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Why does everybody always insist on people "sharing" their feelings with others? There seems to be a lot more dignity in keeping certain things to yourself. Everytime I've ever really told someone how I felt or something important from my past or whatever, I didn't feel better, I just felt embarrased or even ashamed. There's something very noble about not burdening others with your problems. |
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I see you have failed to follow your own advice. |
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i once had sex with a man in a bush,never ever told anybody |
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shit........ |
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it doesn't seem like you really believe any of this stuff swears |
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yes i do |
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HEY |
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i dont bottle up many of feelings, i wear my feelings on the outside usually, but if im ever having a bad day i write gew backwards on my foreheard w/a magic marker, look in the mirror and kill myself |
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lol |
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You a Stoic are you? Marcus Aurelius "Get rid of the judgement ... get rid of the 'I am hurt,' you are rid of the hurt itself." ... "Nothing happens to any man which he is not formed by nature to bear." I think the origins of the philosophy date back to Zeno in the 90s. The 290s. |
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I had heard the term "stoic", but I wasn't a aware it was an old-school greek posse. |
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yeah, sure, exposing yourself puts you in a state where you're open to blows, but that just makes not receiving the blow (or rather receiving the thing you were hoping for) have a larger impact than it would otherwise. sometimes you have to risk to gain or whatever. |
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very true. it doesn't help letting it all out. |
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You love the answer |
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the people with whom your spend time... you can choose how to be but not how is the people..soo....you know... |
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swears, you are turning into a monoid. |
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it depends also on the person u r talking to |
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According to some medical research or other men only share their problems as a last resort, when they really desperately need help. Women are more inclined to share their problems straight away, before exhausting their own ability to deal with it. They reckon the higher male rate of suicide may be at least partly due to this. I agree there is something noble (and distinctly old school) about not banging on about every little problem you have. It's called Stoicism and it's something I admire. |
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Swears = |
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hey. (see how awesome my photoshop skills are) |
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Monoid read the thread and cried |
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As with anything, it depends on the situation. There are times for keeping feelings in and times for letting them out. And as was already said, for certain things you aren't going to get very far if you keep all your feelings inside and stuff, like relationships, etc. Sometimes you need to take risks to get anything worthwhile. |
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