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Milkwoman
from Weert (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-07 11:00 [#01021883]
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maatjuh@hotmail.com //
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:00 [#01021884]
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you have to talk to whoever makes you feel comfortable, and some people have a horrible aversion to shrinks.
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:01 [#01021885]
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milkwoman:: listen, I dont want to be harsh at all, I understand all to well what your feeling inside and it does hurt a lot. It feels just like yesterday that I was going through what you are. hook me up with your MSN name if you got one and when im done for the day ill try and chat ya up ok? Its the best I can do from this far away!
In the meantime try to find things about your life that you can actually look at or think of differently than these things that depress you. Even in my dismal existance I have things that make me happy.
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:01 [#01021887]
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yes sir tibbar sir!
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:01 [#01021888]
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shrinks are people that you pretty much pay to be your friend, talk to a real friend.
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:02 [#01021891]
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tragedy: whenever will I tour through your city?.... my band is going on a tour this summer hopefully and maybe will hit up your town, come see us or die!
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:03 [#01021892]
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milk woman: i dunno if you already answered this or someone already asked, but are you on medication at all? i know most people say it doesn't work, but a lot of the time it really does.
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:04 [#01021893]
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milk woman: i dunno if you already answered this or someone already asked, but are you on medication at all? i know most people say it doesn't work, but a lot of the time it really does.
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Milkwoman
from Weert (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-07 11:06 [#01021895]
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I'm not on medication,,,, I don't trust that stuff.
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:07 [#01021896]
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reflex> i def will!
and sorry about the double post.
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:07 [#01021897]
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meds? naw....
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JAroen
from the pineal gland on 2004-01-07 11:07 [#01021898]
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well if you know her, it really fucked up neetta (user from here)
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:08 [#01021899]
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tragedy: oh btw do you have msn or icq or something lame like that? i always wondered this.
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tolstoyed
from the ocean on 2004-01-07 11:08 [#01021900]
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i was quite depressed 2 years ago...i then somehow managed to get over that and now im no exactly happy, but i can get along with myself.
you say people think of you like...why care what they think of you? i never pay attention to what people think of me or say to me so i have no reason to be upset about it :)
as suggested before, try find something that would interest you, it helped a lot when i started doing what i enjoy...
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:09 [#01021901]
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man..... medication is SHIT! for depression I think, I mean sometimes yes it can help like tragedy says, but most of the time its just a REALLY easy way out. and it doesnt even work in the ways it should, it just medicates you to hell, which aint good.
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:11 [#01021904]
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reflex: no, i have aim, and yahoo msngr, heh. jaoren: i was on meds for depression and anxiety for almost 4 years, they helped me out a lot, so it does work for som people.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:12 [#01021907]
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hahahahahahaha
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:13 [#01021910]
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tragedy whats your aim, or is it in your profile? lemme check.
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DJ Xammax
from not America on 2004-01-07 11:14 [#01021911]
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I think looking at dead babies' heads helps quite a lot especially when you have a young niece.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:15 [#01021912]
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it quiets the soul
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:17 [#01021914]
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DJ Xammax::; i was thinking the same thing.
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Milkwoman
from Weert (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-07 11:18 [#01021915]
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well.. its over with the serious talk around here?
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tragedy
from Gloucester (United States) on 2004-01-07 11:19 [#01021917]
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wow, i didn't think of that! yer a genious..
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aphextriplet
from your mothers bedroom (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-07 11:22 [#01021919]
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you crazy kids
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 11:22 [#01021920]
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milkwoman: i tried to contact you through MSn, but it was AWAY or something
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acrid milk hall
from United Kingdom on 2004-01-07 11:31 [#01021927]
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the main problem with meds is that theyre misprescribed a lot of the time by lazy doctors who dont want to help work through peoples problem.
they work for some people. but theyre given to others as a quick fix, when really there may be better solutions.
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nlogax
from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2004-01-07 12:07 [#01021973]
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you say you don't trust medication. 1. why not? 2. because of personal experiences? 3. what have you got to loose anyway?
I'd say give it a try if you haven't already.
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nlogax
from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2004-01-07 12:09 [#01021980]
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or, if your previous meds didn't work, try a different kind. medication is just as individual as any person. very often you'll have to try different meds to get the desired effect.
besides, if you've been into drugs, you've got nothing to worry about when it comes to medication; know what I mean..
