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have you ever feel this way.... have you ever wanted to end your own life.????? depression is hard I deal with, i know. |
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Yes i have, yes I can relate...and not im not suicidall right now |
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hasn't everyone considerd it????? |
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not seriously, but of course, kind of thinking about it from time to time. |
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it's mostly just a simple seretonin imbalance, as they say. either go ahead and kill yourself, or just don't have kids, as they say, it is hereditary. |
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I haven't ever thought of it. It makes me sad to think that some people get that depressed that they think it's worth ending it all. |
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i wouldn't think people who are comfortable displaying streetfighter characters in their avatars would be affected as such |
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the world is full of surprises :) |
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no, i meant to say that people who have no problem doing that, probably have no thought of killing themselves. mostly because they aren't thinking enough at all. |
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I suppose so I have known one of two people who have committed suicide...the effect on the families after is just awefull, as you'd imagine. :( |
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sad word I know what it means... cos a friend decided to leave us all sad word |
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Suicide is a losers way out...even when I have been depressed and not arsed about dying I have never wanted to kill myself...I have always wanted to take as many other people out as I could and be killed in the process. |
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I dunno why that followed Chris up, it wasn't meant to. btw...when a person kills themself it is because they or their condition has got them into a totally selfish and self centered state of mind. Suicide is induced by self pity. |
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im happy. |
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That is because your depression melts away in the sweetly sorrowful tunes that are produced by radiohead. |
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well, actually yes. |
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No it is not, maybe you should do some research on the subject before you make such ignorant comments |
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Mr. Backwards Braindance, if you've never considered suicide, you're probably not the authority on the subject, let's be fair. I have considered a few times in the past... been talked out of it once, and the other times something happened that made me reconsider. One thing about suicide, certainly, is that the only time you consider it is when you are in the worst frame of mind to do so. When you want to do it, you're not balanced enough to make such an important decision. |
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who are we to judge? suicide is sad, thats all I can say, sad for the ones that miss the dead person, and sad cos he/she died so lonely |
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Erm...I have actually done research on the subject and I have a very healthy interest in both biological and social psychology. Suicide is ultimately a selfish act, notice how I actually said it can be caused by a mental condition, meaning I understand that it is not action taken by a rational mind. I do firmly beleive that the path leading to suicide is often very self destructive, and if people had more will power and strength they would never reach that stage. I have a friend who commited suicide and another friend who has tried to kill himself on a number of occasions. I tried to be there for both of them but it is not possible to be there all the time, and I stand by what I said, it is a selfish thing to do. |
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of what use is it to judge those who have committed suicide by condemning them as selfish? suicide is the result of an individual exhausting all of their coping resources. isn't any self-destructive act by definition self-centered? yet we should offer support, and help, and compassion, not judgement and condemnation. how can we accept for ourselves help, support, and compassion if we are not willing to give these gifts to others? |
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I didn't jusge people who have commited suicide as selfish, I said it is a selfish act. BIG difference. |
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Back when i was still in high school i thought about but never got around to it. whenever i got depressed, i VENTED by writing poetry, drawing art, or making music. |
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I've been very, very close to ending my own life. I think about it daily... :-/ Depression sucks. I would agree that it is a selfish act though because you are putting your feelings above your family and friends, which is why I have resisted up until this point. |
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FUCK SUICIDE |
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OH SUICIDE.... UP YOURS! |
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someday, if i have nothing left to live for, i hope i have the physical and mental capacity to end my own life rather than waiting for time to do it. but today, i still find life so interesting and intriguing to just give it all up. i always want to see what happens tomorrow. What's going to happen next? |
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the whole nine yards is premiering on itv next wedensday this makes me want to kill myself |
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hey braindance while you're running along with this whole 'selfish act' thing, i'd just like to say that it isn't necessarily everyone's opinion that selfishness is a bad thing. I for one think it is virtuous |
