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offline Chihiro from twins land on 2004-12-16 17:30 [#01428042]
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This pal of myn is into a long distance relationship, and
he says that it's the first time he's really in love. He
sees his girl "5 days once a month/two". And "it seems" to
work ok for him.

What do you think about this kind of relationship?
Can it work?
Can it last?



 

offline hobbes from age on 2004-12-16 17:31 [#01428044]
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you mean you don't you?



 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-12-16 17:35 [#01428049]
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well, that must suck. but i bet it's still better than being
single.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-12-16 17:38 [#01428052]
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gruntels?


 

offline Gwely Mernans from 23rd century entertainment (Canada) on 2004-12-16 17:39 [#01428054]
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they never work out


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-12-16 17:41 [#01428055]
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you win a prize


 

offline xf from Australia on 2004-12-17 06:24 [#01428429]
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relationships are quite personal. it shits me how people
can make opinions on a couple and whether things will "work"
based on very little knowledge.

it might work. it might not. up to them. a lot of them
suck and cause both parties pain, though; the temptation to
cheat, et al. personally though, if you're in a
relationship and you're tempted to cheat, my opinion is that
you shouldn't be in it.


 

offline Skeptopotamus from Home (United Kingdom) on 2004-12-17 06:34 [#01428441]
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Due to separate university living, my girlfriend is 200
miles away. I get to see her every 2/3 weeks, and it's
hell.

It's worth it though, 'cause I love her to pieces. You
appreciate the time you have together more too, so this
Christmas is going to be great.


 

offline welt on 2004-12-17 06:34 [#01428442]
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most people are quite similar. the genpool of mankind has
very little variation. less than most other species.
so generalizing statements are justified.


 

offline Matvey from Kiev (Ukraine) on 2004-12-17 06:39 [#01428450]
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Fg=G (m1m2/r2)

Sad.


 

offline Matvey from Kiev (Ukraine) on 2004-12-17 06:41 [#01428451]
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haha, love depends on the masses of beloved. How much do
they weight? Tell them to eat more :))


 

offline pOgO from behind your belly button fluff on 2004-12-17 06:43 [#01428452]
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it depends on the people

They can work out but both people involved need alot of
patients, will power and love.

It's very easy to stray though


 

offline FlyAgaric from the discovery (Africa) on 2004-12-17 06:44 [#01428455]
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my sister lived apart from her hubby (before they were
married) for 2 years. she was in the uk and he was in south
africa. our phone bill was sky high but in the end it worked
out fine.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2004-12-17 06:48 [#01428456]
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none of my long distance relation ships ever worked but
also: none of my relations ships work


 

offline obara from Utrecht on 2004-12-17 07:59 [#01428504]
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you should try to live together - i know it's not easy. but
obviously it's hard to REALLY know each other living
separately,. i experienced that for about a year, it's shit.


"You appreciate the time you have together more" - true, but
living together everyday you know about each other a lot
more


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-12-17 08:14 [#01428528]
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interesting...doesn't quite help tho..


 

offline Dannn_ from United Kingdom on 2004-12-17 08:15 [#01428529]
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The relationship works only if the ratio of penis length to
distance between the two people is 1 or greater.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2004-12-17 08:16 [#01428530]
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HAHAHA


 

offline epohs from )C: on 2004-12-17 08:20 [#01428533]
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Could the relationship work?


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offline pantalaimon from Winterfell (United Kingdom) on 2004-12-17 08:20 [#01428535]
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"Can it work?" for a while
Can it last?" no

this is from personal experience but I guess it depends, its
hard being away from someone you love for a long period of
time, it can be painful and for me it contributed to us
splitting up.


 

offline epohs from )C: on 2004-12-17 08:20 [#01428537]
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Will the relationship work?


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offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2004-12-17 08:36 [#01428562]
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i was wondering why did you ask this question? do you want
your pal to spend more time with you?


