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Is it just me or is this a disturbing new trend in modern society? Children are being 'sexualised' from an early age. The media is crammed with 13-14 year olds behaving like 18-20s. There are series where 12 years olds have 'relationship problems'. I took a look over at the other day to see what new movies are due and at least two dealt with this. One was a 14-15 year old getting taught how to pick up women by his uncle or something and the other one was about a 15 year old in a hidden affair with a 30 something. It's really disturbing the heck out of me. How can one raise a kid/kids in a society which molds these innocents from such an early age, infusing them with extreme materialism, sex and promiscuosity(sp?)? Jeez. |
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yeah it's fucked up |
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Before everything was run by Jewish Homosexuals, now it's run by cynical paeodophiles |
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Kids aren't kids anymore. and most people don't care. When I'm a parent, my number one priority will be to care. |
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Couldn't agree more. Love and such are beautiful things not to be messed with. When I had the age of 12, I could not deal with these things I know for sure. Let kids be yound and don't force them in to things they're not readyfor. |
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When I was 12 I knew a lot of evil people Not quite sure what I'm trying to say there |
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yeah. true. Kids don't grow up quick. even physically... |
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yep - i know that the world is really getting fucked up when my friend's 12 year old sister has to tell all the boys at her school to fuck off becuase they want to fuck her - i mean, cmon! when i was 12 i was worried about wheter or not ill get to play sega genesis when i get home, this is fucking absurd! but then again... i'm a 15 year old having sex regularily... but at least it is safe-sex with my girlfriend... |
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I mean. they grow up too quick physically. and they're being rushed mentally too. Society, will you ever work? |
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tatu are well fit |
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I was starting to notice this aswell. Fuck... it ain't good. What is going on here? |
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It seems as though the ageing process is speeding up. And the average lifetime is lengthening. Children have no safe place away from media and the horrors of life, with the advance of technology everyone is connected, by age, gender, culture, etc. and I think this results in the Sexualisation of Children among other things. |
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OMG !! WE'RE OLD ! NNNNNOOOOOOOO !!!!!! |
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yeah... it has a lot to do with that children are a target group for corporations who want THEM to consume. This is done by media... but there's a lot more involved. |
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everything is sexualized |
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do all of you get that? I mean because a lot of kids has too much protein in their diet, they grow up too fast... and it's horrible that this is how "it's suppose to be".... anybody get me? |
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I wonder if the kids these days know this is happening to them, do they see this as a normality and expect it? Do they have a choice? Or will they be shunned from society for not getting "sexed up" at an early age. |
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ask r kelly |
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man adapts. But then all kids aren't like the ones in the media - so they see "how it's suppose to be", and they realize they're not like that, and they probably worry and shit... |
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probably not |
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I think the sexualization in children's lives is much more cheapened than it was once, but it's actually not at all a new thing. I did a lot of research on this in the past semestre, and I found it interesting to note that the concept of a distinct 'childhood' is really a rather recent develoupment in human history. Previously, children would grow up in a world of very overt, though natural, sexuality. The more disturbing trend today is the mixed message and double standard involved. Children are exposed to sexual material so young but now they're not expected to be sexually active for a good 8-10 years after they're told by their culture that it's a good thing for them. |
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sex sells - it'll pass, and media focus will be turned elsewhere.. but yeah, it's very disturbing - you should see the chix in my hometown; 13/14yo girls dressing up like pornsluts - and that's an understatement.. |
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I'd like all kids to be nude. I'd like all people to be nude for that matter.. would save me a lot of money that I spend on clothes. |
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but that's hardly the issue, now, is it, Key_Secret? :) |
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for those who want to read more (not that you should stop here) this is one of the things that bothers me most. for the last 9 months i've been working in a community center in a poor mostly black part of town and it's just so sad to see all the young kids (of all races) know and see too much for their age. i'm sure girls have always imitated their older sisters in fashion and other things, but it's just gotten so extreme nowadays. |
