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offline deepspace9mm from filth on 2004-01-04 08:15 [#01017000]
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Wow this thread is growing fast.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 08:16 [#01017003]
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like a tumah.


 

offline Pulsar from pocket on 2004-01-04 08:16 [#01017004]
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Oh! You know what i wanted to say:)


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2004-01-04 08:17 [#01017006]
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*suspicious


 

offline Jedi Chris on 2004-01-04 08:18 [#01017012]
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of what?


 

offline rockenjohnny from champagne socialism (Australia) on 2004-01-04 08:20 [#01017021]
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sounds like the story of my life :)

totally let it go is what i get told


 

offline Milkwoman from Weert (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-04 10:48 [#01017273]
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I have senk him a message that I don't want sex as long that
he doesn't want a relationship.

We're just friends...


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 10:50 [#01017278]
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ehhhh hurrrr burrrr nurrrr i don't know. kill him.


 

offline pantalaimon from Winterfell (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-04 10:52 [#01017282]
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well done, now he'll probably just pretend he wants a
relationship


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-01-04 10:56 [#01017287]
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you shouldn't "send messages" like that.
If you have strong feelings about this issue, it's too
serious.
You should talk to him, face to face.


 

offline pantalaimon from Winterfell (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-04 10:57 [#01017290]
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how you can have a crush on someone who wants to use you is
beyond me


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 10:57 [#01017292]
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it's not serrious


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-01-04 11:02 [#01017305]
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yeah.

maybe she's just looking for some qualities in persons, that
this person possess?


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-01-04 11:02 [#01017307]
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oh, ok.

I just figured it was :)


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 11:03 [#01017310]
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no, she prrob thinks it is, but come on, it's a joke.


 

offline pantalaimon from Winterfell (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-04 11:05 [#01017313]
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yeah great qualities like using a girl for sex?


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 11:08 [#01017319]
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being used forr sex is a good thing.


 

offline AlfredPMcLovely from the country that will end up d (Turkmenistan) on 2004-01-04 11:09 [#01017326]
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Make him pay you for sex. After a while he'll wise up and
realize he can save good money if hes in a relationship with
you. then break up with him


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-01-04 11:17 [#01017345]
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no.
I don't know why she likes him.
I agree with you that she should leave him alone.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 12:27 [#01017461]
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i think you shouldnt listen to any of these people, myself.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 12:35 [#01017480]
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does that include ^^^


 

offline B3n from Manchester (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-04 12:36 [#01017482]
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don't bother with him if you want a proper relationship

but also don't assume he's a bad guy because he doesn't want
a proper relationship, but sex...that's fair enough


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 12:37 [#01017487]
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yeah, it does... i mean, who am i to tell her what to do?

she can figure out for herself just like everyone else what
they think is a good idea.

all these suggestions are just that. shell do whatever she
wants, in the end.


 

offline B3n from Manchester (United Kingdom) on 2004-01-04 12:39 [#01017493]
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yeah but she's thinking it all through herself i'm guessing


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 12:45 [#01017509]
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yes, but most of her thinking is going on in her own mind,
not on the message board.

less said the better, in my opinion.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 12:48 [#01017522]
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do you see what im saying?

she admitted she was "stoned and horny" what did she expect
from him?

she needs to figure out her own motives and what she is
really looking for, not how to deal with him.

thats what im saying, i think.

dont listen to us, only you know what you want girly.


 

offline AlfredPMcLovely from the country that will end up d (Turkmenistan) on 2004-01-04 12:49 [#01017526]
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well, if she could just stay stoned and horny she'd be all
set


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 12:49 [#01017528]
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hahahahahaha


 

offline Milkwoman from Weert (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-04 13:45 [#01017590]
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you fuckers :P

thnx tibbar, really sweet of you.

I liked this guy longer, but I'm a girl with a lack of
selfconfidence.. so that;s why i was drunk :@


 

offline kochlear from aud-stim.com on 2004-01-04 13:50 [#01017595]
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what's wrong with you? i don't go kissing MY guy friends!


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 13:52 [#01017597]
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i'm surre you do, you slag.


 

offline kochlear from aud-stim.com on 2004-01-04 13:54 [#01017600]
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no, i don't have any friends.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 13:55 [#01017604]
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damn, i put my foot in it huh.


 

offline kochlear from aud-stim.com on 2004-01-04 13:56 [#01017605]
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no, i actually killed all my friends.

AFTER making out with them.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2004-01-04 13:56 [#01017607]
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:O

*lets get it ooooooon*


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 14:02 [#01017622]
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no prob, milklady.

kochlear: why havent you made out with/murdered me?


 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2004-01-04 20:39 [#01018266]
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yeah, sounds just like the story of my life too... I know
exactly what you're going through, cause I seem to fall
completely head over heels for girls who don't have one bit
of interest in me... currently I feel like I'm falling in
love with a good friend of mine, and I've already told her
that, but she just wants to remain friends... and it hurts
me cause I don't want to lose the friendship, but I also
want more... :(


 

offline hevquip from megagram dusk sect (United States) on 2004-01-04 20:52 [#01018290]
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i will treat you right.

we'll start you off at paying me 85% of what you make in a
night.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2004-01-04 20:53 [#01018291]
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*slaps forehead*


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-01-04 20:56 [#01018299]
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*slaps something else*


 

offline hevquip from megagram dusk sect (United States) on 2004-01-04 20:57 [#01018301]
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*slaps mad hos*


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2004-01-04 21:15 [#01018330]
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you feel in love after one night of making out, while
high/drunk?

People throw around the word "love" too much, it seems.

Love doesn't come in an instant. Especially an intoxicated
one.

Also, you say on the one hand you want a boyfriend, and on
the other... you do.

And he only likes tall beautiful girls? Then why do you care
about him? Hes obviously shallow (point proven, you said he
just wants sex)

And then you say you don't have self confidence... thats
exactly why people think they can use you. They feel they
can get away going for sex, because generally, someone who
is insecure, is more suseptable to giving in to what the
person wants. (i.e. sex)

I think that before you worry about boyfriends, and love and
all that, you should try to feel for comfortable with
yourself. I know its not easy... but it needs to be done.

What use is being in a relationship, if you arn't even
comfortable by yourself?

*shrug*

just imo

hope some of this helps. If not... sorry.


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2004-01-04 21:16 [#01018332]
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* on the one hand you DONT want a boyfriend, and on the
other, you do.



 

offline oxygenfad from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2004-01-04 21:17 [#01018335]
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If you make him really good meals and give him blow jobs for
about 2 months he will marry you...



 

offline The_Funkmaster from St. John's (Canada) on 2004-01-04 21:19 [#01018338]
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oxygenfad is right... it worked for me!


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2004-01-04 21:26 [#01018349]
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yeah, now Jack sees the errors in his ways, and you too are
very happy together!


 

offline hevquip from megagram dusk sect (United States) on 2004-01-04 21:26 [#01018350]
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i'm going to convince girls that.


 

offline Key_Secret from Sverige (Sweden) on 2004-01-04 21:32 [#01018360]
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I hope I get together with a vagina* soon.

* vagina = girl, according to a recent XLT topic.


 

offline evolume from seattle (United States) on 2004-01-05 01:36 [#01018468]
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first thing that came to my mind is,
what kind of person joins a message board and makes an
avatar showing more of their clevage than their face?

the answer, i think, is:
the same kind of person that would fall in love with a guy
who admits he only wants her as a fuck-buddy.


 

offline Zeus from San Francisco (United States) on 2004-01-05 03:18 [#01018496]
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harsh, but good point.

kind of also answers the question "why do they think they
can use me?"


 


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