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we broke a few months back, but we came back together and we tried to get our relationship up again... but we couldnt lourdes doesnt feel love anymore... so we had to finish this... forever its hard cos I still love her to death... but I guess I have to move on... it feels impossible right now though I ve been crying all day in the last 3 days even though you may have not noticed... but right now I need to talk about it and I have already talked with all my friends ... but if I dont write about it I will explode I feel empty and destroyed... I cant imagine my world without her, but I must cos hse is no longer with me thanks guys cos it feels good to know that many of you will care about this actually and to those who think this is not the place to share it, sorry, but I really needed to let it out. crying alone is even harder than crying while typing btw, listening now to the breezeblock set of squarepusher |
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*man-hug* |
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if i wasn't 6,000 miles away i'd totally give you a hug. we'd drink cheap beer, listen to sad songs, and talk about how unfair life is. |
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Oh man, that sucks so bad. Seriously, i hope you'll be ok... i like you nacho. |
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Well now you can spend more time with your friends, flirt with hot chicks, come home when you want and generally have an excellent time. Think of the positive side. |
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Chin up mate. This shit takes time. It took me two years to properly get over the last girl I split up with. |
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"I feel empty and destroyed... I cant imagine my world without her, but I must cos hse is no longer with me " i know this feeling very well. i'm horrible at getting over relationships with people i care dearly about. it completly destroys my world for way longer than it should. the only thing that seems to help me is lots of thinking time to myself. i dunno what to say man, this is one of the major downsides to being human. feel free to spill your soul out though. you've got a lot of friends here, you know that. |
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that's awful, nacm. :( hope you'll feel better in not too long a time. |
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oh jesus when I fall for someone it's very deep - I takes me about a full year to get over someone. it has made me a bit more careful who I go for. |
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Man, i feel you.. so sorry about this. I had a somewhat similar situation about 2 years ago. And honestly I felt like total shit after it. What helped for me is people around me, just to talk about it with mates and try to focus on diffrent things. And allso if you have any pictures of her, put them away for a while, it will help.. Hope it gets better soon dude.. |
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i'm not saying this in a hearrtless way, but... you'll get overr it. then things will seem brrighterr. |
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I think it is better to be out of a relationship that was doomed rather than stuck in it, but I know you can deal with it nacmat. Best of luck anyways. |
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Nacmat. I am really sorry to hear about this. Over the time that I have been posting here, you have always been one of the kindest and most thoughtful members here. You seem to me (and I'm sure to a lot of other people too) as a true gentleman. I can only really offer my condolences and my hopes that you will get through this tough time and come out of it with the strength to find someone else that can be special to you. I don't know the situation - why you two broke up, how it happened, etc etc etc. I had a very hard time when my first girlfriend broke up with me (and technically she can't really be classed as a girlfriend, but that's a totally different story) and I went through a very dark time for months and months. I had literally given up (I know some people will say that was stupid of me, but you don't know my situation and my life, so please don't pre-judge) but things usually brighten up when you're not looking for the light switch if you understand my meaning. I really hope that you will be ok Nacmat :) |
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oh boo hoo. get over it you handsome bastard. |
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i just typed a bunch. but it was all self-involved tripe so i deleted it. it boiled down to the fact that i am jaded and alone. and earth continues to spin. |
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ignacio, you're a good man, this isn't something you deserve, take it one day at a time, before you know it you'll be ifne and be able to return to your normal life, you're situation is only as bad as you convince yourself it is, you're alive you have a roof over your head, you're healthy, you have great music, count your blessings nacho, even without her your life is still great, you've lived without her once you can live without her again. get better naccy, :_( |
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:( -----> :) |
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aye dios mio....Time erases all pain. :) smile my friend. |
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so am I. continously spinning, I mean. |
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so does a bottle of scotch. |
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orr it makes it 1000000000000000000000 times worrse. it can go eitherr way. |
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dont make him an vomit crying alcoholic presely, anus |
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i just recently went through a break up from a very long relationship. i thought as you that the pain would not fade. it does. and it does even faster when you find someone new. and you will. youll get through it. cheers. |
