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offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2006-09-15 23:06 [#01971811]
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If you were to drink at home, "alone", how much would you
consider to be a "safe" amount? (safe from starting you down
the slide to alcoholism)

A remark from a guy who's living with us at the moment kind
of startled me. He's a hardcore drinker who gets absolutely
polluted when he goes out, but after a few weeks of living
with us, he inquired as to how many cans i have a night, to
which i replied "between six and eight."

he met my reply with a look of surprised concern and a
half-hearted laugh and it got me thinking.. AM I SICK?
perhaps even sick as a dog?


 

offline dog_belch from Netherlands, The on 2006-09-15 23:12 [#01971813]
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I have about the same, don't know what level of alcoholism
that is, "TWATTY" probably.


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2006-09-15 23:14 [#01971814]
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thanks, god, i can't even succeed at being an alcoholic.

banished all remains of hope, so you have.


 

offline Falito from Balenciaga on 2006-09-15 23:20 [#01971815]
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think that Drugas,or alcohol or smoking...same as the food
we eat are necessary,are tools for our life,we msut take
it!

to take things starts a cause in our body,and got effect.
we choose how to feel,like choose what to take...and then we
still feel with this thing.Alcohol,beers,whiskey or whatevea
thing.

think if we feel inspired or alive or with good intetions
motivations,this is good and help us to grow.
dont care is is sex or drugs,or talk with somebody.is up.

but,think if you only can get this state of mind satisfacyng
with the things,like drugs,TV or sex...whatever Addiction..
then is wreck!!!
*cos at same time,you start feel bored-and starts the
fight!

and fighting we bored and kill the inspiartion
and motivation to be.and to make...bla,vla...

never is late to be what we are,and do what we want,and fuck
everybody if is right!!!!!

*thanks Martini Rosso for and Malboro inspiration.



 

offline Falito from Balenciaga on 2006-09-15 23:22 [#01971817]
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onbce again,sorry for the bad post.


 

offline bogala from NYC (United States) on 2006-09-15 23:46 [#01971819]
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dont choke on your own vomit in your sleep. make sure you
hurl before going to bed.


 

offline Falito from Balenciaga on 2006-09-15 23:55 [#01971820]
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thanks,but understand..
this things are when you drink alone.
....welcome,new day*


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-09-16 01:46 [#01971835]
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Alcoholism has nothing to do with amount,its being dependent
on a drink everyday.
even if its just 1 can/glass whatever.
im normally a 2 can a night man(stella)
ive stopped drinking during the week,but only because im
getting a right fat bastard.


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2006-09-16 01:52 [#01971837]
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Your posts actually make more and more sense the later it
gets.

Cheers.


 

offline Ezkerraldean from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-09-16 02:00 [#01971838]
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"thanks,but understand..
this things are when you drink alone.
....welcome,new day*"
Falito; on drinking alone

whoa, i can only begin to comprehend the huge depth and
complex meanings behind Falito's mighty words



 

offline obara from Utrecht on 2006-09-16 02:48 [#01971849]
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one man's opinion doesn't make you an alcoholic, i
think.....and what hanal said about the frequency of
drinking.

is drinking "online"/at xlt/slsk also drinking alone ?


 

offline nodnarB from richmond (United States) on 2006-09-16 03:00 [#01971854]
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my problem is drinking with people...getting drunk...then
not wanting to be drunk and taking prescription amphetamines
when i get home


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-09-16 03:02 [#01971855]
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I think drinking that many regularly on your on own is a bit
odd, it must be quite expensive and im sure you could find
someone to join you. Id prefer to have one or two at the pub
than stay in and drink a whole box


 

offline uviol from United States on 2006-09-16 03:05 [#01971857]
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is drinking "online"/at xlt/slsk also drinking alone
?


excellent question..

nevertheless, I drink alone alot. People think it's sad and
depressing. Why should it be that only social butterflies
get to enjoy alcohol?.. in a shallow, oversexed, 'random',
fratboy atmosphere no less?


 

offline i_x_ten from arsemuncher on 2006-09-16 03:47 [#01971875]
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um. no its fine. or is it i dunno, currently hungover


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-09-16 05:10 [#01971895]
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6 to 8 cans every night?
Haha, your life must suck.


