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Move to Key_S's place for a while. we could write poetry together and perhaps do some drunken posting. who knows? |
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lol. |
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it's a trap! |
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best avatar ever! :) |
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you certainly know more than you're telling. wiseguy |
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... or I could move to your place for a while, say over a weekend? that'd be great. |
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nlogax is hot. |
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suicide is NEVER a solution. yeah I know it sounds cliché but that's the way it is and not different. suicide is for cowards, and leaving people who do really love you behind just like that is plain wrong. |
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Watch the opening credits to M*A*S*H and everything will be fine. |
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Key: Sure, I'd like that... and bring your gf, so we can do some gf swapping :) Anus: likewise, you hunk you! |
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giginger: AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!! |
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milkwoman, you are hot, wanna hook up? |
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well now im depressed. i was at the hospital all day, and my grandmother died while we were there. and i had to be the one to tell everyone. sucks, im so beat. but im not sleepy at all. hungry, but cant eat. im not sad really, she was just a big part of my life. but i dont feel like crying. i only got choked up at how sad everyone else was. |
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everyone has good things and bad things in their lives. you just have to focus on the good things. you are posting on a music message board so i assume you at least have some interest in music. when you are feeling shitty, listen to good music. people here probably have loads of suggestions for music to fit your mood. for me, its Boards of Canada for pretty much any mood. and, not to sound condesending but, as you grow older, you will look back on your past and your troubles are realize how silly a lot of them are. once you are out of school, most of those people that used to make you feel shitty, will be gone from your life for good. |
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most of those people that used to make you feel shitty, will be gone from your life for good. ah yes! I know what that's like! |
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if it's any cosolation, i think you're pretty cute milkwoman. |
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thats like really the kind of comment i would make to someone with suicidal tendencies |
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Depression = get help! I don't mean to scare you or anything, but it won't just fade away by itself like a runny nose; it gets worse. |
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My depression comes from the feeling that I've failed myself. I don't know which would feel worse; that you've let yourself down, or that you've let others down? |
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to make things even worse, probably both! depressions suck! |
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my back hurts. |
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I think I probably am. I don't think people can tell at all. I feel like my life is over and everything is so lame that I have no motivation and I want to not want to want to not want to want to not want to want ad infinitum. BLAH. |
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ambivalent, then. I know how you feel. |
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well. its great to hear that some people around here think that IM afraid of taking pills/medication. Im not. I just think that I have to solve it out with myself, instead of taking pills. Medication, is just a last option. Talking to people and listening to music gets me up a little. @Tibbar. Man, I feel sorry for you, if there's anything I can do? Fuck.. why do people here thing Im hot, gonna change my avatar I think. But most of the people around here, thanks for your help. For listening to me, and giving me advice.. really kind of you :) |
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I hope it works out for you, Milky! It's shit to be depressed. Shit. |
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smashing! my birthday is october 18 too! :) |
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thnx nlogax :) |
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medication can work wonders. if your depression is a chemical imbalance (like mine) it makes sense to take meds... fixing a chemical error in your body. if your depression is based on life, perhaps it is better to not use meds. but, its different in each situation... sometimes it might be the thing you need, to pull yourself together, and then once you do, slowly go off. But know what? No one here is a doctor... so see one. Even if not to get meds, just to get professional opinions. (remember, there are psychologists, and psychiatrists. The latter, is the one that prescribes medicine) Music is a great medicine indeed... and probably the worst thing you could have done here was let people know you are a girl. I hate to say it... but ive seen it happen time and time again... girls get treated differently here. Lots of nerdy, reclusive, horny guys, who will just annoy you with thier immaturity. Try to ignore them. They are worthless jackasses. |
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haha, nice avatar! looks slightly disoriented |
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How do you find out if it's a chemical error or a life based one? I mean, can you test for chemical alterations in the brain and verify it as a problemsource? obviously there's no way to test for the other option. |
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Depression is underrated |
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Honestly, I don't know. I know that mine is, because my family has a long history of depression. Almost everyone on my mothers side actually... going back many generations. Additionally, the same meds seem to work for the majority of us (there a good number of different types of meds, and people respond to them differently. For my family, Zoloft seems to be the most effective) So I guess one of the key factors in figuring it out, is knowing your family history. |
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I think you can feel that nlogax.. Mine is missing a balance. I just turn really quick from depressed to happy. and being a girl. Im just not like A girl... Im a bitch. So bite me :P I can handle them fine. And shrinks doesnt work for me... |
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well quite frankly, if you refuse to even see a doctor and attempt to bring some resolve to the issue, then you have no right to bitch about your depression. |
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That makes sense! My family has a history of mental disorders/depressions on my fathers side, so I guess that would make my depression primarily a chemical based one. In addition, I've been doing a lot of drugs since I was 13/14 and suffered some trauma through the loss of my brother ten years ago, and in the past three years, three more family members have died tragically and unexpected. I'm currently on Efexor and they seem to help a lot. Fuck! |
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i dont refuse. I went to a doctor before, but everything they say is something that I thought of myself.. Im sorry :( |
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thats rough man... sounds like a combination :-\ Im glad the Efexor is helping though :) |
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how many times did you go? |
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seeing a psychologist/psychiatrist won't to wonders in a snap. It takes time. For me, medication + pshychologist = good effect, but that's not neccessarily effective for all people. I take it I'll have to go see my psychologist for at least one year, at least, maybe two, maybe more. who knows? Mental conditions are serious issues. |
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guess 50 times.. he talked more about his own problems then helping me.. weird.. nlogax, boy.. *speechless* |
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thats the point I was going to get at... you dont say you want a physical fit body, and only go to the gym once. And the mind is a much more complex thing... it takes lots of time... |
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well if thats the case, find a new doctor. there are many of them out there... find the one thats right for you. I would suggest perhaps finding a female doctor, so its easier to relate, and feel comfortable. Just because you go to someone once, doesnt mean you are bound to them. If you dont like them, try someone else. |
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Yeah, life's a bitch! I mean, it really is. Some of the things you have to deal with, man... but hey, I'm not giving up! It's nice to know that someone around here knows what it's like. Thanks Zeus! |
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i guess so.. I have to go.. eat my breakfast :( dont want to.. thanks |
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Speaking of which! hehe! My psychologist is a 35 year old female from Uganda! She's really pleasant and helpful. We have a great connection and the chemistry between us is great! It's essential to have a good connection with your shrink. Otherwise you might as well stare at the celing while pouring out your inner self |
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:) and yeah, thats another thing that tells me its chemical... because seriously, I've had a real good life... nothing that warrents depression. Its something I try to remember when Im feeling down... that my life is good, and I should fucking suck it up, because alot of people have it much, MUCH harder. |
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yeah, Im actually in the process of finding a new one. The doctor I got when I went to college, I just got, so I could continue taking my meds... but now I feel like I want to actually meet semi regularly maybe once a week, or every other week, just to talk... and I had no connection with this one, what so ever. Unfortunately, Im also a procrastinator, and after calling the last one, telling her I wasnt coming any more... I am yet to find a new one... and I have enough meds to last probably 20 more days max. So I gotta find someone ASAP, when I get back to school. Zoloft withdraw is FUCKED up. |
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ooooo yeah, the withdraw can be quite ugly. I forgot taking my meds for two days, and everything got fucked up! oh, and btw, I rule :) |
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hehehe |
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Nobody in Wales goes to shrinks, we just go to the pub instead |
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