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Ok, I want everyone to know that I am NOT trying to look for sympathy or anything....I am here at work and ALL of you guys are the ONLY people I really have to talk to during this LONG night.... This afternoon I was told by the veterinarian that my Dog has cancer of the stomach.....This just floored me beyond ALL belief. I am still in shock and cannot think straight..... I just wanted kinda get this off of my chest...I probably wont be posting too much tonight, I am just hardly in the mood to be alive let alone post.... The worst part of losing a pet VERY close to you or having the Doc say they R very sick..Man its just the WORST feeling ever. I feel so helpless and I do not know what is going to happen...Tests are being done overnight tonight and I will know tommorow...Man, life REALLY fucking sucks..... =( Thanks for listening everyone....Sorry to take up any time or space out here. -IL |
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I feel for ya bro. |
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Thanks man, MUCH appreciated......MUCH |
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"Sorry to take up any time or space out here. " well i would say.. thanks for sharing your thoughts with us |
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I'm so sorry, Ironlung :( I've lost two dogs myself and I know the emptiness. We are here for you tho! |
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I'm really sad for you and your dog, iron. In 2001, I lost a dog too and I had bad days too. I love animals and especially dogs so I understand what are you feeling... :( |
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Thanks ALL of ya, this makes me feel alittle better being able to talk about it....I think the feeling of helplessness is what gets me sooo SAD.... I have never felt sooo bad and like I cannot DO ANYTHING.....Feel very shitty. Thank you SO much for your kind wordz.... |
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bad one ironlung, feel for you man. i work for a veterinary company and some of the people here who take orders on the phone get blamed for killing peoples pets by some vets who forget to keep their medicines stocked up. so people who just do order entry have vets giving tham stick on a monday morning saying "you've killed some little girls dog at the weekend." |
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i havent lost any dogs but i certainly know what depression is like, my mood cycle is like a rollercoaster *hugs ironlung* |
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All you have to do is form no emotional attachment to anyone or anything, then you have nothing to lose. It's quite simple really, I do it. I spend ALL my time in a box. |
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yeh.. the box was a cool club once.. now it´s closed |
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lose yourself and all your worldly needs and desires, that's what the most recent budah realized. I used to take his elephant for a walk when he went on vacation, nice guy. (such a hyprocrite though, owning an elephant, he'll probably cry himself when it gets trunk cancer and dies or soemthning) |
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Ironlung; man!!! I feel sad for you I know how it feels, which wont make you feel better, but I hope, and know that youll cheer up someday! There is nothing you can do but wish for the best, thats all man. Best thing to do next time you can is talk to someone you know in person about it heart to heart always makes you feel good to talk about it. Lately ive been going through some rough shit with certain people in my life and issues that I can never seem to let free.... I talk with my girlfriend or closef friends about it. |
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Yeah I am with ya on this one REFLEX, I will need to talk about it in person to a close friend or family member.... I know it sounds kinda lame to get THIS SAD about a pet, but I am a BIG softy and loved that dog with ALL my heart....Probably cared more about her than 95% of the human race.... =) |
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Ironlung: keep strong man! its ok. men are .. allowed to cry or get really upset during times like that man. its cool, I would feel the same if my dog now died or was going to soon, so its ok. and yes, please.. talk to someone close a friend or something about it, be serious theyl understand totally. |
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im a big softy too, nothing wrong with that! |
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(knew talking with all of ya would make me smile again).... *owes eternal gratitude to all of ya* |
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Ironglung; you dont owe me shit! just make sure you feel better and know that no matter what some people here are pals, even through we will never meet. peace! |
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I also HONESTLY consider ALL of your friends.....No question about it. |
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Ironlung: alright buddy. youll do fine, I know it. talk talk talk... |
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likewise man, my home would be your home if you were ever visiting oz. |
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and THAT was where teapot became a wizard :) |
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"The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living" Book written by the Dalai Lama. I read "Freedom in Exile" and that was amazing. I lost a dog too a few years ago, take care man. |
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what a lovely post to change over Teapot...Thank you and Congrats...Welcome to the "Alchemists Club"...=) |
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heh.. sweet. well..... lets turn those frowns upside down and party. BADDABING! |
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i lost my dog a yearr½ ago. i know how it feels. he had canser too. |
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I am sitting here and I seem to not even be able to think stright...I am walking around pacing in my office...going for a smoke every 20-30 min...Man, how could HELL be any worse indeed..... |
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w M w: Good theroy about not attaching to anything so you wont lose anything but in doing that you've already lost. I bet Ironlung feels that the bad feelings he has now are worth having in order to have all those good years he's spent with his dog. If you have nothing to lose, you havent gained anything at all. I've been in a similar position as you iron. I lost a hamster a while back. It was a bad time. We are all cool people here, I'm glad Aphextwin.nu exists!!! :) |
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sad to hear this Ironlung. I lost a bunch of cats over the last several years: roadkills, dogs, poisoning... It always hurts and I know what you mean when you say you care for that dog of yours more than for 95% of human race and I support that. Animals are often more worthwile of our care and attention than most humans. So it hurts to watch them die especially knowing that they can't understand what is happening to them and can't find "spiritual" comfort that we, humans always somehow find... It makes you wanna scream. If I believed in god i'd hate that being for eternity... But this is life, my friend and life is made of joy and pain. None of these would mean anything without the other and that's the best I can offer you... |
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IronLung, i feel with you. My Last dog was shooted by hunters in front of my eyes.... i did let him run thru the forest, the hunters saw them and meant it was a deer.... i know that feeling IronLung.. andi know the most of you guys have laugh about my english.... it's hard for me to express my opinions.. |
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him i mean |
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I am sorry to hear that MAP....Your english, BTW, is very good and I know exactly what your sayin.... =) |
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jezus! that really sucks man! i can't imagine how i'd feel if my dog had cancer.... i try not to think of it... good luck mate! |
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I really feel for you Iron, my dog 'Lucy' died a few years back, it really is devastating, I found it best to talk to my mates and just think what a good happy life she had... Give her/him a big cuddle and a stroke from me.... |
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most ppl how lose their pets immediately get a new one after it dies.... i find that so plastic, as if pets are expandable. i wouldn't want to forget my dog yoda that easily |
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I think you meant to say expendable, ... not expandable. I think a frog would make a better yoda than a dog. |
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dogs are man's best friend. dogs are better friends than humans. i like dogs. i'm sorry about your dog. |
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or a turtle, they live for a long time. |
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Ive lost 2 dogs to some stupid teenager with a BB gun.Bastard. My sympathy to you and your dog. |
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ironlung------hang in there, you are a strong and great person...you can ge through this..:0) |
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ye.s........ its true. |
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Cats!! Get a cat !! A CAT!!! |
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i would kill that bastard if he killed my dog. |
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Ive lost 2 dogs to some stupid teenager with a BB gun.Bastard. My sympathy to you and your dog |
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did you beat the fuckers ass? |
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Listen to some Nancy Sinatra & Lee Hazelwood - 'Lady Bird' or 'Some Velvet Morning'. It'll cheer you up. -P |
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my thoughts r with ya, bro :'( |
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Its very difficult at times like these to find the right words to say, but look after yourself IronLung, my thoughts are with you as well. |
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umm... dunno how to put this but... be strong, dont cry.. and if you do.. wipe ur eye :) hug ur dog and tell her you love her, itll make it seem a little bit better. |
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