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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 06:48 [#00559669]
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i agree with marlowe, this whole sex issue is WAY over-hyped... i know plenty of guys (myself included) who get the crap-end of the stick from girls ALL THE TIME... and i know plenty of girls who are the ones trying to be players and doing their black magic on guys... it's not a sex issue, it's a nice people vs. nasty people issue.
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neetta
from Finland on 2003-02-18 06:52 [#00559675]
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yeah well i'm the last person to mind gender.. anyways the gender attack isn't pointed towards me this time (or so i believe). it just happens that the PERSON i am involved with doesn't show respect.
i'm kinda edgy when it comes to this gender thing. many people take me for lesbian feminist for saying gender has no meaning.. aren't people just stupid.
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2003-02-18 06:54 [#00559682]
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I'm anti-gender AND anti-sexuality. If I see a man and find him sexually/physically/mentally attractive, then so be it--his gender doesn't come into it.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 06:57 [#00559685]
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i hate the sexual stereotypes on television... they love the "war of the sexes" thing... only difference is now it's the WIFE telling the HUSBAND to get in that kitchen and "cook mah dinna!"
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2003-02-18 06:58 [#00559688]
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yeah--cynical role-reversal so we're meant to believe that the companies are hip and liberal. I noticed a new trend of retro-ads too, which reinfoced the gender stereotype whilst pretending to be ironic. Makes a person want to puKe.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2003-02-18 07:00 [#00559691]
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A loner is someone who has no friends =o(
I'm a loner........ it's great =oD
And your right........ men realy don't have a clue !!
There are a few good men out there but most of the time it's not worth expecting anything romantic, which sux cause I love romance !
Most men think that romance means lots of money and big gestures which is just true. Anything that shows that they've been thinking about you is enough..... for me anyway =oD
I don't expect diamonds......... but I wouldent say no if they were offerd to me! all we realy want is to rule the world be treated with some respect and feel special to you guys out there
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2003-02-18 07:01 [#00559696]
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Diamonds are dirty. They have a heritage of slavery abuse and death behind them. I would never sink so low as to offer a woman diamonds. Plus, they're a cliché.
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DJ Xammax
from not America on 2003-02-18 07:06 [#00559705]
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Diamonds are forever.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:06 [#00559708]
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yeah, once again i agree with marlowe... in order to have a TRUE relationship, you need to forget your "role" as it's been taught to you by your mommies and daddies... women should NOT expect big rings, should NOT expect a guy who will be their man-servant, should NOT expect a guy to be their entire life... they SHOULD expect a guy to be warm, caring, supportive, understanding, listening, romantic, open and honest (funny doesn't hurt, i found, either). no one deserves any more or any less.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2003-02-18 07:06 [#00559709]
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but they're so sparkley !!!!!
I don't like the realy big ones though. I bought my mum a really nice diamond ring for xmas 2001. The diamond was so small I had to look for it on the ring and show her where it was ! You can see it sparkle in the light though =oD
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2003-02-18 07:08 [#00559711]
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When I am moved my a person, I will pour my soul into verse. They always fall for that one...I mean, they always appreciate the uniqueness.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:12 [#00559717]
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hahahahahahahaha... yeah they do, i mean... um, i love being so sincere and sensitive as a man *cough*
just kidding, ladies.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2003-02-18 07:12 [#00559719]
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that's true, I.E: It's the thought that counts... as long as the thought is about me =oD
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:13 [#00559720]
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in the immortal words of jon lovitz:
YEAH! THAT'S THE TICKET!!!!!!!!!
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 07:22 [#00559731]
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Respect is imo a basic to a relationship. Without respect there's no love.
I think the 'Feelings inc.' thing is a matter of communication. Talking a lot on what you expect, what you feel, ... can help you a lot further. But without trust & respect you won't open up yourself to tell your deepest thought and feelings. It's maybe a cliché but it worked for me.
If only they didn't have a problem with my urge to intensity.
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od_step_cloak
from Pleth (Australia) on 2003-02-18 07:23 [#00559734]
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Yeah the girl I went ot valentine's day night with disapperared off with another bloke.
there's a few more details but that's what happened
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2003-02-18 07:25 [#00559740]
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Communication is a key aspect of any relationship. Once you stop communicating, you might as well call it a day.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:28 [#00559752]
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cloak, sorry to hear that... i was alone as well (as usual)... harrisburg, pa isn't exactly "enlightened artsy-girl" central...
more like "bad photocopy of britney spears" central.
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od_step_cloak
from Pleth (Australia) on 2003-02-18 07:30 [#00559755]
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hehe other details:
*we're only friends, even though she knows i like her. which is ok
*i think the dude she went off with was one of her friends
*i had disappeared in the noise out the front with some other people when she left, i don't blame her for not finding me
funny how these things can be twisted, huh
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:32 [#00559758]
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hahahahahahaha what?!? ok, that's not so "awie, cloak" now... sucks that she doesn't dig you back, dude. i know how it is. happened plenty of times to me. oh, wow... now i feel bad because maybe i really DID have the crappiest valentine's day....
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 07:32 [#00559759]
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I think we're talkin' about a global problem here, Tibbar. :-)
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:33 [#00559763]
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hahahahahahaha good point, kill switch
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:38 [#00559774]
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hey, i was tricked... i thought this thread was about that david bowie song "boys"... boo hoo, i cry.
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od_step_cloak
from Pleth (Australia) on 2003-02-18 07:39 [#00559777]
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Yeah oh well, she's weird, offered me sex as a bday present and never delivered.....
I might send her a message asking about my belated bday prez tonight when i'm off the net. haha
:):)
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Zombiekev
from Ardmore (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:39 [#00559778]
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i only make friends with girls. they are easier to get along with and they listen.
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 07:45 [#00559789]
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Same here, Zombiekev. And I find it frustrating that most people don't believe that 'just' friendship between a girl & a boy is possible.
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Zombiekev
from Ardmore (United States) on 2003-02-18 07:49 [#00559797]
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i have more 'girl' friends than anything else
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USACID
from Death Valley (Zambia) on 2003-02-18 07:54 [#00559807]
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i dunno if its been said earlier....the door swings both ways.
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 07:58 [#00559813]
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I have more cd's. :-) Among my friends, there's only one guy. I don't know why, but is so much easier to being yourself around girls.
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bill_hicks
from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-02-18 08:05 [#00559822]
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people will start talking. Get some guy friends. Go and watch the football.
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 08:21 [#00559843]
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I dont mind people talking
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weatheredstoner
from same shit babes. (United States) on 2003-02-18 08:22 [#00559848]
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CANT WOMEN REALIZE THAT MEN USE LOGIC!?!?!
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-02-18 09:01 [#00559911]
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I use cubase. :-)
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2003-02-18 09:14 [#00559932]
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eh? What post are you reacting to? I've been misunderstood methinks...
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2003-02-18 11:27 [#00560145]
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Diamonds are forever... but tommorow never dies
*plays james bond theme*
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-02-18 11:28 [#00560147]
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hahahahaha hey mickey, from russia with love, buddy!
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Mickey Mouse
from The Moon on 2003-02-18 11:43 [#00560160]
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Word up Tibbar
Keep rockin it in russia, ninja style!
I guess I'll die another day
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