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we've been together about 9 months. im in school, and i just got the email. this is so depressing. |
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YOU GOT AN E-MAIL!? where does she live? doesn't she have a telephone at least!? |
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ouch, that sucks man |
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I feel your pain. Give me a call and we can go have a few drinks.. |
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she lives about 2000 miles away, actually |
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but she could've phoned you, couldn't she? I mean, through e-mail, thats not nice at all.. |
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EMAIL ??? That's so unbelievably cowardly. At least she could have told you to her face. Oh wait no then she would have to explain why and she probably doesn't have a valid reason. grr |
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seems like they seldom do, huh? :/ |
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shit man... what said the e-mail??? im with u roygbiv... :( |
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mother fucking girls and their e-mail you write them something simple, they don't respond and you get offended this one broke up with you with it though? I'd burn her house down |
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* i don't condon house burning |
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hummm i have to agree e-mail ?!?!? i think you should call her if you want a full explaination. if NOT, well guess you should just accept her decision and move on. |
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Oh no, now BlatantEcho knows and his preconceptions about love are crushed! It's too late to cover his fragile ears. wink wink P.S. Send her an e-card. yes. |
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was therre a rreason that you know off like some guy, coz i'll help you open a can off whup-ass on him if you want. |
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NO SHIT!!!!! mother fucker, man, burn it to the ground |
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saw his head off with a rusty bike chain |
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that's too bad... definitely call her and ask for an explanation so you know why... |
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I'll poo on him *sticking to charracterr* |
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I'm sorry Nigel. That's pretty low of her. I've been in a similar position, only it was over the phone. But that's not as bad as an email. How cowardly. |
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the worst part is the pain doesn't go away till you find another girl :( buck up though m8, call her and tell her off, plain and simple Don't give in either. Even if she was all confused and shit, and didn't mean it, fuck her, you don't need someone to fuck with you like that. You're missing out on other girls. Call her, see why, and don't ever fucking talk to her again, you don't deserve that. No one does. |
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btw......all this girl bashing is NOT cool. we don't know the circumstances of what happened and why (and i for one don't want to know details) but it takes two to tango and UN-tango.....so lets give both parties the benefit of the doubt!! i wish you good luck nigel, and just an fyi - if you don't want it to remain a EMAIL thingy, call her.....or tell her you'll only talk to her about it on the phone. otherwise you two will be sending emails back and forth and that IS not a good thing. |
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HOSTILITY! careful......you were 'in love' just a few moments ago, there's no reason to diss his gf, things may work out |
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I'm lucky...I usually am the bastard that breaks up... |
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girls ARE a pain in the ass though, you have to admit!! ;) |
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i like it... the bitch |
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thats true, LeCoeur, but using e-mail just is NOT right. |
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you're prolly right, but I've been there too, and I hated that pain so much, it just breaks your insides into pieces. I won't ever let a girl do that too me. I'm not into letting a girl appolgize for breaking up/breaking your heart with an e-mail, them claiming to love you the next day. Happened to me: while she was fucking a kid accross the hall........ :( worst pain ever, get your answers, and move on. Sorry about being a jerk about it, I like girls |
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Go Blatant!!! "the worst part is the pain doesn't go away till you find another girl" yeah and until then you live in total agony. girls are both evil and sublime damn you ! |
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girrls arre grreat when u rr getting to know them, then they all go all bitchy and selfish, as you can tell i am verry bitterr. |
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Check this then man. My ex after breaking up with me waited about 2 weeks and then practically moved in with one of my housemates living less than 2 metres down the corridor (and yes the walls were thin). Tactful huh ? |
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Nigel: I feel for you mate, the same happened to me 2 weeks ago with my gf of 3 years (well, it would of been 3 years tonight...). Still, at least I got a phone call telling me to check my email for the details. My advice? If you really value her friendship- and don't want to just stay friends for the possibility of going back out- keep it civil. Over time you'll hopefully learn to just be friends. I'm hoping it'll work out this way with my ex as I really enjoy her company. If on the other hand, you did just see her as a girlfriend rather than a proper mate (no shame in that - I've done that before...) don't bother to hold back. Don't be cruel for the sake of it, but don't have any qualms in telling her how you feel about the way she treated you. I hope you're alright and as much of a cliche as it is, time does heal. Lecoeur: I see little evidence of "girl bashing" merely the bashing of the actions of a girl which is a different matter entirely. |