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2004-12-17 08:41 [#01428569]
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Let me just shake your hand, because your situation is
almost identical to mine. Next week is going to be amazing.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-12-17 08:49 [#01428579]
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presumably both of you will be washing your hands before
doing so


 

offline virginpusher from County Clare on 2004-12-17 08:50 [#01428580]
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ahahhahhhha


 

offline Fuckwagon from Dallas (United States) on 2004-12-17 09:19 [#01428654]
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been dating my girl long distnace for about a year now . . .
. she just moved in with me temporarily for about six weeks,
it was great, we got to know each other in that everyday
mundane way. we couldnt wait to do stupid shit like grocery
shop together . . . or be in the same room but not paying
attention to the other. like i'd be making tunes and she'd
be watching a movie. she moved back a few weeks ago because
of school, and we're back to long distnace. it's not any
easier, but we both want it to work, so i reckon it will. i
also reckon i might propose to her pretty soon one of these
days. make a baby or some crazy shit like that in a few
years.

the only other experience i had with long distance failed
miserably. because i didnt care one way or the other if it
worked or not. it was just better than being single.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2004-12-17 09:22 [#01428656]
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is that why you call yourself fuckwagon?


 

offline Fuckwagon from Dallas (United States) on 2004-12-17 09:26 [#01428660]
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no i call myself fuckwagon because mom and dad named me that
when i was born . . . middle school was hell. but college
was sweet.


 

offline -crazone from smashing acid over and over on 2004-12-17 09:33 [#01428668]
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they also had a long distance relationship?


 

offline obara from Utrecht on 2004-12-17 10:41 [#01428781]
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i guess it's time to sum up and finish this thread. i can't
look at those miserable-long-distance-virtual-relationship
posts, they make me cry


 

offline godataloss from Cleveland (United States) on 2004-12-17 10:47 [#01428793]
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Long distance relationships are great until your significant
other drops in unexpectedly on you and your real girlfriend.


 

offline hobbes from age on 2004-12-17 10:47 [#01428794]
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You can change avatar now if you want. :)


 

offline obara from Utrecht on 2004-12-17 11:00 [#01428826]
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no wo/man no cry


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2004-12-17 11:03 [#01428829]
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no woman one bicep bigger than the other


 

offline Chihiro from twins land on 2004-12-17 11:12 [#01428842]
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It's actually me, that is having this relationship.
I don't know why i said it was a pal of myn.
Anyway.. :) Thank you all so much for your advices.



 

offline obara from Utrecht on 2004-12-17 13:54 [#01429231]
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i thought so. think for yourself, choose good. if you treat
this rel-ship seriously, confront her in real-everyday-life
situations - a good way to know somebody. my experience - my
advice. good luck

now, i invite you to join other xltronic topics, cheer up !
:)


 

offline corrupted-girl on 2004-12-17 14:13 [#01429283]
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i hate long distant relationships and have no patience for
them. haha


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-12-17 14:16 [#01429295]
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i don't know. heck.


 

offline epohs from )C: on 2004-12-17 14:18 [#01429298]
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you're a heartbreaker arentcha?


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2004-12-17 14:27 [#01429314]
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<3

Good luck Chihiro. I'm sure it'll work out great for you as
long as you have the fundamental things that are crucial for
any relationship to work; love, trust, communication and
patience.


 

offline Sido Dyas from a computer on 2004-12-17 14:28 [#01429319]
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What Dj Assault should i check out ?


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-12-17 14:29 [#01429320]
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that's all grreat in theorry.


 

offline weatheredstoner from same shit babes. (United States) on 2004-12-17 14:30 [#01429323]
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Anal Assault.


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2004-12-17 14:31 [#01429328]
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From my experience it's great in practise too


 

offline epohs from )C: on 2004-12-17 14:32 [#01429331]
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You be good to max, now. He's good people.

:)


 

offline Sido Dyas from a computer on 2004-12-17 14:32 [#01429333]
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Ok thanks

*starts soulseek with great anticipation*


 

offline SValx from United Kingdom on 2004-12-17 14:33 [#01429334]
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:) I will be mate thanks for your concern.


 

offline wimp on 2004-12-17 15:31 [#01429391]
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I lived 100 miles away from my girlfriend for a year. It was
tough, but now we live together and are happy.


 

offline Motha Fucka from Selvaggina (Brazil) on 2004-12-17 22:23 [#01429676]
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I am in a long distance relationship.
It sucks because we want to stay and do things together.
We are very far away,he´s scottish and I am
brazillian,then,it isn´t very easy as ppls thinks.
Maybe I´ll visit him next year,perhaps...


 

offline IronLung from the 91fwy in soCAL (United States) on 2004-12-17 22:28 [#01429677]
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they just dont work


 


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