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offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 12:00 [#01817216]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular



I felt inclined to bunk my medieval history A-level mock
exam last Monday because I know very little about the
subject despite a year and a half's worth of work done by me
towards it. All I've got for recent exams and essays is
grades ranging from 'D' to 'E-'. I will be taking the exam
tomorrow and despite all my best efforts over the last few
days only one of those who I consider my friends has been
willing to tell me what the questions are. All the rest
refuse to even though it makes no difference to them as they
are A grade candidates anyway. It appears they are happy to
watch me sink rather than help me to swim.

I feel so betrayed by them and this has made me call into
question who my true friends really are as opposed to those
"friends" who are merely plot devices in the story that is
life and whom I can't rely on.

I have 4 friends. This seems rather little.

What about You?


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:03 [#01817220]
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i will be your friend


 

offline CS2x from London (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:03 [#01817221]
Points: 5079 Status: Lurker



Four friends is very good going, I believe.


 

offline nacmat on 2006-01-12 12:04 [#01817222]
Points: 31271 Status: Lurker



mery xmas


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 12:05 [#01817224]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to hanal: #01817220



thanks hanal, it means a lot.


 

offline Bill Burroughs from Colombia on 2006-01-12 12:06 [#01817227]
Points: 768 Status: Lurker



your friends sound like pricks.
ditch them, become great at something else and later wave at
the fuckers smugly from your expensive Mercedes.


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-01-12 12:06 [#01817228]
Points: 6474 Status: Lurker



You sound thick and lazy. Why should your friends help you
rise from the bottom of the academic foodchain?
If you were a real friend, you wouldn't put them in such an
awkward situation.
Oh, and
"Two large cokes and a Chicken McSandwich please."


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:08 [#01817231]
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are you on dickhead pills today


 

offline somejerk from south florida, US (United States) on 2006-01-12 12:09 [#01817232]
Points: 1441 Status: Lurker



no offense, but maybe if you spent your time reading up and
studying versus posting on this wonderful message board, you
wouldn't need to cheat/get ahead of everyone else.


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-01-12 12:11 [#01817236]
Points: 6474 Status: Lurker | Followup to hanal: #01817231



It says "bastard pills" on the bottle.


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 12:13 [#01817241]
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that is exactly the attitude all these elitist bastards I
call friends take and it's fucking wrong. I am not thick as
I will get As in both English Literature and Spanihs come
the summer, I just have so much difficulty memorising dates
and facts from the lives of pointless monks called bollocks
names like Leo XXXI and Hildebrand. Perhaps I have put them
in an awkward situation, but I for one would always help
someone else out if they can't grasp a subject irrelevant of
whether they're a friend or not.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 12:13 [#01817242]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict



ive always had four or five very close friends as opposed to
20+ not so close friends - i have, however, known these
people for over 20 years...


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 12:14 [#01817244]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict



a friend will help you learn and grow

a friend will not help you cheat


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-01-12 12:15 [#01817247]
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"No, just regular fries please."


 

offline somejerk from south florida, US (United States) on 2006-01-12 12:15 [#01817248]
Points: 1441 Status: Lurker



keep your friends close, and your enemies closer!



 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 12:17 [#01817253]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to somejerk: #01817248



I've never really understood that quote.. I mean, Iago puts
it into good practice in Othello if you consider Othello to
be his enemy but aside from that.. ?


 

offline hanal from k_maty only (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:17 [#01817254]
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well stick with one a day not two


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 12:32 [#01817268]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to hanal: #01817254



"would you like fries with that?"


 

offline CS2x from London (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:32 [#01817269]
Points: 5079 Status: Lurker



I find it very difficult to concerntrate on work related
material, too. Often, the synthesizers, plugins, and
messageboards call me, and such temptations are very hard to
resit. Oh yes.


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2006-01-12 12:50 [#01817274]
Points: 7877 Status: Lurker



i think they have no obligation to cheat for you

also its only a mock exam so shut your yap


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-01-12 12:54 [#01817275]
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Get used to saying that.


 

offline CS2x from London (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 12:58 [#01817277]
Points: 5079 Status: Lurker | Followup to CS2x: #01817269



resit? Resist. Although "Resit" might make a nice name on
the front of a CD..."Resit"..."Resit"...er..


