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How to talk to women pt.3
 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-19 20:23 [#02439717]
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"An inherent tension exists between the conventionally
masculine value on agonism and the conventionally feminine
value on social harmony.
Males are more likely to talk longer assert opinions
strongly as "facts," use crude language (including insults
and profanity), and in general, manifest an adversarial
orientation toward their interlocutors.
In contrast, females tend to talk not as long, and are more
likely to qualify and justify their assertions, apologize,
express support of others, and in general, manifest an
"aligned" orientation toward their interlocutors.

Males sometimes adopt an adversarial style even in
cooperative exchanges, and females often appear to be
aligned even when they disagree with one another, suggesting
that these behaviors a An inherent tension exists bre
conventionalized, rather than inherent character traits
based on biological sex."

This is from a book on sociolinguistics.
What do you think. If you talk in a less 'aggressive' style,
say like a psychotherapist, will women like you more, or
will they dismiss you as a potential mate or sex partner,
because you are more like her girlfriends and not like a
'real man'?


 

offline RussellDust on 2012-08-19 20:31 [#02439718]
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Women like a bad boy at times don't they? Also women bicker
far more between them than men do. In my life that is. I'm
not sure where i stand on the whole 'evil Y chromosome'
thing.

I've met and seen examples of horrific female behaviour.
Bordering on evil. So let's not generalise and make nice
little marked boxes for both males and females.

Obviously things are changing and i think the term 'weaker
sex' is more or less obsolete today.


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2012-08-19 20:37 [#02439720]
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LOL+WHAT!?

What do you think?

*acts like a failed psychotherapist*


 

offline swift_jams from big sky on 2012-08-19 21:18 [#02439725]
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GAYphextwin.nu


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-19 21:20 [#02439726]
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Men aren't evil. However in most self help books a 'female'
style of communication is recommended.
I really think that is sometimes very bad advice. Can you
really say that one culture is better than the other?


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2012-08-19 21:22 [#02439727]
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You'll be dead soon.


 

offline swift_jams from big sky on 2012-08-19 21:23 [#02439728]
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JD, where do you stand on the whole Nibiru subject, just out
of pure curiosty?


 

offline RussellDust on 2012-08-19 21:29 [#02439729]
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Are you saying that men and women have different cultures?


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2012-08-19 21:29 [#02439730]
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Sorry, I think you are a wanker. I won't be talking with
you.


 

offline swift_jams from big sky on 2012-08-19 21:30 [#02439731]
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Butthurt, but its okay.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-19 21:33 [#02439732]
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Yes. They grow up in diffrent cultures (girls among girls,
boys among boys) and adopt diffrent gender roles. Therefore
they use diffrent conversational styles.


 

offline AMPI MAX from United Kingdom on 2012-08-19 22:54 [#02439740]
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i cant get new avatar. i cant be bothered to read most
threads. i hate monoid.



 

offline paige__turner from Sultan City (Barbados) on 2012-08-21 18:12 [#02439817]
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Most of the comments in this thread should not be said to a
woman.
Furthermore, I have not learned how to talk to one by
reading it.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2012-08-21 21:47 [#02439826]
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"petite feet" by tim and eric


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-22 03:20 [#02439832]
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It is hard to find good material. I think you have to listen
to everyday conversations, literary texts, and movie
dialogues.
This will highten your senses for language more. Of course
that all means work.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2012-08-22 08:20 [#02439840]
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Hand her a written note with contact info without saying
anything.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-22 11:50 [#02439845]
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No


 

offline Steinvordhosbn from London (United Kingdom) on 2012-08-22 13:26 [#02439847]
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I don't know if the Trolling Community gives out awards for
dedication but the years you've spent on this project
deserve something. Perhaps lots of things. Just not the
attentions of any woman.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2012-08-22 16:45 [#02439852]
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Wait till i am a famous linguist. Than the wonen will come


 

offline EpicMegatrax from Greatest Hits on 2012-08-22 21:14 [#02439868]
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every person is a rubik's cube waiting to be solved. gender
is irrelevant


 

offline Geoffrey Mills on 2012-08-23 00:43 [#02439873]
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but u always have white on the top you fucking racist
scumbag


 

offline dethpeel on 2013-03-23 08:59 [#02452470]
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but DUBturbo


 


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