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 12:11 [#01021984]
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meds dont solve the issue, they just supress the symptoms.
it's not as bad as suicide, but its still not confronting things head-on.
it places too much emphasis on chem imbalances, and not enough on resolving traumas.
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nlogax
from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2004-01-07 12:14 [#01021992]
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Yes of course, tibbar. that's why you always should use medication in conjunction with other treatment methods. It's better to have suppresed thoughts of suicide and get the proper professional help, than to be a suicidal maniac on the loose with no back up or help whatsoever.
chemicals solve nothing, but they can be a crucial helping factor in the whole process.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 12:16 [#01021999]
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i agree meds can aid serious serious conditions, but i think they are overused. im no psychiatrist, but i dont think this girls problem is a mental chemistry issue, its more an issue of finding emotional balance and harmony with the world aroudn her.
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oxygenfad
from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2004-01-07 12:16 [#01022001]
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Dave Matthews - Grey Street
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 12:17 [#01022003]
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dont you ever say that name in my presence again, joccoite!
;)
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rockenjohnny
from champagne socialism (Australia) on 2004-01-07 12:19 [#01022007]
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ive been watching this thread
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rez
from here on 2004-01-07 12:20 [#01022009]
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do you have other persons from your family to talk to?
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-07 12:20 [#01022010]
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huh?
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nlogax
from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2004-01-07 12:24 [#01022019]
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I agree - doctors prescribe meds too soon during (pre-)diagnose.
My general opinion is that you might as well try it, so that you can rule it out as a possible help/"solution". Especially if you've been feeling blue (or whatever) for a longer period of time. It's perfectly normal to feel a bit down now and then, and that it might last a few weeks, but when it lasts for several weeks and months, something is clearly not right.
I take antidepressant every day (double dose), and I gotta say, if I didn't, I'd be a hell of alot more miserable than I am now. But then again, I get professional help too.
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Pulsar
from pocket on 2004-01-07 12:34 [#01022037]
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Milkwoman maybe I'm suspicious but I think that you are joking.
If you really want to kill you why you are afraid of pills like prosac or something like that?
If i wonted to kill myself I wouldn't be scared of them, at worst they would kill me.
If I'm wrong then I hope you understand that I didn't want to be unkind.I just have a serious problem with trusting other people. But somehow I manage to live with that.
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 12:42 [#01022050]
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wow i even have time to read this crap while at a friends house, or here at my exjob, .. anyways,
pulsar: I think you just dont understand english very well.
pills are something maybe not to be scared of, but wary! because they are not good for you, and they dont really fix whats wrong for real, they dont fix your perspective, they dont make your problems go away, they just fuck you up inside, its not a good thing to trust yourself to medication
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Pulsar
from pocket on 2004-01-07 12:46 [#01022061]
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Oh:/ But thanks for explanation:)
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REFLEX
from Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) on 2004-01-07 12:48 [#01022069]
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pulsar; thats ok, just work on your understanding of english a bit more.. it may take time
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The_Funkmaster
from St. John's (Canada) on 2004-01-07 13:00 [#01022087]
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hey, I'm just saying that she can chat with me if she needed to... I've been depressed, and know what it's like to be really low... I think most people do...
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nlogax
from oh, you must be the brains (Norway) on 2004-01-07 13:26 [#01022118]
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I was just yanking your chain :)
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The_Funkmaster
from St. John's (Canada) on 2004-01-07 13:36 [#01022143]
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I know... but still, I'm just explaining myself!
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Anus_Presley
on 2004-01-07 13:41 [#01022152]
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Most everryone is deprressed girrly.
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2004-01-07 13:42 [#01022153]
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i'm lonely!
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2004-01-07 13:43 [#01022155]
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I'm fucking depressed too at the moment :(
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Pulsar
from pocket on 2004-01-07 13:48 [#01022171]
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You have great avatar! I love that toons.They are so optymistic and always make me laugt:)
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roygbivcore
from Joyrex.com, of course! on 2004-01-07 13:53 [#01022179]
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but my plan on friday is to go out and get trashed and try to make out with girls who would only make out with me cause it's my birthday
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thecurbcreeper
from United States on 2004-01-07 13:54 [#01022181]
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hundert
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