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it will do him the worrld of good. |
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I bet presley, anus |
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im sorry to hear about this nacmat :( |
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the best to you, nacmat. perhaps it helps if you can have the feeling that somewhere there's another woman who's just as lovely, or even more lovely. it could help putting your feelings for your ex in a broader perspective. |
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sorry nacho. i dread what it would be like w/o my love. she's pretty much all i've got in the world...it pains me to hear that. good luck to you, i'm sure you will find someone someday... |
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss :( I've had alot of shit in the past so i know how it feels, i really hope you feel better soon |
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I dont know where i'd be without oscillik and it scares me just to think about not having him around anymore, i'm so sorry you lost your love, nobody deservs that At least you have many good friends here to support you :) |
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yes, i imagine it's easierr to sympathise when you'rre not in a worrld of lonely. |
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if you're talking to me i can sympathise because like i said, i've had my share of shit in the past also, so i know what it feels like to be completely devastated.. And it's not all butterflies and bright sunshine and pretty flowers in my life right now at the moment anyway so yeh i can sympathise All the best dude i hope you find your feet quickly |
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no, i wasn't. |
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no. i sympathise completely. i wish there was something i could say to make nacmat feel better. |
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oh i see. i don't. i do feel sorrrry forr nacmat, don't get me wrrong, he's a grreat guy, but i've lost the ability to sympathise now. |
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with anyone, that is, and theirr love life crrises. |
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Come on nacmat... you're a snow killer! remember? Enjoy what you've had, cherish the memories and the good times, and remember that eventhough this split up is hard and sad - it's just a temporary phase that will pass away. Let go of the feelings and constantly thinking about this when you feel you're ready, and before that just do whatever makes you feel good. If you feel this is the end, remember : once you feel you're ready to move one - it's also the begining of something. |
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i have a pretty pessimistic view when it comes to having any trust in other people. but, i still sympathise with other people who get hurt, because i remember how bad it hurt me when i still had warm blood in my veins. i am alone, but i'm not particularly lonely because i'm not really looking for anything meaningful. i do miss the company of a woman from time to time, but luckily there's only two in this town so i don't get reminded of it too often. |
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take your relationship, how much you loved her, and think about how, at some point in the future, maybe years, you'll love the next person in your life even more. |
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Good luck getting over this. You have been fucking brave so far with it. Much respect to you. I'm not saying it will be easy, as it will be hard, no doubt but you sound like you can think logically and sort this out in your head. There's no point being in a relationship if the ultimate love is not there. Best wishes to you. Take it easy sweet, and spend a lot of times with your friends. |
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less of the fucking, please. |
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Ouch. Sorry, man. I hate checking into Heartreak Hotel - I always end up ordering too much booze from room service. Be good to yourself. |
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ok... sorry |
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You'rre OK ;) |
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sounds like you could do with a big hug, dear. i'm sorry to hear this, nacmat. you seem like a really caring, down-to-earth guy, so i'm sure you'll get through it and meet someone new in the future. it hurts so much for a bit and it seems like the pain will never end, but it does. it probably doesn't help having people keep telling you this, but it's true. xx |
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it used to fuck me off so much when people kept telling me that i'll find someone else, and i'll get through it and all that. i didn't wanna believe it at the time. |
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i know exactly what you mean. you think 'fuck righ off, you obviously have no idea what i'm going through'. it's odd thinking back. it seems never-ending, but within 2 weeks you're less tearful and mopey. i wasn't even in love.... |
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i was still really cut up about it, even after i realised that it was all a game to her. it still cut me up because of the fact that she made me feel something that wasn't there.......it was kinda like she was making a fool of me or something. anyways, that is in my past. i can still remember the dark days though. on the upside, i spent a lot of time listening to music :) |
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I'm so sorry to hear this Nacho, really I am.. Tomorrow we'll have a chat......I'll speak to you in the morning! Be strong mate! |
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