 

offline oyvinto on 2006-09-16 05:29 [#01971896]
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6 to 8 a night? sounds a bit much to be honest, but what the
fuck do i know.. i'm the kind a guy that lives with you..
not to big a fan of alcohol really, but when i drink i
usually get really pissed, and i always have a hard day
after. i'm not made for alcohol abuse. a glass of red wine
or two a day i don't see as a problem..

anyway, i will go out to get crunk tonight. hitting the
clubs of oslo. and as usual i will hate myself tomorrow.


 

offline uzim on 2006-09-16 05:54 [#01971899]
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sounds a bit much to me too.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2006-09-16 07:56 [#01971931]
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well 6 to 8 cans a night does prrobably make you an
alcoholic, technically. but no morre than anyone else.


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-09-16 07:59 [#01971933]
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more than people who drink less, surely


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2006-09-16 08:00 [#01971935]
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nope, not even morre than them.


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2006-09-16 10:45 [#01972005]
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obi, dannn, uviol.. yes, well it's not quite "alone".. it's
just not out on a night. usually i would drink all of that
while watching a movie or the sopranos, while xlting and
chatting to people online, and more often than not, in the
livingroom with the 3 other lads i live with. so it's not
quite alone, but it's every night and it's not for any
special occasion or anything.

i figure it might be because i've tried to cut down smoking,
and if i drink then i HAVE to smoke, so therefore i'll
definitely drink every night.. although i was doing so
before i cut down on the fags.

anyway.. thanks for your replies.. i'll take it all into
consideration


 

offline Phresch from fucking Trondheim (Norway) on 2006-09-16 10:49 [#01972012]
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4 pils og en pizza.


 

offline weatheredstoner from same shit babes. (United States) on 2006-09-16 11:09 [#01972028]
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6 to 8 may not be a lot depending on the timeframe...

How long does it take to drink them?


 

offline osiris from Canterbury on 2006-09-16 11:10 [#01972029]
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whats with the angst of drinking alone and how is it any
worse than drinking with others.?


 

offline redrum from the allman brothers band (Ireland) on 2006-09-16 11:11 [#01972030]
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start at 9 finish at 1 usually


 

offline thatne from United States on 2006-09-16 11:16 [#01972034]
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usually 9 oz. liquor or 36 oz. beer in
about half an hour usually or an hour.


 

offline axion from planet rock (Sweden) on 2006-09-16 13:50 [#01972102]
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i think you drink way to much i only drink on the weekends
and can see it as a problem sometimes.mayby you should also
try stick to weekends


 

offline DirtyPriest from Copenhagen (Denmark) on 2006-09-16 14:16 [#01972111]
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It's to much. Seriously man. 1-3 beers would have been
acceptable. It's "normal" for a Charles Bukowski book.


 

offline S M Pennyworth from East Timor on 2006-09-16 14:49 [#01972126]
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too much alcohol is shit.
its like killing the entire point of drinking in the first
place.
met this really cute bird last night but when i was
confronted with
the possibility of going back to her place, i was so
incredibly drunk that i had to go home and sleep instead.
this happens every time.



 

offline axion from planet rock (Sweden) on 2006-09-16 15:06 [#01972132]
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hmm is it only me but getting a hard on when drunk is
imposible for me.

is it the same case for you ?



 

offline darkpromenade from Australia on 2006-09-16 15:12 [#01972134]
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brewers droop


 

offline S M Pennyworth from East Timor on 2006-09-16 15:12 [#01972135]
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well i seem to have no interest in sex at all when i'm
drunk..
this only applies when i'm single though. when i have a
girlfriend
it doesnt matter if i'm sober or drunk i'm up for secks
24-7.


 

offline dog_belch from Netherlands, The on 2006-09-16 16:53 [#01972155]
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I had to have two cans to get me through this thread.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-09-16 17:11 [#01972161]
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If I'm alone, I rarely drink more than a glass of whiskey or
two.. not every night either, mind you...


 

offline axion from planet rock (Sweden) on 2006-09-16 17:14 [#01972163]
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yeah the problem with aclohol is then when you have started
you cant stop at least for me at that particular day


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-09-16 17:56 [#01972190]
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alone I never get through more than 4 beers, if im just
chilling out I'd rather have a couple of bifters and fall
asleep


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-09-16 18:01 [#01972194]
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bifters


 

offline CS2x from London (United Kingdom) on 2006-09-17 04:22 [#01972422]
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yeah, even half a glass is enough to set the ball rolling.
once the taste is in there, you just want to have a fair few
more, until you're satisfactorily pissed.


