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Hey. I don't post much here. I've got an emo story for you all though! Skip to the last line if you wanna just see the topic question. I had a girlfriend for nine months. I loved her. Then she dumped me. And a week later she and one of my best friends broke the news to me that they were engaged. You read it right. You see, they had been together before me and her were together. And then he dumped her. And a while after that she started flirting with me etc.. She warmed me up to her and I naively started a relationship with her. We had wonderful times. She was my first love. After we started dating my friend decided that he actually still loved her. But she wasn't going to go back with him. She said that there was zero chance of it ever. I was as sensitive to my friend's situation as I could be. You wouldn't even know that me and the girl were together when we were around him (which was alot). I would even let her (I mean not get jealous) talk to him on their own to "calm him down" when he was really upset or depressed. But there were NO signs of what was to eventually come. I was naive. Anyway, in the end I got fucked over and emotionally used. You see, I figured out that she used me to fill the void after he dumped her. And I unknowingly cared for her and nursed her. I was there for her. I thought everything about her was genuine. And she turned around and went back to the person who hurt her and left me out in the cold and left me with all these feelings for her. Did I mention that the friend is also the singer of my band? We haven't and aren't going to break up (the band). The break up and subsequent announcement of marraige was a little over three months ago. I guess I posted this in hopes that somebody maybe has gone through something similar or equally fucked up. So post your worst relationship experiences if you wanna dig in that ugly hole. Thanks. |
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Well, the main thing is that you've learned something from this. And because it hurt so much you're definatley going to remember it. But just because he's your friend don;t feel like you have to pretend everything is hunky dory cause I KNOW that just dosent work. If your uncomfortable in the situation, don't think you're gonna look bad for not wanting to hang around, and also remember that your friend felt the same as you when she was with you. Make sure you talk about it |
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Duuuuuude. I can't even go there. I know people who check this message board. But, man, I know how it feels. |
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xltronic your resource for excellent emo sob stories. |
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I love emus, they lay big eggs! |
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aaahah what a story, loooser |
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truly touching |
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I find it amusing that someone who last posted in January now feels the need to tell this place their story. |
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do to take your mind off her... |
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Yeah..I read the board a decent amount. You could call me a lurker and I guess you all hate those people. One reason I posted here is because no one I know knows about this message board so I feel more safe. Plus you people seem to be decently mature. I warned you it was emo. And yeah, I don't pretend I'm comfortable around them. I can barely be around her at all and around both of them? No. Of course I still hang out with the friend quite a bit. |
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Well your problem is you brought her around him. They broke up for a reason at that time. Bringing them back together was a bad judgement call. You inadvertantly hooked them back up. |
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Yeah. The problem is that we are kind of in the same group of friends. So they were around each other with or without my input. I had never gone through a break up so I didn't know that you could never really get over someone if you were around them often. She doesn't seem to understand that. She wonders why I avoid her at all costs. Well I also don't want to be around her because she lost my trust. Because they were talking and such while we were still together. |
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I didn't mean to say because on that last sentence, but I don't know how to edit posts on here. She lost my trust because of that and many other big reasons. |
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"She wonders why I avoid her at all costs. Well I also don't want to be around her because she lost my trust." There you go. Thats a step in the right direction! Go out there and get another! :) |
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:) That's what I'm working on. I've had proper time to deal with the situation, I think. I think she wants me to still be under her thumb like my friend was, but I refuse to play her game. And thanks for not trying to make me feel stupid for posting something pertaining to a relationship on a message board. |
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Her not understanding why you are avoiding her could actually be her not wanting to feel bad for what she's done to you. Her seeing you on "normal" terms would make her feel better. I say cut off all contact with her and make her feel like shit. |
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