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yeah - Key_Secret - i know what you mean by the "development" of young girls - the growth hormones that are put into beef products are causing young girls bodies to develop faster - ive seen 12 year old girls in my town with bigger breasts than porn stars - i am serious - DD's on junior high school students |
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humans aren't sexy until they hit 13 |
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like I said; looks like they're taken right off of the shooting of a vivid video production.. |
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I wouldn't mind DD's on junior high school students! harr harr |
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It's fucked up society makes it illegal to be nude.. it just proves society is still ruled by conservative people. |
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The develoupment issue's a bad one, isn't it? Girls become fertile up to 14 years before society will condone a pregnancy. It's a long time for many girls to guard themselves when they're being bombarded by the sort of messages out there. But I'm very curious, since this is a predominantly male board, what kind of effects does it have on the childhood of boys? There's much less information about this. Are young boys as pressed into an early sexuality? |
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i wouldn't worry about 150 years ago a girl would get married as soon as she could drip blood as a matter of survival - with improvements in health and the welfare stae etc attitides changed and childhood was pretty much invented - see willke collins etc - also the pre-raphalite paintings that concentrate on the idea of the fallen woman |
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yeah. Eveybody who don't think about what they're actually being told in the media, etc, is affected by it. And kids especially who hasn't got much experience to set against the media and what it tells them. |
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everything is over-sexualized. |
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Yeah, but I quess over the years to come it will hit some sort of low limit, when sex is just too painful to be cool. My 13 yo cousin called me yesterday and asked if I would buy some beer for her and her friend. I said hell no, and that if she asked again, I'd tell her dad. My uncle can really put the fear into her :) It's all fucked up and it's the Internet's fault. -P |
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"pre-raphalite paintings that concentrate on the idea of the fallen woman" What do you mean? 'The Awakened Conscious' and exposed pomegranates? |
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No, it's satan's fault. His invisible influence can be seen everywhere: The spiraling war in the middle east, open celebration of sexual perversion, rampant drug use, Oprah.. These truely are the end times. |
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I wonder if there are pedophiles who are into fetuses and get off on discarded ultrasound pictures. Hey there are people who are into vomiting chicks, getting walked on with spiked high heels, and making it out with sexy animals, so why not fetuses? Why not embryos? Why not single cells? Somewhere out there there is a man making out with a scab. He is so turned on and in love with his hot little scab. |
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I think it's bad when parents buy their daughters bikini swimwear, and let them wear make-up and low jeans. Ya, key_secret, nudity should not be illegal in places, as long as it's not in an sexual manner. But what really disgusts me is that breast feeding is illegal in some places. How insane. |
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yeah and its not only sex... some days ago i saw two 13 year old girls (they looked like kids, hadnt grown yet) smoking a joint everyone of them... well...i start smoking when i was 14, but share a joint among seven person... |
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"sex sells - it'll pass, and media focus will be turned elsewhere.. " > do you really think sexualisation will pass like this? ; ) |
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I thought this would be a big troll thread given the topic, but the content was actually unoffensive :( |
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And it's also as someone pointed out fashion. Children don't wear child-like clothes anymore. They prance around in skimpy little outfits before their breasts have even started developing. It's all so vulgar, so worrying. Good point about the past. Women used to get married as soon as there were able to bear children. It seems like the sexualisation of children is moving in a somewhat hyperbolic pattern. We hit what I would call 'normal' a few decades ago and now were back on the descent. Of course this is a big generalisation. I'm sure a fair percentage of children through the years have been active early but it's all the more apparent now. Why must children be ripped from their innocent, carefree ways so early? What kind of a fucking perverse society is this? Gahhh humanity sucks. |
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I've heard some sick stories about 6 yo children giving each other hand- and blowjobs on schools in bad neighbourhoods. Perhaps this isn't just about sexualisation of children but it shows the influence of media. Some movies/programmes can be bad for children. :-\ |
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Sex is good, so what !? |
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DUBturbo is good, so what!? |
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