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so here's a question for all you hardcore net addicts. should i even arse myself with anything along the lines of "meet that special someone" net dating sites? i've just signed up for the (free - a definite bonus) campuskiss.com website - a fair bit of gals from my hometown, which is nice, and it's also how my friend met his g/f. though i'm definitely a sort of "let life bring what it may" type and not too outward as far as effort. does anyone have any horror or success stories along these lines? is net dating even worth my time? or should i just continue to wank to porn? |
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well, you got balls. I actually went on a blind date with a girl I met on a band mb, and she was nice, but not gf material for me personally. Go for it, just meet in a public place and see how it goes from there |
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damn hard question... I've got just about no porn on my puter right now... about finding true love on the net : I think it's moer difficult/easy depending on where you live... |
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you met a grrrl on the empty's board? ;) |
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Humm some people say so, this lad I know is rreally into it and he said I should sign up, but it ain't forr me, i'd be too worrrried that I would be the letdown. |
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I once met a girl off the internet. We were meant to be going for a drink, we ended up in the toilets after 15 minutes. Then I left her about half an hour later because Liverpool where playing Fulham and she told me she was an Evertonian, right after she had taken advantage of me. I felt so dirty and used. |
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i guess the question is: how realistic is getting a date that way? i've been warned that i might as well not bother, because most girls won't give you a chance in hell, since the net makes it all the more easy to pick from the cream of the crop (as if girls weren't picky enough to begin with). |
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IF they are looking on the internet for a date beleive me they won't be too fussy. |
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hmm. i dunno about that. us males are a dime a dozen to begin with, as far as most women are concerned, and the net just makes it easier for them to cherrypick from our lot. just because they're out for a date on the net doesn't necessarily mean they're desperate (unless they're of the fat & ugly variety. hehe!). by the way, you seem to be quite the laydeez man. what's the best dating advice you could offer? fuck 'em & chuck 'em? |
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And he's a gingerr currley hairred pink-trracksuit wearring scouserr. |
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nay |
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haha I am far from a ladies man. All I do is try and make girls laugh. If you can make a girl laugh and have the guts to make a move then they are yours :D |
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i try to make girls laugh all the time, but i'm bad in the "putting the moves on" department - something about getting a slap-in-the face rejection, i reckon. and when i do try to put the moves on, they usually shriek away. so what's your adivce for "putting the moves on", then? |
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Don't worry about getting the knock back. Besides you just have to manouver yourself into a good position. Like with my current girlfriend I started messing about with her trying to grab the remote for the TV. I got it then gave her it back after about 10 minutes. Same thing happened about 5 more times and in the end she decided to put it down her top to stop me getting it. I just dived in there and the rest it history :D Just use jokes to get comfortable and the rest will follow. |
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hehe.. you and your jokes... but yeah; It's a very good advice, for the kids :) |
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Either that or chloroform on a rag, a dark ally and a planned escape route :D |
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dude... kids.. shouldn't hear that ;) some kids are obviously crazy. but jokes works all the time. and love is the key, always :) |
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Í hate all these "meet poeple online" communitys bút it seems that you get more & more addicted the more you fail... |
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meeting people is meeting people regardless of how you come to do so. |
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meeting people online also has the advantage of you knowing what their interests are straight off,.. which helps prevents problems later when you realise that she can't stand AFX, or any of your favourite movies. (which is always a cunty thing) |
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Nay. It is just a show of desperation. |
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i don't think i could be into online dating. though i see how some people could be.... really desperate people. |
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lol, no, another band. In any event, I mean, if you meet by you both wanting to find a mate, then I don't think that will work. If you meet cuz you both like swimming, and have mutual interests, then might as well I say. try to meet real people first is my motto now though:D |
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horse |
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sorry nay |
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uh, what does heroin have to do with any of this? nay? bad personal experiences? or just no appeal? |
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I don't see anything desperate about it, I go out, meet plenty of girls, but always end up dry when it comes to interests,.. I get along with them well, but my interests are specific, what I need is a "filter", I haven't ever dated someone form online, and I don't think I ever will, but I don't see any shame in it, I actually think it's a rather intelligent thing to do |
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I've never dated anyone online, until.... I started talking to this girl on slsk. (won't name names, but you all know her from here) We have common interests out the ass, and have connected *really well.... I think about this girl all the time, and plan on meeting her (she's faaar away, but no matter) She wants to meet me too, which never fails to put a grin on my face... =) I know you'll read this girl... you know who you are /blows kiss |
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neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerd |
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I'm sorry, I apologize for that outburst. |
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.....and proud. |
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I don't think there is anything wrong with it. People fall in love that way. It's just as reasonable as meeting a girl in the shops when you are buyin a loaf. i say go for it. And make sure they have a photo. Also have a backup plan in case it goes tits-up. :-) |
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this probably makes me look bad...but. whatever. i was involved in a six month relationship after meeting a nice girl on the internet. and i'm still yet to know why i was her type, really. or...why she hung around with me after meeting some of her other male friends. *shrugs* oh well. no complaints here. =] |
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Therre is nothing wrrong with it at all, they arre still humans sat at the otherrside of the computerr. You prrob get to know someone betterr online than you would meeting them pissed in a club. |
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Yes but you can't fuck them over your cable connection, where as you meet them in a club and you can plug your cable connection into them that very night. |
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good point |
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good point. |
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Nay. Lets face it, you want a nice piece of ass man, instead of letting them play their jedi mind shit on you, wich will happen when you talk to much, go to a disco, be manly, be mysterious (how can you be mysterious? talk as little as possible! and when you talk, talk about them) and do it the old fashioned way. I considered net dating, but before i got to it, someone told me how to get the "flair". And hell, sample a 1000 and miss right will probably come some day. Thats my theory anyway. So basically, i would not reccomend it. |
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