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You have a closer friend. You have music.... |
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No.....actually im serious about this.... |
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Ultimately you have to do what makes you happy and if you're happier without other people, then fair enough. I don't think that's weird... |
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i usually am by myself but I dont mind either, sometimes people get really annoying. I do stuff with people sometimes but not like all the time. |
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I'm lonely |
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i'm never lonely except when my girlfriend misunderstands me |
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yea pretty much |
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i thought this the other night, i thought it was a good quote. "The worst part about a cold bed is knowing you're alone" |
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i like being in a cold bed |
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you're wierd |
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it's much better than a hot bed - nice cool sheets and that |
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i don't have many friends, but i don't feel lonely. I have a real best friend. |
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i mean in the winter though. my room is freezing. i hate lying down, cause it's so cold on my skin. |
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i have my family and frriends but its not that same as the love of a good woman, so i'm lonely |
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than i'm lonely too |
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not if women piss you off and you don't carre. |
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do you care? |
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i'm not lonely, but this is only thanks to the internet! :) |
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i carre thats why i'm lonely |
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I recently purcheased Roy Orbison Which includes the track "only the lonely" For now this be my signature tune. I can't sustain relationships at the moment -why at the moment ? Probably because I spend to much time on the internet! 8 |
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no. far from weird. less complications. less bullshit. |
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Youre going to be more lonely if you drop the cash on that shit turntable. Technics 1200s my friend... only way to go. |
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i only get lonely if I think that I'm lonely... I'm optimistic and naive, its the only way to be :D |
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i have friends but no individual best friend which is what i'd like to have(: this does sometimes make me feel lonely because many average friends are not as good as one true and genuine friend... |
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*Lonely..but that's all about to change. |
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yep. ol lonely ghost here. when i was in highschool i got tired of people and all my so-so friends got tired of me. been in virtual isolation ever since. people's egos i've met are too big, they always fuck things up, noone is able to trust. |
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yeah tho i generally cooperate w/ people |
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I've got about 4 "best friends" people I can really talk to. They're each to do with different aspects of my life so it's pretty good. |
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I myself learned to cope (somewhat) with loneliness when I was a youngin, although I still have some troubles. Up until mid-way through highschool..i didn't have any friends, part of it was my fault for not being social. And now that I'm on my 4th year of college - I get to watch my friends "dissipate" again...so theres no winning at the moment...but oh well.. |
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i'm still wink |
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i'm single and haven't felt this good for 10 years or possibly ever. i think there is a strong positive corellation there, somewhere. |
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Ceri u show off!..): i somehow have no problem making friends but have never really made a "best friend" like u say..it sucks (: |
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i'm lonely i have only one friend that i don't see very much, no girlfriend, no social skills, no life, etc. it's not very pleasant, but i guess you just have to deal... |
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Right now, no one is safe from loneliness. It's better to have a few close friends than a lot of not-so-close friends, IMO. |
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that's what i think too.. |
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Are you... ME? |
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maybe we're ophecks twins... or just really big losers ;) |
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that's what ye recommend eh? damn pomme, they're like $500 each though!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am not made out of money... i could give a hospital my kidney though!! µwhahahaha! |
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in a word......... NO i think some may mistake being *alone* for loneliness, from what i've read. |
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I'm very lonely right now,.. probably won't be if friends come over though |
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or if people were online more |
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you can't count on others to help you feel less lonely.......tis a mistake. only YOU can make yourself less lonely, if you count on others you'll only be putting a bandaid on a problem, not solving it. |
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how do you sovle loneliness without other people? |
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you have to be at peace within yourself if YOU are your best friend (honestly) then you are never really alone, because you have yourself to keep you company! thats not saying having others around is not equally nice, but you don't NEED others around to enjoy yourself, cos you're at peace with yourself. people like being around people who are like this (have it together within) it's never boring just hangin with this type of person, one on one or in a group. and the reason is, because they are not emotional vampires.....like people who are too needy. it's hard to explain in this type of forum, but believe me loneliness has everything to do with feelings you have within YOURSELF, not others providing something......but a lot of people don't see it that way. too many people take take.....and never give......it's the takers that are lonely. |
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very-but i like it :) |
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*slap* seriously tho........think about it. why do you LET other people be responsible for your OWN happiness. thats just wrong. we have enough to take care of, i don't wanna be someones emotional blankie, i mean what a drag. PEOPLE need to lean on others at different points in their lives, nothing wrong with that. however handing someone the reins of your life, to make you happy or sad or whatever is just nuts. eventually the person who you've handed over the responsibility to, will get tired and BAIL, tis a true fact people find out too late as the person's walking out the door. |
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I understand you Lecoeur, and I get what you mean now,. and I agree |
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i'm glad you understand what i mean. it hard to explain without being brutally honest. =0) it's just something that people don't look at from the OTHER side. i used to have lots of people who just FED off me, i didn't realize what was happening until one day i realized i was CARRYING all their problems on my back, i felt like a fool (and rightly so) i should have realized that these people wanted to suck the very life from my bones to fulfill some need they had!! i found my happiness again after shedding the DEAD weight that kept me down and very unhappy. it was hard accepting the fact that these "friendships" were nothing more than emotional vampirism. |
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