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offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:09 [#00428155]
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As part of my dissertation on the messageboard, I'm
wondering what kind of Financial Backgrounds you all come
from? A well-off family perhaps, or a destitute family of
circus freaks?

I'll start---My mum became a single mum when I was 4, after
my Junkie Alcoholic Brickie dad was kicked out--we lived in
a small council flat in London--then she married my
step-dad, who had two degrees (in Maths and Physics), and
who worked for Shell UK--now, they are well-off--So, I've
experienced two sides of that upbringing.

How about your upbringing--


 

offline naaic from Uppsala (Sweden) on 2002-11-04 21:10 [#00428156]
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my dad sells used cars


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:11 [#00428158]
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well as u know i live with my mom who is poor as all hell
except with the monthly child support/allamoney she recieves
from dad ;)

my dad is rich but i dun live with him nor like him


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:12 [#00428160]
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upper-middle class, white suburban house.

Grew up in one of the richest counties in the nation, mostly
public school some private.

Drove BMW, shit like that, still am pretty much that way,
though I hardly consider myself elitist or in any way stuck
up, I mean that.


 

offline od_step_cloak from Pleth (Australia) on 2002-11-04 21:14 [#00428166]
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dad owns business mum didnt work till a few weeks ago.

standard australian upbringing.

house, big nice garden, 2 cars, public school, friends,
sunshine.

i don't know
my upbringing was pretty basic and uneventful
but i was (and am) happy so it's all good.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:16 [#00428170]
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>:O all stuck up people dun know they are...


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:16 [#00428171]
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lol, fuck you


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:17 [#00428174]
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lol, fuck you too


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:17 [#00428175]
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rich fucking idiot


 

offline corn_mouth from santiago (Chile) on 2002-11-04 21:18 [#00428179]
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too damn complex to specify, paul


 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:19 [#00428181]
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touche, i go to public school away from home now anyway, so
upbringing isn't hanging around me anymore


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:19 [#00428182]
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well, are you poor or rich corn?


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:20 [#00428185]
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:( whyso, seb?


 

offline corn_mouth from santiago (Chile) on 2002-11-04 21:20 [#00428187]
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hey by the way fag, what`s your new user name on slsk this
time you freak!


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:21 [#00428190]
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...tpfkan, nigga!


 

offline corn_mouth from santiago (Chile) on 2002-11-04 21:23 [#00428194]
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my family`s a typical upper middle class one. my dad died on
96 on an airplane crash, so that has put some extra weight
on me and my mom in terms of working for ze family.

other than that it`s been preety normal.

and i`m no rich boy dood, so fugg off


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:24 [#00428199]
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sorry bout ur dad :(.

id give anything to have my dad dead...not to offend u or
anyone else on here.

upper middle class tends to mean rich though


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:27 [#00428208]
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My mom and dad were very careless and had me at 17, and he
left a couple years later... she went to college and I
basically was raised by my grandparents... but I have a big,
very closeknit family so it wasn't really a totally lonely
only child upbringing, I thought my aunts were sisters for a
few years when I was reeaaally young! I'm a spoiled brat.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:28 [#00428209]
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:(


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:28 [#00428211]
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Financially, my mommy owns a courier service, she's her own
boss, so money isn't an issue. Plus I have no mooching
siblings to make for extra expense. Me me me.


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:29 [#00428215]
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I'm going to kick my dad's ass someday.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:29 [#00428217]
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me too ophecks, im going to kill my dad one day...one day
soon


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:30 [#00428222]
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Why did your dad leave? Do you know? Have you thought about
tyring to find him?


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:31 [#00428226]
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i want my dad dead.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:32 [#00428229]
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and zeus


 

offline Inverted Whale from United States Minor Outlying Islands on 2002-11-04 21:33 [#00428231]
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All across the Arctic fables describe marriages between
humans and whales. In a Yakut version, the baby whale is
affectionately adopted by the tribe and kept in a special
bucket by the side of his mother’s tent until he
outgrows it, at which point he is freed into the sea. When
foreign whalers arrive, they kill the adopted whale. The
tribe responds to this violence by attacking the strangers.
The Yakuts tell this story to explain how warfare first came
to the human beings.


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:33 [#00428233]
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My mom talks to him on the phone sometimes, and he wanted to
talk to me once... I declined. She says he was too young and
not ready, blah blah blah, all that stuff, and I guess
that's true. Says he still loves me and all that, but the
feeling isn't mutual, I want nothing to do with him. Maybe
if I have some little Ophecks' I'll rub it in his face that
I wouldn't do that.


 

offline Cabbog from Chautauqua (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:34 [#00428235]
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Yeah me too. Speaking of, didn't you promise me a picture
of your mom a few weeks back?


