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whoa! i'm getting engaged very soon. happy happy joy joy! the only thing that worries me is that while i listen to idm, triphop and techno, my bf likes progressive rock of 70's :o waah. this is all so confusing. |
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You could do some really cool mixes together =oD |
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well we have planned so :) |
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how long ya been dating? how did ya meet? give us a few details, but not to many there are some real wackos here :0) |
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congradulations |
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SWEEEET! Congratzzzz! |
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we've been dating long enough ;) i didn't know him really, he was a friend of a friend, but he asked me for pot seeds(or was it mushrooms) on the net one day :) |
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...so it all started by us chatting online all day :) god i am a geek |
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geek how long is long enough? my chic and i dated for 5 years now we have been married 2 years !!! weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee communication communication communication communication communication communication communication communication communication communication and more communication |
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almost a year |
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geek |
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a happy geek |
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congrats neetta =) |
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congrats, but getting engaged means fuck all in my opinion...I can't even believe people still bother to do it |
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Getting engaged is a way to show your loved one and the rest of the world how much you love them I think it's great =oD I'm not to fussed on the idea of marrige but I'd like to be engaged some time ;o) |
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no, getting married is that....it means nothing until you marry, any muppets can say they are engaged.....and then to be 'getting engaged' I see as even less! |
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not that i'm that bothered about marriage either.. |
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Marrige is legally binding two people before god |
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im very happy for you id like to be that close to someone *stares off to space and daydreams* |
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but you shouldn't have to do anything like that to signify love anyway...I think you summed it up when you said "to show....the rest of the world how much you love them" thats just wrong..that should never enter peoples minds, if you want to do it, it should be for each other |
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well I'd like it, it's nice to make people feel special. You can show someone you love them in so many ways, I just see engagment as a big gesture and reassurement of love. It shouldent be needed but sometimes it is =oD B3n ............. will you marry me ? lol |
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yeah but my point is that you get these girls saying they're engaged and you just know they're never going to get married as for the last bit, sure...but you'll be at the back of a loooong queue :D |
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hehehe I'll beat them off =op |
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these are northern girls... |
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I'm a Swansea Mush =op |
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i'm taking this quite seriously. for me, engagement means that i have promised to marry someone. it the first step of a life together. |
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70s prog rock can be really cool tho! does he listen to psychedelica as well? when do you plan to go get married? i reckon you're a little too young for it, but there's nothing wrong with getting engaged for marriage in the future =) |
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we have no hurry :) hes only 21 so we REALLY have no hurry. |
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congratulations if you need any 70's vinyl dont hesitate to aask ;P |
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awwwwww congrats to YOU! committment used to frighten me, and admitting i was in 'love' has been hard for me too, marriage would be a HUGE step for me! it's great when you find your soul mate =0) i'm 'in love' myself and i'm happy....so i have nothing but positive things to say about LOVE, MARRIAGE, etc.... |
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she's back to brighten my day :) im still scared, but in a positive way i think :) |
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awwwww thats a lovely thing to say =0) and it's totally normal to be scared, it is a big step. but you're doing a smart thing by getting engaged and then waiting a bit to get married. so when it finally happens you'll be READY and not so scared, and when you do get scared just look into his EYES and you won't be scared anymore =0) |
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*dances around her room* |
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hahahha *throws sheets on the floor and dances on flowers!!* |
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Does about to be engaged mean you're about to decide to get married, or you're just not sending out official announcements yet? |
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official announcements? no the fact is that we are getting engaged because we will be getting married in the future. i really don't get your point?! |
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Oh, I was just curious about the fact you said you were getting engaged soon, which would seem to mean you weren't yet. Was wondering if there was another step to it. |
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"engaged to be engaged" we say in america |
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I knew a young man who gave his wife a 'promise ring' before an engagement ring, as a sort of extra step in their relationship. I think they were trying to be really, really sure of what they wanted. |
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I don't understand why you need to say this though...if you love this person that much why not just say you are getting married and stick to it...to me engagement doesn't signifiy anything, apart from in some cases people wanting to be the centre of attention (though i'm not suggesting thats why you do it, I know people that have) |
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In Yugoslavia we just give girl's father enough money and he lets us marry her. |
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I'm happy for you, neetta :) '70s prog rock is FAR better /more respectable than contemporary mainstream music. And much of it is very good. |
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of course she doesn't know she's getting married! |
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Congrats to ya neetta!! my god your only a few months older than me!! Getting married isnt even remotely close to being on my mind! |
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She finds out once the men sort it out. |
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ah how things should be Meho. How much is yours going to cost? is it comenserate with the asthetic qualities of the lady? |
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here's the other way around brides father pays groom to merry his dother |
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that's up to father i guess hehe |
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Mine is going to be really cheap. I've used it a lot, so it files under "damaged goods" now. Nah, kidding, I don't want to get married. I hate marriage: the fact that the state or the church or the society is supposed to in some way approve/ legalise my relationship makes me angry. |
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me too. the babylon pressure is all around me. |
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