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of course I've thought of suicide... basically everytime I'm really down and depressed it crosses my mind... but I would never do it... and I would never judge people who commit suicide, because I've come pretty close myself... I thought one time that my life was just hopeless, and that I'd never pick up the pieces... it's a scary thing, and when you're really depressed you don't think straight, and it definitely doesn't hit you that things will get ok... rather, you feel the opposite that things will get worse... thankfully I never did it, and now things are great... I still get down from time to time, and think about it... but I realize now that pain comes and goes... no matter what you might feel, tomorrow, next week, month or year you could be totally happy with everything going right... you just have to press on and make the best of every situation... that's all you can do... |
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there ain't anything wrong with thinking about suicide... everyone has thought about it... you just have to realize that it isn't a viable option... just like with murder or rape or any terrible crime like that, most people have thought about it one time or another, but what separates us is those who just let it cross their minds, and those who act... |
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i spent the first 22 years of my life thinking suicide was an insanely selfish and weak thing to do. then, towards the end of 2001 i got pretty serriously depressed. like, couldn't even remember if i'd ever been happy in the first place. i was fucked up majorly. i consider myself a pretty rational person. i'm usually capable of figuring out what's going on with myself. but, there for a few months i was very much out of my tits. it was hard to focus on anything longer than a few seconds. i lost weight, lost friends, and lost touch with reality... in a VERY not fun way. there was a period of about two or three weeks where i constantly considered suicide as a very viable solution. it was the lowest i've ever been, and it was scary. should've gotten proffesional help, but didn't and struggled through it basically by myself. i am very glad i didn't do anything stupid. but, i look at depression in a completely different light after that. i was always a believer in the ability of a person to control what goes on inside themselves. but, i sure as hell felt out of control of my mind for a little too long durring that phase of my life. |
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ecnadniarb, the reply feature does not work for me, so... to me, you seem to be playing a game of semantics to avoid taking responsibility for choosing to judge an individual. you seem to be hesitant to judge an individual, and you say there is a big difference between viewing an act as selfish, and viewing a person as selfish. but what is a person who commits an act that you deem selfish, but selfish? otherwise, what is the point of observing "that act is selfish?" if a "selfish act" does not reflect upon the individual who acted, isn't the observation meaningless? perhaps you intend to invoke the "hate the sin, love the sinner" approach. to me, this is again an attempt to deny one's own act of judgement. to judge without judging, if you will. the "sin" you perceive is a scarlet letter nonetheless. i'm not making this argument because i want to demonstrate that you are wrong. to me, i want to view the issue as: what will best serve us collectively and as individuals when considering an individual who is contemplating or has committed suicide? if you can change your own mind to resist condemnation of an individual, then you are capable of helping an individual change their own mind about a decision to commit suicide by employing the same resources you used to change your mind. |
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i wanna suicide mysel;f right nwos |
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This doesn't sound like a good idea. |
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but everything hurts |
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hungover? |
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nah.. just bitchy. those stuped girls spilt beef sauce and coffee all over the van and I had to clean it all up! and they took the stuped keys home so I was stressed and and and.. argh!!!!! |
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Your story led me to tears. Life can be such a bitch. But keep courage, if you're strong enough, you'll get over it. Eventually. Perhaps. |
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Thanks for your kind words. *rejoices in life* |
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suicide is dumbbbbbbbb DUMBBBBBBBB |
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you're dumbbbbbbbbbb DUMBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB |
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Dumbbbbbbbbbbness is dumbbbbbbbbbb (DUMBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB). |
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DDDDDDDDDDDDDDuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhh nooooOOOOOOO DUmmmmmmHHHHHHHHHBBBBBBBBBBB hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh |
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someone once told me any man who hasn't thought about suicide is not intelligent interesting |
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then consider me stupid |
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Yeah I have but life is up atm so I'm all good. Thought I'm gettign weirder every week apparently. |
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Suicide....good group. Oh,that suicide? Bottling everything up doesn't help,so you should try and speak to someone about your problems. It's the people left behind that suffer...as i think Nacmat and Funkmaster said... };> |
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haha, nothing wrong with that |
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this is a good thread, that's all i have to say about it |
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