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:34 [#00428236]
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yáy!


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:39 [#00428251]
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DONT SINK THREAD!


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:39 [#00428252]
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I'm in two minds about meeting my father--my mum's friend in
London knows where he lives and stuff, and apparently he's
doing OK now--I have no ill-will towards him--I don't blame
him for how he was--he was a drunk drug addict, I'm not
going to judge him--I think I might freak out if I met him
tho--It's a tricky one, since I'm going to be emigrating
shortly.


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:40 [#00428253]
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im glad you care!


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:40 [#00428254]
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Oh yeah! What are you, some kind of MILF hunter?!!?


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:41 [#00428257]
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*to exhore


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:41 [#00428258]
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what about u zeus?


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-11-04 21:41 [#00428259]
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I've lived in both rich and poor,.. both of them
sucked,...now I live on my own,.. I'm neither rich nor
poor,..I'm just here


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:42 [#00428260]
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yáy?


 

offline flea from depths of your mind (New Zealand) on 2002-11-04 21:42 [#00428261]
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we were kinda like the poverty stricken nobility...that you
read so much about in the Brit Isles....my family is a
family of Tribal leaders/elders..but thanks to the Wars
etc..it has been mostly merely in the name..we have lands
but the incomings are a lot tighter than out goings...we
basically lived upper middle class lifestyles (all show mind
you) on lower middle class budget..if that makes any sense
what so ever..


 

offline Amonbrune from Vancouver (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:42 [#00428262]
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I was literally born in a ditch. i had worne no clothes for
11 years...and when i saw them i was like holy kizzow! then
another naked friend of mine told me about ... Lottery. i
didn't know what this was! it was crazy i tell you. so my
naked friend found some clothes and put them on and we went
to this store that had a sign on it called LOTTO (I couldn't
read at the time but he could you see). we bought one
ticket and we frickin' won!!! he told me 'I OWNZ TH1Z PL4CE
NO\/\/" then he told me how much we had and i litterally
flipped in the air!

pff...now i have it all brothers and sisters. i live in 2
mansions put together...have 169 girlfriends and drive any
car i want!

PFF....

oh yeah...that wasn't true.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:43 [#00428263]
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yeah i know poverty :(


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:44 [#00428266]
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No hurry to meet him... someday I might... you're a young
stud, you've got time to think about it. I'd freak out,
too... I could actually see myself meeting him, but not
anytime soon. Just give it time, I guess, that's what I'm
doing.


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:44 [#00428268]
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marlowe's 25 with a wife, how is he a young stud? you must
be 100!


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:45 [#00428270]
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my parents were poor through childhood, and paid there own
way through college.

when they were firsy married, they basically had no money,
but my dad kept getting raises, cause hes a hard worker, so
now we are uppermiddle class id say.

i have a very close family.


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:45 [#00428271]
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Yeah--that sounds like modern life in the UK--everyone
maxxing out their Credit Cards to live lifestyles advertised
on Tv--then ending up only ever paying off the Interest on
their cards--damn shame, and morally bankrupt.

Luckily, they'd never give me a credit card--a book is a
luxury for me.


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:47 [#00428273]
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You're not old until you're 35!


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2002-11-04 21:48 [#00428277]
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That's the thing, Ophecks--I don't have that much time to
decide any more--I'm probably leaving shortly after
Christmas--and I'll be going to London (where he lives) to
get my visa and fly off--so it would be then or (probably)
never. : /

my mum sometimes says I remind her of him...(before he was a
junkie mind)...it's so hard :(


 

offline Ophecks from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:52 [#00428287]
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Never say never, it's a small world. Unless he's got some
terminal illness or something, I doubt this will be your
last chance.

If you decide to bite the bullet and meet him, let me know
how it goes. Imagine how good it would be if it went well...


 

offline flea from depths of your mind (New Zealand) on 2002-11-04 21:52 [#00428288]
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But alas it's not Credit Cards over there..it's the money
lending system..you put bits of land in hock whenever there
is a family upheavel progression etc..Kid needs to go to
college needs a car etc..it hardly ever gets paid back so
the land gets erroded and bitten off bit by bit by the
banks..money lenders etc..leaving the family lords of ever
diminishing domains..


 

offline aron from saskatoon (Canada) on 2002-11-04 21:52 [#00428289]
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when i was smaller we had our own house and shit
and then my parents went bankrupt and divorced
and times were pretty hard fopr a while
now were doing good though, we got a house and a car of our
own and cable tv and internet
pretty dope.
my mom works MAD hard, like you wouldn't believe. rezpekt


 

offline ExHore from Stamford, Ct. (United States) on 2002-11-04 21:53 [#00428291]
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aron, you smile too much


 


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