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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 11:37 [#01227075]
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I drink a good deal and make fun of people I don't even know. I can't eat any hard foods, which might be the reason that I have an abundance of gas. I don't have much ambition and live at home
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epohs
from )C: on 2004-06-07 11:38 [#01227078]
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maybe you should get a plant or something.
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 11:39 [#01227079]
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Well, I don't have syphilis
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 11:47 [#01227086]
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Yeah, sounds like a life crisis to me. Do you come home some days, lay down and say to yourself, "What do I have to look foward to? (As in what's there to live for?)". Best cure for this I think is actually 'giving up'. If you try looking for love then you won't find it. Love will find you my friend. Stop trying to take control of what happens and just let life go by.
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epohs
from )C: on 2004-06-07 11:48 [#01227088]
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when refering to monoid "life crisis" is redundant.
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 11:50 [#01227091]
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I never leave the house, so love probably WONT find me....
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Ophecks
from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2004-06-07 11:52 [#01227096]
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I've always heard the opposite regarding love... it won't fall into your lap, you have to make an effort. You should also bring lots of money with you as you look.
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 11:58 [#01227106]
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Well then, LEAVE the house.. If you're not prepared to make any really effort, then you don't have much ground to complain. What, do you think it's EASY for the rest of us? We all have our problems. Of course, some people have more than others; but you're the only one that can affect your situation.
I don't usually reply to any of your threads, because they all strike me as the same attention-seeking subjects over and over again. I'm sure you'll find some excuse for not taking my (or anyone else's) advice, and being pro-active.. If that's the case, then you have to admit that it's YOU keeping you in the rut you seem to be in.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 11:59 [#01227107]
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I'm actually speaking from personal experience so that's all I got for you. I think you should make an effort to get out more. You say you're giving up on love? Have you given love a chance? It's not hard to go down to the local and strike up a conversation with a girl you like.
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tolstoyed
from the ocean on 2004-06-07 12:00 [#01227110]
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exactlly! leave the house! go to a love parade or some other event of that kind...
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 12:07 [#01227124]
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I agree with you completly. But I cant seem to change my attitude....arghh...ive been living that slacker lifestyle much to long....
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 12:09 [#01227127]
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If you want to change things.. and I mean REALLY want to, you will.
It's not about feeling like you ought to - you've got to want to - or you won't do anything.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:11 [#01227131]
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the same discussion.. over and over and over and over..
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 12:11 [#01227135]
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Precisely
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 12:13 [#01227138]
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acrid milk hall, you are totally right. don't be afraid of change. and remember, confidence is a state of mind.
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 12:13 [#01227139]
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Yeah well I just dont feel confortable around people, i suffer from low self esteem....and uh....real life is the suck
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:13 [#01227140]
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Monoid knows all of this already, he knows what he could do, but he doesn't.
nothing really left to say.
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Narkotic
from United States on 2004-06-07 12:14 [#01227141]
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suicide is the only answer monoid.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:14 [#01227142]
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really, many people before you have said these things.
all to no avail.
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J198
from Maastricht (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:17 [#01227147]
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i'm giving up on love too at the moment. this girl i've talked to online for four years (yes i actually loved her) and who was going to see me in canada, backed out on the last moment and said she isn't ready to see me cause she doesnt care about anything anymore (she's young and confused and all that).
Like you, i should get out more and drink less. yes i really should..
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 12:18 [#01227149]
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well Monoid is the only one who can help himself
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Sido Dyas
from a computer on 2004-06-07 12:19 [#01227152]
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Blah blabla blaah blah blah....
Hope this helps.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:21 [#01227158]
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sadly that's the danger of online things. :(
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epohs
from )C: on 2004-06-07 12:22 [#01227161]
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i still think monoid is probably a total stud. all going out to fancy martini parties and bringing home girls wearing high-heeled shoes and low cut dresses. he probably has a convertable black mercedes and marble floors in his living room.
i'll bet he just hops on xltronic when he and his high-rolling buddies are all coked up, and they all take turns posting and laughing at our rediculous replies.
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 12:24 [#01227164]
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I'm with you on that one.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-07 12:25 [#01227167]
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monoid is a playboy bunny, sitting naked and bored in the Playboy Mansion.
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SValx
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 12:25 [#01227169]
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What the fuck are you talking about? How can you give up on love when you've not even given it a chance. You talk as if it's surprising that you've not found anyone that loves you when you've just said you hardly ever go out of the house! If you want to even think about finding someone you need to get the fuck out of your house and GO places. Anywhere! Just gat out or you've got no chance.
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SValx
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-07 12:27 [#01227171]
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Sorry I didn't read what you'd written. If I did I wouldn't have bothered replying as it sounds as if I think exactly the same to this as you do
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 12:30 [#01227176]
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But I thought id only have to wait so love comes to me, or some shit.....well here i am, furiously masturbating infront of the conputer like every evening.....and nothing ever happens
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 12:33 [#01227180]
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Not sure if you can find love in masturbation
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epohs
from )C: on 2004-06-07 12:33 [#01227182]
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i used to think a pretty cool way to kill yourself would be to make a really large cardboard stencil of a heart or something. using duct tape, tape it to a wall, then tie one end of a string to the top of the stencil. tie the other end of the string around your neck. (make the string pretty short, so there's no slack when you're standing right in front of the stencil)
then, aiming through your mouth and back toward the stencil, blow your brains out with a sawed off shotgun.
when you fall the string will pull the stencil off the wall leaving only the outline of a heart with your brains/blood/scull peices.
so, the moral of this post is, monoid, if/when you finally kill yourself, do something cool like this and stream it on a webcam. you'll be totally immortalized on the interweb. at least for a week or two.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 12:36 [#01227186]
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I have regular discussions on how to commit suicide. Said really
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 12:38 [#01227190]
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With whom ?
