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Yesterdaynight I was in a coffeeshop, and I saw the ex boyfriend of a friend of mine.... I was fucking stoned an horny so I took my chance. But. I fell in love. the only problem is, as always, that he doesn't like me in that way. Only as a friend... What to do? |
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wow, you and key ARE perfect for each other. |
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what do you mean by saying that :P |
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but i digress. seriously though... so let me get this straight: you took yr chance meaning you had sex? then he was like he onyl wants to be friends? funny, but i dont go having sex with my friends. thats somethign i reserve for people i have feelings for. sounds like the typical male ape thing to do, if im understanding what you wrote correctly. i say wise up and forget his sorry ass. and dont give yr heart away so easy. youre only setting yrself up that way. |
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nowadays, people need to be smarter about this crap. all these threesomes and crap going on, people getting knockedup left and right. you gotta be on guard and WAY more selective about who yr with. |
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never fall for you ex dude ! |
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press any key to continue |
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also sound advice. |
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I wouldn't even try it with your friend's ex... asking for trouble imho. Have you known him a while? I only ask cos i'd say it's kinda hard to fall in love with someone you don't really know. If you really mean it i feel bad for you, it's a really hard situation to be in, one of my friends never really got over something very similar. |
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no, I did''t have sex with him. I kissed. I touched. but no sex... I think he's fucking cute.. In one way I want to have a boyfriend, but in another I don't. difficult |
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hehe. yeah we have the same problems. Maybe I and wilkwoman could work them out together. |
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I've known him for a year... but after last night I feel completely different |
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but i dont kiss my guy friends, or caress them. do you see what im gettin at? he's being a guy. thinking with his dork, instead of his brains. you can have that with anyone. its what you CANT just have with anyone that you should be after. |
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*cracks whip and tugs leash* DOWN BOY! |
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ugh youve got a cu2 instant ban! :D |
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:P It's really old.. don't hurt me :( :P |
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I think you have to ask yourself why do you feel different after last night? Is it because you were stoned and horny and some stuff happened or is it something deeper? Do you really connect on a mental level or do you just find him attractive? A word of caution even if things start to work out: FUCKBUDDIES ARE A BAD IDEA. Another friend of mine ruined a 5-year friendship in 2 weeks like that. |
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hehe just joking where is weert somewhere, anyways? |
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what is really old? |
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I just feel fucking bad. I really liked this guy... always.. I was like way to drunk and stoned... Didn't know what I was doing.. No regrets. But after my last boyfriend I promised myself never to let my heart break again.. well here it is again. |
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*hides under table as king john* save me, save me!! hurt dem, hurt dem!! right... save them save them, hurt you hurt you... got it! |
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drugs: THE basis for a long lasting relationship |
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yeah, but sometimes with longterm crushes and stuff, you have to expect this. i mean, if he wanted you, youd think by now hed have made it somewhat known, ya know? |
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I think the test is to totally avoid him for at least a month or so... if you can get along in your life without crumbling to pieces then it can't be real love. I hope it all works out ok though, i know this kind of shit can be hard. |
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well, he's unclear about it. He likes tall,slim and beautifull girls.. I'm not standing a chance. |
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hormonally yours.. |
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f0 shiZZle |
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ow my god. He doesn't want a relationship. he wants sex my life sucks |
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theres a bjork line i like that i think of when i get like this about a girl... "all is full of love, maybe not from the sources you have poured yours into, maybe not form the directions you are staring at" those lines really hit me one time. i realised that life is full of love from many sources. it might not be form who you want it from, or when you want it, or how, or whatever... but its there. |
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if your life sucks... then what does mine do? Don't waste your time. Make up your mind, and make the right decision. |
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sex: THE basis for a long lasting relationship |
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yeah, that song is really special! I love the video aswell. |
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WHAT DID I SAY?!?!?!?! BOOYAH! i knew it. forget this guy. seriously. if you continue to persue him, expect to get hurt. |
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monogamy is the key |
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My advice: Write a letter to some nevspaper for woman or at least to bravo girl:) |
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hahahaha did you just propose? ;P |
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If he wants JUST sex then i'd really leave him alone. I don't know him at all but he sounds like a dick. You'll only get hurt. |
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Go back to sleep. Milkwoman, I think you need to take the best of the advice you are being given here, and filter out the rest. Key...move to Holland ;) |
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I'm hurt already. why do people think they can use me like I don;t have any feelings.... |
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it's like looking in a mirror, only it's black on one side. i can't believe this stir comes back every now and then, every time the same thing.... God i'm vague.... |
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Hehe, great minds think alike. |
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I'm sure you will do the sensible thing. Follow your heart, you'll find the answers. |
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Did he tell you all this? |
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weert is in Limburg, near eindhoven. |
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its not just you, trust me... this is the human condition. weve all done it to someone at sometimes, and weve all had it done back to us. the thing is not to dwell on it. if you let it slow you down or absorb you, you might miss someone really great when they DO come along. |
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yes he did. fuck |
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well, if you give him what he wants A) you still wont have what YOU want, and B) can you respect yrself for it? |
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Do we talk about being horny or about being in love? I think I have lost the thread. |
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somehow, people equate the 2 |
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Not with you my dear I haven't ;) |
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