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give me a girl and I'll bash her good!!! ;) |
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HOLY FUCKING SHIT, honestly, that is suicide territory, I would have killed flat mate, screamed at her, then slit my wrists that would have killed :( I'm sorry m8.... sad 500th post too |
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guys are JUST as big a pain in the ass. no gender has a corner on that market! Q - EMAIL is totally wrong (however i happen to know a lil more about this relationship, started on-line, long distance, etc... and i have to say i'm not too surprised, but i don't think it was the right thing to do AT ALL). sometime tho, when on-line communication or phone communication breaks down, writing a letter or in this day and age an email is the best way to express your feelings. i just hope that he gets the answers he needs via the phone. Echo...hate to break it to you dood, but you'll prolly get hurt A LOT through your lifetime, from all kinds of relationships, it's part of life. the difference is how you handle it and yourself, i say learn and NOT be bitter about things.....what does being bitter get you......NOWHERE! |
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Shit, sorry lecoeur I retract that last statement, I hadn't noticed what Bile said. I think he was trying to inject some humour to lessen the blow. I don't think it was a serious jibe at the fairer sex. |
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hehe I know, I was only kidding... |
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I never had a gf, things like this are such a turnoff to relationships. Anyway, cheer up bro. |
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well, what I did once to express my feelings to a girl was I wrote a letter, and read it to her over the phone... |
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I'm not bitter anymore, I know what you mean, but the pain is a reminder. I now can really only accept a girl simply saying, listen, things have been great, but this doesn't work for me anymore. Moving on is fine, abandoning someone, via e-mail, or anyway, is low low low, and that pain festers, and bottles up. I've always been the guy to just shut up and take it, but you got to tell her how much it hurts, just so you know she knows. Be honest, don't be a prick, just be honest. Hopefully it won't build inside you till you break :( thoughts are with you man, take care. |
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yeah, I agree with Ceri here, I don't think anyone is hating on girls, just the actions of this particular one, many of us can relate :( |
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Plus I did fucking nothing. I just tried my best to ignore them while trying to cope with my intestines perpetually being shreaded and my heart just .. not being there. Oh and typically there was no good reason for the break-up too and being stupid fucker I am I fall in love WAY too easily so pain gets squared. Bitch. |
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my mate was going out with a girrl and she stopped talking to him and ignorring him, then one night at a parrty he walked in on herr kissing this otherr lad. the werre two of my best frriends at the time so it was harrd, and i think shes grreat i love herr to death but when it comes to guys i don't mind saying she is a bitch. shes one of them people who has to have the exitment of going out with someone renued all the time, and she can neverr not be going out with someone, yet she herrself can't handle getting dumped. |
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Aw... What does she think she is? Dumping you via E-mail?? that's the most (errr...) chickenish thing i've ever heard! But I'm sure that the reason was something other than another guy... I bet she blamed the distance betwean you, right? Long distance relationships simply don't work out at this age. Go get yoursef a nice looking local rebound and have a good time... That will definently get you throug this more efficently than other methods (at least those I've tryed). |
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holy hell man :( at least I didn't know the dood she was fucking. Man, this turned into a sob fest. you sound like you deserve a fine girl TonyFish, i hope you get her soon. |
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what I said? what're you talking about? |
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got one 'bout 2months ago. not entirely sure about her though. Oh well I need the company at any rate. |
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no worries Ceri, but it's not just whats said on this particular thread that makes me say what i said! this MB is predominately male, so therefore it's from THAT point of view that ideas are expressed and shared. i just want to give a FEMALE perspective because i have some experience with that, and some guys are WAY WAY WAY off base with girls. again.....very rarely does it just come down to ONE person doing something that leads to a break up. and i can tell you that COMMUNICATION is a major component to lots of break ups. i think the fact that she send an EMAIL is very telling (and cowardly). tells me that communication has broken down completely.....and thats a serious problem. i have a long distance relationship, and we stuggle with communication issues, and we have just committed to making this relationship work! it's not impossible, just requires more work than an easier local relationship. but for me it's more rewarding, and very much worth it to me! |
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O go away LeCoeur this is a bash girrls thrread we don't need yourr kind rround herre. jk |
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Damn right. Communication is critical and I have yet to find someone who subscribes to this on the same level as I do. I envy you. |
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you should write a weekly xltronic advice column. that is good stuff |
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