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offline stefano_azevedo from Pindorama (Brazil) on 2007-05-24 17:44 [#02087291]
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i want to understand


 

offline darkpromenade from Australia on 2007-05-24 17:49 [#02087293]
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They find you frustrating and disagree with your ideas.


 

offline ijonspeches from 109P/Swift-Tuttle on 2007-05-24 18:18 [#02087297]
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no you dont,

if you would then the universe would have lost its great
mystery
and would simply collapse...



 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2007-05-24 18:31 [#02087300]
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Women like to talk... the more you talk, the more likely you
are to argue, especially with someone who doesn't like to
talk (eg, a man)


 

offline oxygenfad from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2007-05-24 19:33 [#02087305]
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Cause you didn`t clean the bathroom


 

offline hedphukkerr from mathbotton (United States) on 2007-05-24 20:06 [#02087311]
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because no matter how right you are, they never think they
are in the wrong.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2007-05-24 20:13 [#02087314]
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Because they're god damned bitches who deserve to die.


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2007-05-24 20:52 [#02087326]
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twat


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2007-05-24 20:59 [#02087329]
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Oops, humanity came out of our vaginas.

Yeah, we forgive you... not.


 

offline OK on 2007-05-24 22:07 [#02087333]
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cus that's the way they deal with shit.


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2007-05-24 22:48 [#02087336]
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why do men argue


 

offline binyamin on 2007-05-25 06:27 [#02087417]
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heh heh look its donald trump


 

offline earthleakage from tell the world you're winning on 2007-05-25 06:50 [#02087424]
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no its not


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-25 07:25 [#02087437]
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Because they get bored. Ever noticed how if your
relationship is going too well for too long they start an
argument just so you can go through the kiss and make up
process so they can know where they stand. It's a game they
play.


 

offline marlowe from Antarctica on 2007-05-25 07:26 [#02087439]
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"they"


 

offline _gvarek_ from next to you (Poland) on 2007-05-25 07:46 [#02087452]
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dip your balls...


 

offline zero-cool on 2007-05-25 07:47 [#02087454]
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...in there anus

or punch their face


 

offline paul8088 from United States on 2007-05-25 08:03 [#02087462]
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it is just what they do

and sometimes I like to fight back, just for fun


 

offline stefano_azevedo from Pindorama (Brazil) on 2007-05-25 08:46 [#02087477]
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yours was my favorite answer


 

offline nano from Malmö (Sweden) on 2007-05-25 12:03 [#02087573]
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They are unhappy with their lives and take it out on us men.
Ignore it, its the only way.

What have you done for me lately?


 

offline freqy on 2007-05-25 13:40 [#02087592]
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They live in bubbles.


 

offline OK on 2007-05-25 13:45 [#02087594]
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there was this therapist on the radio the other day, he was
explaining that men deal with their problems isolating
themselves, and women by means of conversation. he also said
that men think before they speak and that women talk and
think after. imo that's about right.


 

offline trentee from Berlin (Germany) on 2007-05-25 17:14 [#02087630]
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'coz receiving anal is very painful for them.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2007-05-27 16:42 [#02088146]
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I just ignore them when they argue. I reckon about 9 times
out of 10 their motivation is looking for a fight/drama,
rather than actually arguing (in the "actually debating
something" sense of the word). I normally just say, "yeah,
I'm bored now." and walk off, half way through them
speaking.

Evolutionary biologists generally agree that women argue,
nag, start fights, have neurosis, are needy, etc. because it
serves an evolutionary purpose: Most men fall for it and
stick around and try to fix the problem (even if in reality,
the problem is invented/only in the woman's head). This
encourages the situation of the man "looking after" the
woman and also being around more/spending more time with
her, which means generally the children are more likely to
get 2 parents raising them and hence have a better chance of
survival.

Of course, in the modern world, more and more men are
inclined to act in a selfish (in a good way) manner and just
up sticks and leave. The evolutionary tendency away from
this behaviour won't catch up for ages. Personally, when
these things arise, they tend to make me just become
emotionally detached (gf refers to it as "becoming Mr.
Frosty") and I go off out until she has calmed down or, if I
want to do something in the house, send her to her mother's.


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 04:53 [#02088226]
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If a woman fancies you, they're incredibly easy to
manipulate. But if you fancy them more than they fancy you,
they will crush you - and there is nothing your intellect
can do about it.


 

offline goat boy on 2007-05-28 04:54 [#02088227]
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They don't argue after you kill them.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2007-05-28 04:57 [#02088228]
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I hope you're not serious...


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2007-05-28 05:05 [#02088229]
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I will trade you 3 grams of my flesh for your birthday, the
ocean, and the letter 'q'.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2007-05-28 05:08 [#02088230]
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Hello, I am the Noid.