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 13:12 [#01817288]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to Dannn_: #01817274



only a mock, precisely more reason for them to help me out.
What do they lose?

All I want is one 'A' grade on this. Not so that I can show
off to my parents or any of that shit or even to please
myself, I just want to show that scumbag of a teacher I have
that I'm not a useless cretin.

It's hopeless, I simply can't revise. I can't do it.


 

offline swears from junk sleep on 2006-01-12 13:14 [#01817295]
Points: 6474 Status: Lurker | Followup to DeleriousWeasel: #01817288



So...you're not a "useless cretin", but you want to cheat on
an exam like a thick chav cretin.


 

offline plaidzebra from so long, xlt on 2006-01-12 13:16 [#01817296]
Points: 5678 Status: Lurker | Followup to DeleriousWeasel: #01817288



you mean you want to create a compellingly convincing lie to
falsely show that you are not a useless cretin.



 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 13:16 [#01817297]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to swears: #01817295



it's not exactly cheating. It's know he question so I can go
away and revise specifically for that, thus actually getting
some decent work done and getting a decent grade. Without
the question I have to revise everything and it'll just be
broad general crap that doesn't help me.


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 13:17 [#01817301]
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yes, that's right. Argh.


 

offline hma from real life on 2006-01-12 13:43 [#01817341]
Points: 528 Status: Lurker



your friends act like self-righteous assholes and i don`t
consider its cheating. i never understood this
"i-know-whats-good-for-you-although-you-dont-think-so"
attitude. i find it abusive. like they think you are not
mature/clever enough to decide by yourself.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 13:46 [#01817347]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict | Followup to DeleriousWeasel: #01817297



the point of having an exam with four potential essay type
questions where the professor will only require you to know
one and expound on it is that you will LEARN the material

not so you can just regurgitate facts and be done with it


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 13:52 [#01817351]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to hma: #01817341



hello soulmate

euphonicfilter: you actually have to do 4 essay
questions from 6


 

offline steve mcqueen from caerdydd (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 13:52 [#01817352]
Points: 6563 Status: Regular



learning stuff requires a practical understanding that is
positively discouraged in school... your marked down for
mistakes mistakes are BAD... but making mistakes is the only
way u learn

fuck school... crock. of. shit.


 

offline Ezkerraldean from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 14:00 [#01817362]
Points: 5733 Status: Addict



why are you doing history? it has no use at all. do geology
and physics and get a job with NASA as a planetary
scientist, who just gets paid to sit there and look at
pictures of mars over a cup of coffee. write music in your
spare time. probably make more friends this way too.

im at some lame 6th form college, sometimes i hate being
there since i know so few people there, but its not for much
longer at least


 

offline chaosmachine from Ottawa (Canada) on 2006-01-12 14:05 [#01817371]
Points: 2330 Status: Lurker



those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat
it.. next semester.

*baddumching*


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 14:06 [#01817373]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to Ezkerraldean: #01817362



looks like it's only a few more months left for both of us
at our 6th form colleges. I really fucked up taking history,
it's utterly pointless and I find myself unable to stay
interested in it before it has so little affect upon me.
Spanish is a language I can speak and means I can
communicate with so many other people around the world and
english literature (especially poetry) can at times affect
me and make me feel emotion. History on the other hand, is
deadpan and about as interesting as geraldine's last 15
posts.


 

offline Ezkerraldean from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-01-12 14:11 [#01817380]
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ha, human geography is equally crap (mite be down to the
annoying old senile welsh teacher though)


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:14 [#01817386]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict



you can pick your friends, you can pick your nose, but you
cant pick your friends nose


 

offline sneakattack on 2006-01-12 14:17 [#01817392]
Points: 6049 Status: Lurker



asking for the questions makes you a fucking retard, TRUE.
your friends are awesomer than you.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:22 [#01817402]
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My ha'penny's worth; if you were proper friend to them, you
wouldn't put them in the unpleasent position of asking them.
If they're A grade candidates, they're likely to of worked
hard for it and understandably don't want to devalue that by
helping you get a higher grade than you deserve.


 

offline sneakattack on 2006-01-12 14:24 [#01817410]
Points: 6049 Status: Lurker



let me explain some of the ways it is retarded:

- the principle use of school is to learn. if you are just
there to get good enough grades to get a good enough job to
get a good enough amount of money to not hate yourself, you
are a fucking loser.

