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Fuck! I feel really bad for you mate. I can't really say much but I hope you're going to be doing well and not ge too down. |
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MUCHO love to paul right now!!!!!!! we all believe in you, man!!! |
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eric_hard_jams - hmm , affair,getting pregnant thru affair , divorce via e mail .... hmm , oh no i can see what ur saying .she sounds nice :| Marlowe - there's not much a stranger can say to someone in this situation to make 'em feel better...But hey : i offer you my sympathy and a hug and i also offer for you to accept my prediction that you'll be soo much happier soon -expecially without her... -A- |
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man, and i thought i had it bad when i woke up with the squits. |
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all i'm saying is there's two sides to a story. you have only heard one! |
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True i imagine but marlowe's side matters more cause he is loved |
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plus, i mean... what possible reason can your wife have for being pregnant to another guy? |
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but if all he's concerned about is getting his green card she was obviously in a loveless sham of a marriage and she needed her lovin. we are human and need to be loved. only a twat would give him any sympathy |
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ooooooooooooooh a curious spin |
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my sympathies to you.... I know it's not much, but that's about all I can offer :/ |
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i think theres a lot of backstory you didnt catch mate. |
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oooooooooooooooooh a curious spin *sits back and munches pop corn* |
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spin spin sugar |
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paul: this sucks :-/ |
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bullshit. there is absolutely no fucking excuse for this shit. if she wanted her lovin', supposing this was what happened (we don't know shit, remember), how about actually doing something about it, like breaking up? my sympathies dude, this must fucking suck. |
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Bad luck marl. |
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She told me on MSN messanger: here is a choice snippet: Jessica: he isn't pressuring me to get a devorce btw, he is making me feel quite bad cos when ever I go to the store with him and use my debt card I have to sign jessica j savage and i can see it in his eyes how much it's hurting him me: he doesn't mind that you were married at the time he got you pregnant? that doesn't cross his mind? Jessica: we didn't plan for it but he is very happy I am pregnant cos he was so scared of losing me cos I was married |
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fuck me ... i'd hate to see the "out takes" |
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you are wrong, but dont worry... its hard to be right everytime... |
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msn messenger is even worse than an email. does this woman have no shame? i know it's very easy for us to all say, but you're better off without her. she really doesn't deserve someone like you. *big hug* |
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That's a little bit sick and deranged...they didn't plan for it?...they obviously didn't plan to stop it either...you are best well out of that situation Paul...just make sure you get what you want before it is finished. |
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Go make some more new tracks (I like Acid Kompressor!), it'll take your mind of things. |
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Yes, eric doesn't know that it is NOW that I am going after my Green Card solely - before she ditched me by email, it wasn't an issue, but now my wife has ditched me & was fucking someone else at least 6 weeks before she ditched me (I figured out that she must have got pregnant round about my birthday....), then I don't see why I should get pissed on and have my dream of going to America to see my Grand-dad and my friends there stomped...which is exactly what I told her last night... she said she will talk to me today at some point. |
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Fuck man... i hope things turn out right for you, no matter how shitty they are now... |
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become who you are |
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gun |
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just a sorrrry to hearr that message marlowe frrom someone who carres. |
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just saying as i saw it. peace |
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In a TonyFish world betrail would be punished by decapitation. :( |
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i'm still in fucking shock. mother fucking shock. however, i do appreciate that you feel that we're a decent enough bunch of friends that you can be open to us with this. thanks, bro. |
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How the fuck can someone conciously do that to someone else? What a fucking lousy species we are. We deserve anihilation. |
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why did you marry this dumb bitch in the first place? (sorry to come off as mean and insensitive, but thats way I am, so thats the way it sounds when I say stuff) |
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That is ridiculous-shitty. Can she even ask for child support? It wouldnt seem right being that it's entirely her fault if she has an affair and gets pregnant, I don't see how you should be held accountable. Maybe you'll be able to take this whole shitty mess and channel it into your music, you might get some really powerful music out of this and maybe it'll help you cope? Anyway, sorry man, I hope things start lookin up for you. |
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Sorry to hear this Marlowe |
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no, I won't be hit for child support - it's not my child to support. I'm gonna get to the bottom of this, and find out exactly how long she's been doing this behind my back. |
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forget the gun, this bitch needs something painful... chop off all her limbs, and then glue her fucking ass together... so she'll clog up and die! hmm, sorry, but this kind of crap just makes a guy angry... man, it's too bad... but it is for the best... you don't need this bitch... get away from her, and find someone better, which shouldn't be hard! |
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yes exactly if it's just for your own information don't bother finding out the gritty details. forget it and get the fuck away from the whore |
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I'm sorry Paul.. Not sure what else to say, but it must be hard going through this |
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ddo you have a picture of her you can post? Im trying to picture her... I bet she has that "bitch" look |
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is it just me, or does that conversation make her sound like a stupid, stupid slut? how old is she, anyway? that's the kind of shit i'd expect some immature 16 year old who just cheated on her boyfriend to say; absolutely no understanding of loyalty, and absolutely no ability to feel what another person does. it's all about her immediate feelings. |
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I wouldn't want to sully the messageboard by having an image of my dear wife taking up phobiazero's webspace. |
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you're handling this incredibly well, though - did you love her, or were things already rocky before she told you? |
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That's very true, and a point I made to her... after she accused me of selfishness for asking her to postpone divorce so I could get my Green Card and go stay with my sick Grand-dad (he has alzheimer's) for a while until I found my feet. She said to me that she didn't mind waiting, but it was because of the feelings of the person who fucked her and got her pregnant... that part I quoted above... I really had to laugh at that, and I made my views clear... eventually I asked her if she rated him above fucking up my life, and she said no, and said she'd speak to me today... no surprises, she didn't sign onto MSN today. |
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btw, never look up 'fat bitch' on google images with safesearch turned off *shudder* |
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hehe! well, my wife DOES have blonde hair :P |
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