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offline Brisk from selling smack at the orphanage on 2007-05-28 05:08 [#02088231]
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That post was gold, especially the last sentence. Thanks for
that :-)


 

offline trentee from Berlin (Germany) on 2007-05-28 05:13 [#02088234]
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This is terryfying, because you and her play some kind of
"roles in a drama" all the time! What is the point to be
together, then? To "play" Mr. and Mrs.? This is kind of
infantile "Let's play adults" game :D


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2007-05-28 05:28 [#02088236]
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Women over 40 who have spent their lives clubbing and acting
like a suburban Tara Reid are as empty and annoying as real
teenagers, but no longer have the perfect body. They are
actually quite creepy and pathetic...especially when they
still think they deserve a rich guy.


 

offline uzim on 2007-05-28 05:35 [#02088239]
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fucking hell
i hope for you that you're not all serious...


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 05:44 [#02088246]
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Trentree, that's all it is - a game of psychological
advantage.

Does love exist? Or is there only desire? A relationship
seems to be you give me what I want and I'll give you what
you want. The minute one stops giving the other what they
want, love quickly turns to hate. There is a constant battle
every day, am I giving her what she wants, is she giving me
what I want etc., so I question if love exists at all, or is
it a figment of the imagination brought on by insecurity and
desire.

Show me someone who loves and doesn't want a thing in return
for it.


 

offline sneakattack on 2007-05-28 05:45 [#02088247]
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I have always been more prone to argue than my girlfriends;
they've always been more collected than I. I'm going to
work really hard on being more tolerant, controlled.


 

offline sneakattack on 2007-05-28 05:45 [#02088248]
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makes me want to puke too.


 

offline unabomber from Palma de Mallorca (Spain) on 2007-05-28 05:56 [#02088256]
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If u have to ask, then....


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2007-05-28 05:56 [#02088258]
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i agree. that sounds pretty sick. and i don't know what's
worse: ignoring her, or the rationalizing it by way of
scientific mumbo jumbo. it must be a pretty healthy way of
looking at life. science over relationships. right.

all imo, of course.


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 05:59 [#02088259]
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Men have it more right than women. Women add so much
emotional garbage - like romanticism. Utterly preposterous.
Another ridiculous, competitive demand - get it wrong and
you're history. Is that love? I think not.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2007-05-28 06:00 [#02088260]
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Of course love exists, what are you on?


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 06:01 [#02088264]
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What's your definition of love?


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2007-05-28 06:02 [#02088265]
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please don't


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 06:02 [#02088266]
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ha ha


 

offline Phresch from fucking Trondheim (Norway) on 2007-05-28 06:05 [#02088268]
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can i recommend this?


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offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2007-05-28 06:07 [#02088272]
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Written by a bald fraudster.


 

offline goDel from ɐpʎǝx (Seychelles) on 2007-05-28 06:08 [#02088275]
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yes, dr phil, you may


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2007-05-28 06:37 [#02088292]
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Didnt he play HANK on the Larry Sanders show?


 

offline trentee from Berlin (Germany) on 2007-05-28 06:53 [#02088301]
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bet his willy' huge, tho'


 

offline trentee from Berlin (Germany) on 2007-05-28 06:53 [#02088302]
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and it's "trentee".


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2007-05-28 07:50 [#02088307]
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I’m seeking a like-minded woman to share a disastrous 3-9
month relationship with, ending in acrimony, emotional
chaos, and possibly legal proceedings.

My name is Lloyd, I live in Chicago , I’m 27 years old,
fairly well educated, I hold down a good job and am pretty
stable. I’m told I’m fairly good looking, but I’ll let
you be the judge of that - I’m generally caring and very
honest.

I am looking for an attractive female who will at first give
me obsessive love, praise and devotion - but whose paranoia,
self-loathing and fear of rejection and abandonment will
eventually lead her to alternately push me away and pull me
closer in a love/hate cycle that will lead to infidelity,
consensual sexual violence, and the eventual emotional
breakdown of one or other party - or if we’re lucky -
both!

You should:

* be 20 to 35 years old;
* have a history of short, intense, drama-driven
relationships;
* enjoy degrading and dehumanizing sex;
* have undergone negative psychiatric evaluations in the
past; and
* be willing to threaten self-harm and/or annihilation as a
weapon to control your partner and make them stay with you
and care for you.

Although not completely necessary, I would prefer women:

* with nice smiles;
* that have larger than average breasts;
* who are married or already in unstable relationships;
* that drink to forget; and
* who have had a previous established diagnosis of
Borderline or Dependent Personality Disorder or Bi-Polar
Affective Disorder - or who are currently taking Lithium
Carbonate, SSRIs, or Tri-cyclic antidepressants

If you think you meet these requirements (and wow, I’m
getting excited just writing them!), please


 


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