00743100]
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He he, I got about 80% of the work needed done in 2 1/2
hours- a little more work tommorow and it'll be done :D

At the moment I'm reclining in my chair enjoying the
sunshine and sipping at a mind bendingly strong absinthe...


 

offline eXXailon from purgatory on 2003-06-16 12:16 [#00743156]
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we're not doing our work under influence, are we?
*takes off glasses and lifts one eyebrow*


 


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