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Ready, steady... |
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asking a reddit user to stop fapping is like asking don vito to go on a diet |
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I'll go ahead and assume you linked that subreddit for the lulz since it is quite possibly the largest collection of utter twatsnots this side of anywhere. |
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congratulations, you've scored your first point out of ten on the xlt proficiency test. |
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what does PMO stand for? personally masturbating off? |
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My theory is that, since many of us here in r/nofap have issues with low self esteem/self confidence and social ineptitude, and since we,as human beings, have sexual urges, we chose,in the past, to resolve the issue by talking the easy way out,that is, PMO. But staying in this habit and indulging in it, we confirm our probably already negatively biased opinions about ourselves without even realizing it. Gradually, as we became more addicted, PMO started to affect our body/brain chemistry and made us feel worse, which in effect made us think more negative about ourselves,thus indulging in more PMO etc. Its a vicious cycle. Now, when someone decides to change his ways, stop PMOing and make other changes in his life too (start to socialize more,eating healthier,working out etc), he starts to act in a way that doesnt match his general beliefs and his paradigm. He actually starts to treat himself better and do things to improve himself. If you've ever embarked on such a self improvement journey, you probably know that it feels really uncomfortable in the beggining. its because tension builds up inside your mind, as a result of your behaving differently and breaking out of your comfort zone. But if you manage to be consistent in your effort,you notice, after some time, that you generally feel happier and better about yourself. And in the case of nofap, you stop behaving in a way that confirms your false belief that you can't be socially competent, especially with women, and you actually do something to change this by going out, socializing and approaching women. If you are able to carry on with your effort, you start to build a positive momentum that weakens the negative vucious cycle that you've put yourself in. This is also related to the "principle" of act first,then become. You can't just sit around and think about your future self and the changes you want to do. You have to actually get off your ass and DO them, in order to build momentum and achieve results. |
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wait. i think i get it. the P is for Persistent. |
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this one reminds me of listen2MeTalk: "Greetings lads, If there's ever a case for anyone trying this out its me. I'm 29 years old (male) and been fapping away since I was 13. I've had all different tastes, and some of them are just odd. Anyway, besides that I have it bad. Sometimes I will fap away 3-5 times a DAY and feel totally lethargic. I've had a girlfriend once, many many years ago but we didn't even date long enough to have sex. Actually no, I was too beta about it and yeah... never happened. Anyway, for the last 5 years I've been getting my.. hit.. at brothels. Not only is it a waste of money, its taken all feeling from me. Today was the last day I'm ever going. Today I decided to pay a visit and it left me thinking "is that it?". I'm not turned on by sex at all. I have absolutely no idea what good sex feels like or what is it like to have sex with someone who actually cares about you. Other aspects of my life improving - I'm working out now, cutting weight and whatnot. I just hope I can control this fapping addiction. It's a mental game. It saddens me that I have gotten myself into this state and I cannot blame anyone but myself. I hope to be as cool as you guys. I've secure wiped all my computers and am starting clean. Hopefully some day I can meet a nice female who actually likes me and thus can enjoy something that should be special." |
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xlt reddit members to found /r/NoLSD |
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i still jerk off manually |
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The only bad thing about ze wankz, is doing it 500 times a day or learning to finish too fast. Finishing fast will change your biology to not be able to have enjoyable sex, cuz you've trained your body to finish ASAP, then go watch YouTube or whatever. So if you're gonna wankz 500 times a day, make the sessions last for 1+ hours- which will translate to actual sex- which will also magically make your day over 500 hours long. You could get a lot done in a 500 hour day, if you weren't coke-snort-masturbating all day long. |
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. i recently tried stopping. lasted about a week.. |
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I see you in my mind's eye in your basement in your crusty pajama bottoms finishing off your TV dinner before wanking to your newest 'tune.' A single tear runs down my cheek and I have to remind myself that this is the life you've chosen for yourself. |
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lol |
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and another tear, coming from your penis |
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Loads of people on there claiming that havin' a fap reduces the sensitivity on your cock, thus reducing the pleasure in actual sex. Thing is, that's actually because of circumcision. If most people weren't massive jewboys but kept their foreskins, havin' a fap would have no effect on cock sensitivity because you'd be rubbing the foreskin up and down instead of actually rubbing the end of your cock. Plus you'd save money on lube! Basically, circumcision is a load of shit, and if you're circumcised it probably means your sex isn't as good as mine yo. Just sayin |
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statistically, it also means you're more likely to have an STD. or have a dumb sister that got pregnant at 18 |
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quite right, ive always imagined that a skinless bone couldnt work as effectivly. what happens when the no fappers achieve the holy grail of auto ejaculation thru a sexy dream, is that no fap fail? |
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In an LSD moment of clarity, I tore all the skin off my dick in protest to societal/religious penis mutilation. So now my cock looks like an Alex Grey painting. |
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ahahaha |
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What do you do with the cheese that you collect from your foreskin at the end of the week? |
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"How bitterly disappointing, and how utterly worthless. When it is over, you are left feeling so overwhelmingly empty, and craving so much of that true and beautiful love that has no substitute. Those beautiful sunrises, and the water hitting the rocks, and her smile. This is what you truly need. And this is all that you ever really wanted, all you could ever hope and ask for. How have we been so laid away by such a worthless and cheap substitute, that glitters so falsely. Oh that true and priceless and beautiful love... it cannot even begin to compare. And when you truly see that, this cheap substitute loses all power, and is seen as it truly is- so worthless, and powerless to lure you anymore. We are already in that beautiful post-clarity." |
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those beautiful sinuses, and the water shitting bollocks, and her semen. this is what you truly need |
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ok so it turns out one of my coworkers is a no-fapper. Apparently part of some wider detox bullshit he is doing because he can't get any pussy. lol? |
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guy i knew in college was nofap, but not reddit nofap. instead, he was "grew up in a small town in upstate new york" no fap. it came out of a religious upbringing, i gather, though his faith did not extend to abstinence. nor did he ever much else mention religion, though i think he wore a cross. before he got to college, he had never touched a black person before. seriously. as pathetic as this all sounds, he was actually a super nice guy and not pathetic at all. got lots of girls, shook hands with some black people, graduated, moved to a big city and lives immersed in sex and black people all day long. so maybe there's something to this nofap crap |
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I went six months last year. Not by choice, I had a surgery that had "impotence" as a possible side effect (one in a million, but for something like this, it may as well feel like 50/50) and I just... didn't even want to afterwards. After the first couple of weeks, it was really easy and I almost had to force myself to start again because I had become lazy and my right arm had atrophied. I had no great epiphany, just had one less thing to look forward to every night. I've been making up for lost time since my dick got back to 110% though |
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