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I notice that so-called fanbois, and IDM-nerds of course as well as general weenies everywhere are afraid of responsible girl contact and I don't know why. Why are you afraid? Have you been shagged? |
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sex is so freaky and crazy |
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Probably because sounds like a jaw-droppingly accurate description of how you choose to portray yourself. |
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that's a great article for the loveshy guys :D |
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i used to be reallllllly scared of women and had very little romantic success. Then i discovered that the only way i could only get any kind of satisfying relationship/connection with one was just to be totally honest. seems to be working! still though, with very attractive women i still get weird and self-conscious. also, some women don't seem to want to be honest so much, so i guess being honest with them doesn't work so much? |
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I think the best line of it is this, "Your life is not a character arc in which the Love Interest is obligated to appear at some point -- it is a horribly free-form escalator ride to the grave, and it's up to you to make the most of it by shaping yourself into the kind of person that the kind of person you're attracted to would plausibly find attractive." I think that the bit I bolded makes this even better than the objectivist stance on love which is that instead of asking "Why doesn't anyone love me?", that you should ask, "Am I deserving of love? If I am not and want to be loved, what can I do to change that?" The reason being is that no one is universally attractive. As hard as it might seem to imagine, not all women like Brad Pitt. Like anything (music, being a good example) there is undeniably a common "popular taste", that most people who aren't heavily autistic or deliberately contrary can agree to recognise, even if that ideal isn't to personal taste. For this reason, when in a newspaper article describes the missing girl as, "a popular and attractive blonde", most people tend to think of , as opposed to . If you just want "girls" to like you, by all means take PUA classes, hit the gym and move into banking. If you want a particular type of girl to like you, think about what "that type of girl" wants. Growing bad facial hair, cultivating an awkward manner and being a penniless busker will get you a lot further with some women than being an alpha male ever would. You just need to decide what sort of objective you want to work towards. NB: Do not be too specific about the type of girl you want though, or else you run the risk of falling into precisely the sort of expectation that the article warns about. |
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thinking about it now, i think i might be most scared of women who don't have much of a desire for honesty |
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Good tips for those that need it |
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I am afraid of all kinds of people |
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Absolutely right...honesty is definitely the best policy, particluarly when it comes to girs...and even girls. For example telling her that, if she screams, you will choke her until she's nothing more than a warm peice of non-living meat is so much better than saying nothing and then having to choke her until she's a peice of non-living meat because she screams. It may be less fun but it feels fairer because you have been a 'new man' and given her the choice and, ultimately, choices are what life is all about. |
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Ju cy'an'(t) olwe's be 'fraid 'o girs, mang. 'Ol ju need tu be ya mang, and no' be 'fraid da girs, issa latta cocain', mee'be son' gons, and den mee'be son' huevos, mang. |
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I have successfully shaped myself into the kind of person that the kind of person I´m attracted to finds attractive. That person being a woman who loves the cock. |
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Ha ha! ATM i think they should all be shot. So monoid can relax a bit. |
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Coheed, why the use of 'girls' instead of 'women'? What does that say about you, or more boradly the people who are well into adulthood and still call women 'girls'. Nothing personal. I'm doing this paper and i'm just interested to grab an opinion whenever i can. |
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Because they don't become 'women' until they're 16? |
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I miss you. Are you still morbidly overweight? |
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You seem to be confusing me with somebody who isn't me. I never have been morbidly overweight, I am kind, gentle and robust 6'4" sociopath. |
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Shit, man. I just recorded lyrics to this song I had to sing to myself for 20+minutes so I wouldn't forget the melody... and the main theme is "cute girls on bicycles". "Cute women on bicycles" just makes me think of tired 40+ year olds who've been through life, experienced child birth, and have kicked some ass. I guess "girls" sounds more dreamy. Okay, I just sung it in my head right now with "cute women on bicycles" and the juxtaposition of "cute" and "women" emphasizes the cuteness a bit, so I might use it. Thanks xlt. XLT- helping lyrics since 1947. |
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