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Extasy, XTC, or however you spell, this substance, could it change my personality? It would be nice if i could become a bit more outgoing and open? |
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First of all, find out why you aren't open or outgoing. Educate yourself about yourself before taking drugs. |
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I am a 14 year old guy, and I wouldn't exactly consider myself to be the most outgoing person, especially around girls. For example, a girl who catches my bus who I like, and she said to her friend in reference to me "i try to make him less quiet, like I can make him laugh, but then he doesn't know what to say back". And she's more into less shy guys, although we are good friends. The main question I want to ask is what are some ways I can build up my self confidence around girls mainly, and more aless, what are the sorts of things I can say or do around girls that will make me seem more outgoing. I'm not asking for step-by-step instructions, but more aless ideas of things I could do to help make me less quiet and more outgoing. Thank you in advance. |
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just be yourself, if someones going to like you in that way then it will be because they like YOU, do you know what i mean? if you are shy then you are shy, find ways to communicate that suit you - phone, email, text, get a trusted friend to break the ice, etc..? stay away from drugs pls - they will make it worse, believe me. |
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If you hang on their every word or try to impress it becomes painfully transparent and you are open to manipulation. If you try to act cool or disinterested, they will think you're a weirdo. The old cliche is the truest - be yourself, be genuine. When you stop caring about what they think or trying to please them all the time you will naturally be yourself. If you lack confidence, empower your mind - that's the biggest confidence builder there is. You need to know what you want and have strong principles and self-belief. Read up on stuff, educate yourself about how your mind works and how your emotions work; watch them in action. Understand them. Your confidence will grow and eventually negativity will just bounce straight off you. Trust me, self-confidence is very attractive to a women - far more than visual appearance. I am not the best looking guy in the world, but I have had some stunning girlfriends. There's no quick fix. You are only 14 and it takes time to become a mentally mature individual. Experience is everything and you just don't have that. But you can set some foundations down. |
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it really gets you going. it gets you so you don't know what you're doing. |
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mdma is temporary artificial happiness / confidence / empathy if anything will come from it it will be depression as you'll be frustrated that you cannot induce the same feelings without the drug. a problem will start. my tip for you monoid is to learn to deal with fear. we all feel fear and it will never go away. it never does for anyone. the people who overcome fear just get better at dealing with it. learning to handle it and not let it overwhelm you. allow your higher brain functions to be in control for once. |
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No. |
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I am a 33 yr old female and I am to the point where I wonder sometimes when will "my time come". I can say now I have been on a couple dates in my life I have tried a dating service. No major matches thus far. I am not really in to the Bar scene as I am not a big drinker and the one good friend that I have lives in a different state. I am not the most outgoing person as well. My focus has been for awhile work and my career I am educated and I feel am ALMOST to the place where I want to be career wise. My deal is how do i get out of the slump?? any advice would be helpful. I am my wits end at this point. |
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Yes,you are on the right tracks. what people don't tell you is E is very weak these days. try and buy a good bag full,at least 50+ and eat the lot as fast as possible. |
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I suggeat you hang on their every word or try to impress man. Try to act cool or disinterested. The old cliche is the truest - don't be yourself. Care about what they think or try to please them all the time. You lack confidence, so don't empower your mind - that's the biggest confidence builder there is. There's no need to know what you want or have strong principles or self-belief. So don't educate yourself about how your mind works or how your emotions work Trust me, self-confidence is not very attractive - visual appearance is everything. I am the best looking guy in the world, but I have had some hideous girlfriends. There is a quick fix. Drugs. |
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cocain's one hellofa drug |
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I get this.. I'm actually very outgoing on some days, but others i'm just a shut-in. It's really up to you decide how you're going to act in front of people. Try doing something brave. Like sky diving.. or if you live near a beach find a cliff to jump off, make sure it's safe first.. Whenever i feel shy it's when i dont know people.. just pretend you're the "cool" one. I know this sounds reeeally lame, but when you feel belittled and lesser, it really makes you shy. Just feel on top. but dont act cocky. And dont feel like everyones watching you. Because they really arent. If anything they're watching you because you're "too shy". Just talk more so you dont stand out as much as the shy one. Break that name! |
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Ecstacy is not going to improve your personality. While you are on it, you'll be rolling around in soft blankets, feeling plants, curtains, the carpet. Maybe you'll find a girl to cuddle up to and that is very nice. You might be more talkative.. But the next day.. The next day when your seratonin is depleted you will feel somewhat wraithlike and generally an emotional wreck. My one friend used to find himself sobbing over commercials on tv because his emotions were so jacked up. |
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is cyrstal dude off today? are you covering his shift? |
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fuck. i forgot to change accounts |
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what can you say mdma aint no way to make you a more outgoing person, ive never really hit it off with any chicks while up, and my gf used to hate me when i was up, maybe cause i'm a binger, and on all but a few occasions a gurned up night just involves me getting to a state with my eyes rolling and jaw swinging, that aint no look to impress the ladies. If u wanna make her like you tie her to a tree and put a cross bow to her stomache and tell her to love you or never love her babies.... |
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your writing makes me sick, im sorry. |
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* To avoid overheating and dehydration - especially when dancing - users should take regular breaks and sip about a pint of non-alcoholic fluid such as fruit juice or isotonic sports drinks over the course of each hour; * Be aware that not all ecstasy tablets contain MDMA, and the effects may be unexpected; * Do not mix alcohol with ecstasy or other drugs |
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* Coming up/ rushing - on the verge of feeling the effect on an E; * Loved up - feeling the full empathic effects on an E and feeling enormous affection for everyone around you; * Peaking - feeling the full effects of an E, usually a couple of hours after ingestion; * Sketchy - confused speech and having trouble thinking clearly as you come up on ecstasy. |
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mitsubishi |
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monoid you still alive wow, hi there and crystal dude...is that guy from the movie Kids? |
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some say the X makes the sex better. |
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feelin the effectasy! |
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Sure, do it! |
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more aless |
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Brown speckled mitsi turbos. |
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Always attention seeking fuck! (sorry moderator) Always drugs and crap and more CRAP! |
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You people make me angry. MDMA or drugs in general are said to change ones personality, so what drug should i look for instead, because i am sure my therapist wont fix the problem |
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The long term affects are unknown, I bet they're not good. |
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Drugs are not the answer. (I never thought I would say that, I must be getting old). From the sounds of it what you need to do is have a lifestyle change. Move away from where you live take up Capowera (best martial art for picking up women). Compliment everyone you know until someone notices, it is a fun game, you just have to make sure you aren't coming across as creepy. |
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I agree with 010101. Using drugs to change your personality can make you very dependant on them. |
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snort those fuckers |
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I was in the street today and this woman walked past. The mascara was running down her eyes and her hair was unbrushed. She had a shirt on and clearly no bra underneath cos her tits was bouncing everywhere. As we crossed paths she looked straight at me and said one word "ecstasy". It raised a smile I can tell you. |
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Using drugs to have fun on the other hand, I fully endorse. Be warned though MDMA has a killer come down that can last for three days. Making you feel compleatly unmotivated and depressed. |
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LSD can change personality |
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before it became illegal, a number of psychologists/psychiatrists experimented by giving their patients mdma. it helped relieve the patient's anxiety when confronting their inner demons or whatever, allowing them to touch on certain subjects more easily and then reaching closure on those issues. just search for some journal articles, a fair amount of research has been done in this area. i guess erowid might have some info too. also, if you can manage to get a hold of some well synthesized 'pure' mdma, then 'the comedown' and after shouldn't be a problem. |
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yes it can |
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all modern day ecstacy is shit!! apart from neat MDMA? |
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