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"seems like they seldom do, huh? :/" Like I said though, I assume it wasn't a nasty jibe at womankind in general... |
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i know what you mean about communication. it's kinda funny that (gf/bf's) have to have discussions on communication every few weeks, because it's easy to fall into old patterns and let things slide. thats why it's SO HARD. i am an extrovert, does that mean i'm a good communicator....NO....i thought so but my bf tells me that i gloss over things so as not to deal with issues. and i admit it's true. it's that kind of HONESTY that helps someone grow and learn and make relationships (all kinds) better. i have to thank him for that! =0) echo.....you're too funny. =0) i just want all the GUYS here to realize the other gender's perspectives. it's important because so many here think the wrong thing, and that kind of thinking will keep them dateless and complaining about girls....when it's really THEIR problem, not the girls. |
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I was replying to someone's comment, "and she probably doesn't have a valid reason" Been there myself several times, so I was just agreeing with him. it wasn't an insult to any women at all, at least I hadn't intended it to seem that way if it did |
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hey straight up lecoeur were all real similar right |
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girls can be evil bitches guys can be evil bastards its more a human trait then a gender trait. |
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i'm sorry, i guess i didn't specify. i was in a hurry. i know why she broke up with me, it's my fault. at least in her eyes. it's really fucked up. i was about to break up with her anyways, because lately we fight too much, get offended really easily, and it just wasn't making me happy any more. thanks for your concern. i've actually been thinking about this for a while. there's this other girl in one of my classes i like alot, i think i'm going to start working on a mix tape for her tonight i think. in class i had my head phones and i let her listen to vsnares-dance like you're selling nails. and she dug it. which is a good sign. i just want to say that this wasn't out of no where, she gave me the reasons. and i do still want to be friends (this is how it started anyways). i don't think you guys were very fair to her, but it's probably my fault anyways. |
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When I first met my wife, before I even started dating her, I gave her my favorite mix tape that I had lying in my car. I asked her about it later and she said she loved it! I thought that was A-OK. After we had been married for about 5 years I found out she was really just kidding and didn't like it much at all. It's just a big joke between us now but secretly I wonder if she really was just after the green card ... :^) So the moral of the story is "If you want to give the Creator a good laugh tell It your future." |
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so sadly no beat on the girlfrriend stealerr. |
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you didn't tell us much of the story, but everyone backed you up anyway. Seems you sorted things out though, good luck with the new girl, hope you're still friends with the old moonlight |
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thanks |
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i just told my mom over the phone, that was really hard. i think she was about to cry :/ |
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ow.. |
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Just do what I do... never make an attempt to be with the opposite sex, never develop crushes, and breakups will be few, far between, and easy. |
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i havent had a gf either, but relationships can be unpredictable. it's probably not even your fault, nigel. |
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eh.. not to be callus but if you've only known her 9 months and she lived 2000 miles away... you are probably better off. |
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"gloss over things" You're one of those?DIE BITCH DIE! Just Kidding ;) My current gf does that. Funny you should mention bi-weekly discussions on communication cos that's exactly what I've just been doing!!! Plus she's greek so you can image all the fucking cultural differences we get. Jeez... |
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"Just do what I do... never make an attempt to be with the opposite sex, never develop crushes, and breakups will be few, far between, and easy" But still, even when your dealing with that, you still go through breakups with your friends.... Loss is a part of life. I had a four year friendship, with my best friend. We used to do everything and have some real fun times. We even collaberated and were trying to push the music we made.... I went on vacation.. (the whole summer) and came back.. and my friend changed so much.. I hardly knew who he was anymore (Although this is the over simplified version of what happend). My friend lost his motivation... became rude and unpleasant.. it was really shocking... but... thats life. Words were exchanged... I made a make shift contract that basically said all the tunes we copyrighted together.. were seperate (what I made is mine, what he made is his) I got my equiment back... and that was that. Kinda sad that a friendship ended like that. Makes me very leary when I am starting new friendships.. thats life though... its all about dealing with loss, and overcoming it... learning from it... and trying to be a good hearted person... |
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once again, as a general rule: don't a trust a girl who tells you she likes autechre or venetian snares on the first listen. she's lying to you. |
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Any loss is hard to deal with... its what you learn from it, and finding a positive way to cope thats important. I am full of cheese tonight baby! oooo yaa! |
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I hope no one's actually buying into LeCoeur's feminist propaganda! Women are conceited and shallow and want nothing more than to eat your heart raw. I used to be a good old fashioned lover boy until I was trampled to death by my Venus in furs. If you want a guide on how women should be treated, watch a Nelly video or read the old testament - That's the real stuff before God softened up and started emphasizing all this man-woman equality garbage.. Since I changed my ways I've literally had flocks of women. If there's a girl I like I don't pass by and say something hokey like "Are those shoulder blades or wing stubs?", I walk right up and punch her in the ear as hard as I can -- They fucking love that! I challenge anyone here that's Man enough to try some of my suggestions. Your luck will change overnight, I guarantee it.. As for LeCoeur, shave your armpits and keep your opinions and petty convictions to yourself. |
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Wow that was inspirational. |
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Strong Bad rules. been going to that site for about a year now, hillarious stuff... love your new avatar ;) |
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being safe does not a life make......it makes you a prisoner of life cos you're trying to control your emotions. you have to take the UPS and DOWNS.....the good and bad.....the richer the poorer =0).....otherwise you're just moving through life like a ghost......sounds intensely sad and lonely! |
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sorry to change the topc but ok listen to this girl dilema. To make it short Would you give your virginity to someone who wasen't you bf/ gf? Im a senior in hs, virgin, but this girl, hottest girl in school imo and my friends opnion and she want's to get down and dirty, so im not sure if i should seal the deal. But really, how many chances will i have to get a girl this hot ya know? *sigh* descions descions!! |
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Long Distance relationships are usually no good. Sure, those 9 months you probably enjoyed, but there'll be someone else. I'm sure you'll enjoy a more closer relationship. |
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I'll say this uber simply, if you haven't had sex up till now, even with a girlfriend, why the hell would you even consider it with a causual girl you barely know? If your looking for some conquest, well, whatever, but if you aren't taxing ass now with a person you really care about, why start with someone who barely knows your name? |
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Exactly! Now please, kill me! GGGawwwaaththghgh!!!! And Cabbog, that was the funniest thing I ever read, heh. |
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sounds intensely sad and lonely welcome to my world! |
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i agree completely |
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Yeah Like i've been with girls before, just not sex, and im debating wether i should take it there. Like she's all about it, and her being REALLY REALLY hot dosent help so im so confused, she is dumb as wood but i duno, ahhhhhhhh! please more people give me ur input |
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i don't wanna jack this thread m8, start a new one. |
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OK sorry. =) |
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You only live once. I think you should do something with her beforehand and then make the decision. Who knows it might lead to a relationship, but then again it just sounds like the run-of-the-mill slut. I may be wrong....I may be right, but like you said an oppurtunity likes this might not come along again. |
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echo is giving you some good advice! just ask yourself why you're asking for advice....i think because you already know the answer, but need to be reassured. so consider this reassurment. =0) you first time should be with someone who cares about you and vice versa....imagine if you were so nervous you couldn't 'get.....' that wouldn't matter to someone who cared about you, but someone who doesn't.....YIPES....i'd be careful!!! |
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hehehe careful with your suppositions about long distance relationships......they can be great!! i see lots of comments about this, i wonder how many have actually had one? |
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cabbogg: hahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha!!!!! |
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