- you're being a dick to all the people who decently
prepared. Especially to you're friends; it's better just not
to ask some things. The asker is the culprit; you put your
friends in a lose lose situation; either they are dicks to
you or to everyone else and to themselves.

- you're admitting that you are stupid.



 

offline sneakattack on 2006-01-12 14:26 [#01817412]
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in a way things like that degrade an institution as well..
make the rankings less deterministic. (I've been a TA for
three semesters so I'm very sensitive to things like this.
I mean when you give someone who tried a bad grade, it
hurts. if some fucker just went in and cheated..)


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 14:26 [#01817414]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to Ceri JC: #01817402



okay, so maybe I deserve an E but do they really care enough
about morals to force me to get my E when through their help
I could get a C? Besides, we know what the questions are for
essays and it doesn't mean I can easily do all of those.


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 14:29 [#01817423]
Points: 2953 Status: Regular | Followup to sneakattack: #01817412



I'm sick and tired of getting bad grades for history. I
always have the worst grade in the class.

I don't try and I get a 'D'. The next week I try, and come
out with a 'E' and I'm baffled. So why not find out what the
questions are and try really hard to answer them as best I
can? It's not cheating really.


 

offline sneakattack on 2006-01-12 14:31 [#01817426]
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get better at trying. Life isn't that easy; for instance,
see the global warming article.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:36 [#01817440]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict



i had shit grades in school cause i spent the whole time
day-dreaming and trying to get into girls pants...

i think it turned out ok though, because i worked my ass off
at every job ive had, i am smart, and i learned things on my
own i can apply to real life

fuck school


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:37 [#01817442]
Points: 2443 Status: Addict



oh yeah, i also dont live in my parents basement like %90 of
recent USA college grads !


 

offline DeleriousWeasel from Guam on 2006-01-12 14:41 [#01817452]
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you are an inspiration to 90% of us all


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:42 [#01817454]
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The following is of course all according to my own moral
code: The problem with any sort of cheating, or even "unfair
help", is not so much that you get something for free (a
better grade), more that it makes the people who do deserve
the better grades work less valuable. Part of the point of
grading is that it shows a level of understanding of a
subject. If you (and say, half a dozen other people in the
same position) get onto a university course in history with
a grade C, then fail miserably because you're not good
enough, it makes the university raise their entry threshold.
So, next year people who are capable of doing the course,
who get Cs, get turned away, "because those C students last
year couldn't hack it". Later in life, you'll find it's even
more serious. Your degree results in certain fields really
do dictate your career opportunities. This "raising the bar"
(or "declining standards" as it's often mistaken for) means
people are denied jobs they by all rights would be able to
do, so in a wider context than your mocks, I would say, yes,
it does matter.

I work my nuts off during my degree (I never used to; my
A-levels were poor), regularly staying up all night to
finish coursework, attending 95%+ of my lectures and
tutorials, basically being a model student. I'm sickened
when I read about people paying other people to write
dissertations for them etc. If you go to university you'll
probably find your lecturers are even more vehemently
against plaigarism/cheating. I certainly helped/help less
able students, but I do that through teaching and making
sure they understand how to do something/the concepts using
similar questions so they can answer it themselves. I'd
never let someone copy my work/answers verbatim, even if it
was a best mate/girlfriend.

Anyway, all that aside: I wish you luck. I've got an exam
tomorrow myself. I'm off for half an hours revision then an
early night. Hope you do okay tomorrow.


 

offline euphonicfilter from illadelphia (United States) on 2006-01-12 14:45 [#01817459]
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i used to write rich kids papers for them to earn money at
the end of semesters...was sweet...i got so much free booze
too - and they could give me materials and say "ok, dumb
this down so i get a C"

hilarious...fucking college...


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2006-01-12 14:48 [#01817466]
Points: 47414 Status: Moderator



quotfriendsquot


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2006-01-12 14:53 [#01817472]
Points: 47414 Status: Moderator | Followup to DeleriousWeasel: #01817414



"okay, so maybe I deserve an E but do they really care
enough about morals to force me to get my E when through
their help I could get a C?"


first things first - they are not forcing you to get
your E. if anyone is forcing you to get an E, it's you.



 


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