 

offline FlyAgaric from the discovery (Africa) on 2006-09-17 04:27 [#01972427]
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i drink a bottle of wine on my own, watching movies,
listening to music, playing computer games. getting pissed
alone is no problem for me, is all good. not every night
though. whenever.


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2006-09-17 04:59 [#01972434]
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Aengus, you're concerned about not being able to sleep and
put it down to getting into a bad routine. I do agree that
it is definitely one of the causes of your problems, but I
don't think that all the alcohol, fags, drugs etc are
helping. I think the best thing you can do is try and cut
everything right down, like you're doing with the smokes.
It's not doing your body any favours and is almost
definitely adding to the sleeping problem. When I go out and
get slaughtered, I can go to bed at like 4 am and end up
waking up at 7 or 8. Drinking really fucks up my sleeping
pattern and I'm sure drinking that much is having a similar
effect on you to some extent.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/threecounties/content/articles/2005/01
/05/think_drink_alcohol_quiz_feature.shtml

I came across this website and I'm quite aware that there
are only a few questions but I guess it gives you the
general answer to your question, cinsidering your answers
are often scoring the highest marks.

To me, the problem isn't that you're drinking alone, it's
just the fact that you're drinking so much and I honestly
think it's having an effect on you. Waking up at 3 or 4 pm
most days isn't normal and it would be worthwhile cutting
down on the drink to see if it helped.

You're trying to give up smoking because you're worried
about getting cancer. It's therefore ridiculous to carry on
drinking so much as it's also a huge cause of liver and
stomach cancer as well as heart attacks. Drinking more than
60 grams of alcohol a day, which is equivalent to four to
five glasses of wine, was associated with a high risk of
developing liver cancer in a recent investigation. At the
end of the day, if you're worrying about it. It's time to
cut down.xx


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2006-09-17 05:46 [#01972450]
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Waking up at 3 or 4 pm most days isn't normal

Isn't it? Searrch the MB, people who sleep thrrough and get
theirr solid 7 hourrs arre the rrarre ones.

I mean I don't know you redrum, but you don't appearr fucked
up as farr as I can tell. You'rre what 20? To me you sound
about as norrmal as you can get.

Don't listen to people like Sophie (I'm sorrrry, I'm not
being awful to you), becasue it's a load of rrubbish.


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2006-09-17 05:58 [#01972454]
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You'd have a point if he wasn't worried about his health or
his sleeping problems, but he is. cf his topic about it.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2006-09-17 06:00 [#01972455]
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No, someone else exprressed concerrn. People telling you
you'rre fucked up (when you'rre not) is a grreat way to fuck
you up.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-09-17 06:06 [#01972456]
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the only problem I see with if I were to sleep until 3-4
every day, is that I'd miss out on a lot...


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2006-09-17 06:09 [#01972458]
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No, he is concerned about his health, which is shown by the
fact that he is trying to give up smoking. That's because he
got bronchitis and his lungs are painful, it's not because
anyone else has said anything. He is also concerned about
the fact that he can't sleep or wake up in the mornings,
which is why he visited the doctor. Not because anyone else
told him he had a problem.
I'm not telling him he's fucked up. He has expressed concern
about his health, including the possibility of drinking too
much, and I am giving him my point of view, which is that if
he wants to sleep better and improve his health then he
could try and cut down on the alcohol.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-09-17 06:23 [#01972459]
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people should stop trying to give up smoking and just
quit right away.. I don't care what you say, it isn't as
hard as you make it out to be. just stop.


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2006-09-17 06:27 [#01972460]
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I can imagine it's very difficult going from a 20 a day
habit straight to nothing. It's just like, part of their
lives. It's not as easy as you'd think, I'm sure :) I'd say
getting it down to even 2 a day, is pretty good going!


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-09-17 06:31 [#01972461]
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on the contrary. I say it isn't as hard as smokers think;
they just need to have some sort of excuse (often only to
themselves) why they really don't want to quit smoking.

here's how you quit smoking

1: never smoke again

the end.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2006-09-17 06:36 [#01972462]
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if it was that simple


 


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