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really mates, all this sex talk bullshit. but really, do you think you will ever find love? i'm not talking sex, as in making love or fucking, i'm talking 'love'. |
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i hope so |
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love is hard work don't believe in the Hollywood style of romantic love most people settle for companionship trust and give & take (and sex..oopps !) If thats love, yeah I believe in it |
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i've been seeing a lot of that shit lately. christ, i don't even think that my parents truely love each other. fucksake, i don't think i'll ever find this love shit. wish i could though. this shit has really got me down lately. |
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what type of love do you want ? |
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I thought I found it in the past, but It wasnt right at the time, but now.... I think I have found it. |
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its called the internet right REFLEX ? |
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No. Whats up your ass. |
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love is all i need hehe |
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I've been with my girlfriend now for more then 7 years,....in the beginning I thought we were soulmates. Now I'm thinking 'bout my vacation 2 spain next month. |
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REFLEX don't have a sense of humour again ouch.. :D |
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i dont know what love is. i really dont know. ive been with this girl for about two years now and i dont feel love. What is love?!?!?!?!?!? its in my fantasy! |
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are u serious? |
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Im sure I feel it. I say it to her. She says it to me, I feel warm and fuzzy and happy when we are together. We are lovers and best friends at the sametime.... I know we love each other. |
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hehe what a strangely trippy thread |
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what is 'love' to you all? i keep seeing couples and just coming to terms that the world thinks love is hanging around with someone. like friendship wise. think about it. people say they love their parents and their family, but that is just a natural obligation. and people that hang with mates for real long times, like more than ten years, say they love them. but is that love? just getting to know someone? this shit is really fucking with my brain. |
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i think love is when u cant stop thinking about the certain person |
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zombiekev: to me love between a guy and a girl relationship wise is what I think were talking about and what you intended to talk about here. Its what I was gabbin on about. Love .... is not something you can talk about and express with just words, I think its actions, and sacrifices... stuff like that. A feeling.... you cant explain. |
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what about a conversation you had with a person? or something similar like that. |
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i thought i did find love, i thought i did... |
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so a nice heartfull/body feeling. |
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"i think love is when u cant stop thinking about the certain person" Nah man,.thats in the beginning,......how do U call it? "infatuation"(?) That shit wears off after a year,..it makes room for a much warmer feeling of someone 2 depend on. |
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Zombiekev:, yes, and youll know it when you feel it.... maybe for a week or two youll be somewhat confused by this feeling[s] that your feeling.. but then youll realize what it is. |
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its shame it wears off but i still think this is it |
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love = having a deep mutual respect trust & care for someone Zombikiev, you seem to think it should be something more , but the strong chemical thing that gives the really strong feelings of happiness and high , thats great but its just chemical and biological to do with endorphins in your brain and it lasts often no more than 3 months (maybe 3 minutes in some cases LOL ) and its linked to the biological predisposition for coupling & sexual/emotional security Its chemical, don't take it too deep love for all things and for yourself is more important than the love/idolisation of another person :) |
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Haddaway asked "What Is Love?" but I don't think anyone ever answered this timeless question. |
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i'm starting to think that this one true love thing is a bullshit, too. and i'm starting to wonder if i will ever find 'love'. |
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I think Foreigner were more eloquent, with "I Want To Know What Love Is" |
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Zombiekev > at least you don't make assumptions and have an enquiring mind... do'nt fret,, If you DO find it , it'll probably be when you aren't expecting it & are not looking for it |
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Trying to asnwer "What is love?" with a series of words is very crude and limited in scope. It's just not one of those things that can easily be explained. Besides, as a society we like to idealise it and turn it into some sort of ultimate truth, but it means different things to different people...it is NOT an absolute. At least, that's how I feel about it. |
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Peter File hey its a very depressing and melodious marvin :D |
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Peter File shuffling avatars a bit smart tonight eh ? you a card sharp ? |
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Oh, by the way - I found love. sniff. Where's my hankie? |
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It exists, and I'll find it someday, maybe... although the more likely scenario is I WON'T find it, and God or whoever the divine power is will continue to fuck me up the ass relentlessly. Bastard. |
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i wish you could talk...... |
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what kind of love would I like? I would like chocolate love, please. but seriously "love for all things and for yourself is more important than the love/idolisation of another person" yup. all the way. love for your friends, too, the people you see every day who help you through life. |
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I think that: Love is nature's defence mechanism to promote tolerance so couples don't break up so children can grow up with two parents. People naturally want to feel loved because that (sometimes indirecty) raises the chance to make children. Also, tolerance between groups of people increases chances of survival while still making people adapt or else they're not loved. |
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Erich Fromm has a lot to say about love in his book the Art of Loving. I know that the title sounds kind of cliche but it really is a relevant book on the topic of love. if I remember correctly love in its purest form(unconditional love) is the giving of oneself without expectation of return. the book also tells us that love is an active process. when can say we love someone all we want but until we show it in action it doesn't exist. someone of who say you haven't found it yet will indeed find it eventually. and when you do be prepared to experience the ups and downs that true love will bring. right now I myself am in a valley. my girlfriend of four years whom I lived with decided to move out about two weeks ago. the sad part is that I had purchased an engagement ring and planned to propose to her on the first of June. man, I feel like an idiot. she does love me she says however she claims she is not in love with me. strange...I was always taught that being in love had little to do with loving. take care dusty |
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I believe love is what would make you say to yourself, "Hey, I wish that was me getting hit by that car instead of my dear beloved girlfriend." And if you could switch places and get smashed by that car instead, love would be what would make you want to die in the arms someone who meant everything to you - ie. your girlfriend, Richard D. James. Words of Wisdom from -V- ********************** |
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sounds interesting |
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love is what you want it to be... depends on what you want to risk ... "love is in the air" I love a person: I want to spend my whole life with her her happiness is what I want more she looks the prettiest to me (surely she is not, but...) everything I do is directed to her or us. this last 2 years with her had made me a happy man (though tonight I am very sad, nothing to do with her) she makes me smile so many times a day... she she she she she she she she she she she she she she she ... |
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love is irrational and unexplainable... it doesn't make sense no matter how we want it to, and thats what makes it so desired and so great... |
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4 types of love: eros - sexual/romantic storge - family love philia - to like someone/friendship agape - self giving love i think i've paired them up right! |
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once i thought i had fallen in love. but i was just fooling myself. i may be wrong, but i don't think i need it right now, and i will probably pass many long years without a girlfriend... maybe all my life... but that's allright, i'll just see how i do without if it happens. :) |
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maybe people think and feel like they need one because everyone's saying it... i don't know... |
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man, i really still love the woman,,, but she's gone,,, but there is no doubt in my mind what i feel for her is love,,,, people say its better to have loved and lost than to never love at all,,, well i think that is all a load of f**kin bulls**t! it has caused so much pain and anguish that i wish i had never even met her,,, 'cause if you love someone, nothing makes that love go away,,, not evern if they cheat on you or trash your car,,, it's still there,,, and you still have to live with it,, i guess to wrap this up: yes, love truly exists--but if you asked me, i would have to tell you that i am definitely anti-love,,,, but i used to be pro- |
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Hey, Brandon, who's that in your avatar? I want that pic in a nice BIG size, please and thank you. :-D |
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i'm still hunting. still hungry like the wolf. |
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