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the point is; I don't care about the girl, what I feel sorry is that this guy treated me this bad, and ruined my new years eve. The girl and I was just playing with eachother, but I had no hopes for a future for us (e.g. we live far away, remember I'm in LKPG now, not in Skövde, where I live), I just wanted to have fun on new years eve. I'm not so upset about someone ruining new years eve for me anymore, this is more about being treated like I and our friendship does not exist. He behaved bad on different levels... |
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I wouldent worry about it then. People do stupid things when they're drunk and blokes get twice as horny =o) |
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that post made me smile :D |
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thank christ, i thought i wasnt helping! ;) |
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shut up princo 8op |
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*releases the hounds on pOgO* muahhahahahahaahahhhhhh Bo) |
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*released charlie on the hounds* |
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:D |
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hey key_secret / just forget about all that shit / or / start planning a revenge on that stupid guy I will soon post my party pics / maybe that will cheer you up |
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Sorry. I don't want to meet him, atleast not for a long while, and I will never trust him (like friends do) again. If he had said he was sorry or something I might have considered forgiving him - but he hasn't. The thing is, after the girl and I had made out in the hall we went back into the appartment and I sat in the chair next to hers. Most people had left by then, and I was waiting for him to leave so I could get into action with this girl. Then he starts to massage her, and I am confused. And later they get into action and all that. This whole thing turns me off, I don't want to be with a girl like that. But the thing is, I wouldn't know about her being a person like this, if he hadn't started hitting on her (which he wasn't suppose to do, since she was already 'mine' for the night). And it would be a great ending of a great new years eve party. The thing is, he knew we had made out, and why not leave us alone then? To me this is not different from stealing someones girlfriend, when considering our relationship (friendship). So please notice that this is about him betraying me, about our friendship, not about the girl. The friend and I had known eachother for more than 10 years... |
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ouch... she's a slut... damn |
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You should have told this girl that she belonged to you...maybe next time if you make some big ass stickers to stick of females that are 'yours' it won't happen again? I dunno how he betrayed you. If he was just doing it for kicks then he was out of order, but if he genuinely likes this girl then you should just be happy for him and accept he did something for her that you didn't. |
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Plus by the sounds of things he did you a favour. |
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I shall try to forget... for sure. yeah post them partypics! I will post some of mine later... The girl treated me like I didn't have any value, so I don't like her. But the guy treated me equally (and it was he who started it) bad, and we had a history, which he treated like it had no value at all. I can't be friends with such an aphaetic person. As I wrote earlier he has brought me down before, e.g. on new years eve 2002-2003 when I told him not to invite a certain group of girls to the party we was at (he didn't know the host, but I did) - and still he does. That ruined the new years eve party that night (I don't like them girls). |
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This shit is what real life is like. When you are pissed at parties most people aren't looking for meaningful relationships, they are just looking for a bit of fun...maybe you were reading too much into the situation. Especially to still be pised off about it a couple of days later. |
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bouth of us met this girl for the 1st time at this party, she was a friend of the host's girlfriend. In fact, we had earlier spoken about the girls on the party and he was interested in another girl than I was (but he couldn't get her). I don't think he did me a favour. I would have much rather have fun with her during the night, then spend the night in another room feeling crushed. They bouth treated me like I and our previous experiences together had no value. But a 10-yearold friendship should have some value. If he had asked me if it was ok for him to get on with the girl, I would have said no. And if he had said he was sorry, things would be different. |
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pOgO says smoke dope ! |
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ecandnairb agrees ! |
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I've had it happen to me once in the past...I know how much it can crush at the time, but you are best just getting on with it. The lad who died in with the girl I liked was better looking than me and I just had to accept it. After I finished being mad though, to show there were no hard feelings, I went to his funeral. >D |
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died? freudian slip...should have said dived. |
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Thank you for posting, I sortof agree with you. Though normally I don't hit on girls for fun... maybe you were reading too much into the situation. the whole situation is him treating me like I and our friendship didn't mean anything. He knew that I was happy in the (at then) current situation, so why would he want to destroy that? I know he's egoistic, but this is crazy. How can he hurt a friend he's known for 10 years and be happy with himself? Perhaps it may seem like I am overreacting, but as I said he's done stuff to piss me off before, and this time I'm not going to take it (he's never apologized before either). |
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haha I am going to sound big headed again here, but I know for a fact that although my mate is better looking than me he is very very insecure, and that is why he did it. I don't talk to him as much these days but we still have a laugh when we are in the same place. |
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yeah I had better get on with with my life, next time I get into a situation like this I will have to make the girl 'mine', for real. But I will not accept him as a friend (atleast not until he apologizes, which I assume he won't cause it's been days since this happened). Also the thing is, I am more attractive than this guy (the girl hit on me to begin with, so she did pick me... actually I rarely hit on girls just for fun, but if a girl wanna have fun, I don't mind joining in, if we bouth agree on it being just for fun)... Also it's been several mounths since I had fun with a girl before this, and he knew that. |
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You should have sparked this lad at the party then. I would've done...what is a party without at least one fight :P! |
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I am kinda insecure, so I get happy when girls hit on me (especially when they make it so obviously). |
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yeah I would have loved that. And it's a great way to get away with your agression (I would probably feel better now if I had beat him up), but the girls had to spend the night there so I couldn't make everybody feel awkward... |
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Go round and uck your mates mum then. Give him a little brother as a reminder of your hate. |
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maybe someone else--I didn't know everybody at the party--would have taken this girl from me (I must admit I need to be better at making girls 'mine', that was a good tip) - but the thing is I would really be angry with that person then... |
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hehe. yeah if I get my revenge in the future, it would be the groove. Cause he's not emphatic, so he'll never feel sorry for this, so revenge is the only way. But it might take some time... Also note that this group of friends, as I call them, are my old friends from my birthtown, where my parents live. I just see them a couple of times each year since I study in another town 200km away. |
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Although I appriciate all posts in this topic, in the end I think you, ecnadniarb, cheered me up the most. I feel a lot less stressed right now, and I've realized there are things I can learn from this situation (and improve myself). And finally, I cannot be friend with a person who doesn't treat me as a friend (the least, the very least he could do, is to apologize, and he hasn't). And I must just make sure I enjoy myself at the next party I'm at. wooo! thanks everybody! if anyone else want to comment, please do. |
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