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Monoid
from one source all things depend on 2004-06-07 12:40 [#01227195]
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Maybe I should take this job...
http://jobsearch.monster.com/getjob.asp?JobID=22488958&AV...
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2004-06-07 12:43 [#01227196]
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I meant to say "Sad really".
The discussions take place with my sis or my m8s most often/
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thecurbcreeper
from United States on 2004-06-07 22:41 [#01228353]
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most people live at home.
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darkpromenade
from Australia on 2004-06-07 23:08 [#01228363]
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I spent ten years looking for love, then gave up and spent four years trying to annihilate myself................... love found me two days ago................. things change.
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SPD
from United States on 2004-06-08 01:07 [#01228431]
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well while you're waiting for love to find you i say get some some kind of project. create something. you're a creative person or you wouldn't be on here. creation is love. without a vision the people perish, and all that kind of stuff.
so like concentrate on something productive. something you love and love to love.
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Q4Z2X
on 2004-06-08 02:01 [#01228486]
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like SPD said.. create something.. construct a song/artwork that harnesses your frustration and hopelessness.. even if the end result seems bad, unlistenable, what you make is better than just letting the feeling soak into you as you do absolutely nothing.. then get out of your house a bit. even if you don't talk to anyone, leaving the self-made prison is a must.. -a first step. try to actually take some of this advice the board is giving you.. then report back indicating the undeniable subtle change for the better.. instead of just more and more threads of the same stuff. many people want to help, but there's not much anyone can do when you just make these attention-seeking threads again and again, and give no sign of an attempt to fix the situation. i mean, if there was nothing you could do about your circumstances, then maybe you wouldn't feel so bad about it.. but it's most likely the sense that you don't have control over your life that's bugging you.. but you do have control.. just fuckin' try to do something.. maybe it's easier said than done.. but being a failure that tried seems so much better than being a failure who might've succeeded if he tried.. i might not be one to talk, but i can relate to you at times.. i just am not in such a hopeless self-aura.. just realise that the only thing that life can be is what you make it.. you can just sit back and watch it disappear slowly, or take charge a bit... watch it turn a bit for the better.. life very well may end up the same way no matter what you do., so then, why not do everything you possibly could and force yourself to make changes so you can enjoy life as much as possible.. remember.. life is all "you" have.. and "you" are thinking about life too subjectively.. if that makes any sense.. so just try one thing.. then report back.. even if it's "i talked to someone today and they now hate me for who I truly am" at least you would have then talked to someone outside the confines of html and text.
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big
from lsg on 2004-06-08 04:03 [#01228687]
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but have you ever been close and fucked up then? if not even that, giving up is the right start
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lupus yonderboy
from 1970. (United Kingdom) on 2004-06-08 04:04 [#01228688]
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i can help you Monoid....find a new love. Try Stella Artois. After 5 of these bad boys i`m really cool...and after 6 i can`t see anymore....after 7 i vomit and travel through dimensions. Maybe my new love can help you...it certainly helps me from facing up to doing everything in life that i`m suposed to do but really just don`t want to....
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Netlon Sentinel
from eDe (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-08 04:05 [#01228692]
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wuss...
try that with duvel, that's the way to go if you want to get drunk fast and hard.
anyway, you can fake confidence.
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lupus yonderboy
from 1970. (United Kingdom) on 2004-06-08 04:12 [#01228713]
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say that again ..and i`ll come down this telephone line and roll you.
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Netlon Sentinel
from eDe (Netherlands, The) on 2004-06-08 04:15 [#01228721]
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nah, i can't be arsed to copy paste. instead i'll just write away for a few seconds, like i'm doing right now. anway. duvel is the way to go.
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-06-08 04:19 [#01228727]
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is this thread still going?
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lupus yonderboy
from 1970. (United Kingdom) on 2004-06-08 04:28 [#01228731]
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never heard of it..i dunno if you can get it here....BUT I`LL LOOK!!!!
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2004-06-08 04:31 [#01228732]
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call bjørk: 1-800-557-bjork
she'll help.
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VLetr
from London (United Kingdom) on 2004-06-08 04:38 [#01228736]
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...but only if you produce her next album for her, in an experimental boards of autechre twin stylee.
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Doomed Puppy
from on and off and on and off and on 2004-06-08 04:54 [#01228762]
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My advice as a LOVE expert: Get out of your house, take a walk in the streets of the town you live in. Find a bench so you can observe the people that pass by. Watch them carefully. For as long as it takes. It is statistically certain that you will see a girl that you like. When you do get up, fix your hair and stuff, check your breath, approach her and give her a strong kick straight in the balls. Worked for me.
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bob
from Nottingham (United Kingdom) on 2004-06-08 05:00 [#01228768]
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go down the pub. act like you are mr popular. you wont find love, but you might get laid. thats a start at least.
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