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Just been out to a club tonight. Didn't feel like I fitted in at all. It felt really weird, the DJ was playing loads of awesome 75-85 funk and disco and nobody gave a shit, you could tell that if he'd dropped The Artic Monkeys or something the crowd would have gone wild. I am particularly worried because girls' personalities seem a million miles away and I am probably going to die single. :( Lots of gormless bastards with gelled hair in Crosshatch tops getting off with all the fit girls, most of them were even uglier than me. Oh well. |
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oh well...time does not exist try to rule this enjoying and a very big ass strong ans sweeteable* girl will come to you in a way you does not imagine-cos your mind is litttle worries about yr bosy,THE SEXand it,tricks you on,telling that you will never enjoy her body. calm down,the moment will come when it got to do it. meanwhile...you know..enjoy the thread posts- |
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and pos t something that makes you be. -now i go to meditate about it.i think im wrong*maybe... |
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isn't gonna happen |
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then it will not be.you choose. nobody can makes your life,nobody but you!,and ya got style. and we are about 9 thousand millions on the globe..yess...make it good!!..you need to enjoy some Marx bros film* |
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oh well |
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you will find a nice woman....just give it time |
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I'm 23, with all the girls I've been out with, I had to act like a completely different person. I don't think it's gonna happen for me. |
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Have you tried online dating? It kinda elimates all the bullshit of seeing if you have something in common with a girl before you even talk to her. Clubs are shit for gf's. |
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Get a ticket to Amsterdam a fist full of cash and get in line with the other geezers. |
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i recommend that you come to america, i think you'd fit in well |
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Why do so little girls like IDM? |
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mimi is a hottie swears |
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yeah, America. See, you live in krypton now swears. Your accent has no powers, but in a America you could be superman. |
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Hmmm. Well, its kind of a cliche, but if you act different than yourself around girls, the girls that you hook up with will be ones that you need to act differently around. Act yourself around them, and thats the personally that they will be attracted to. |
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It sounds like music that is made by people who sit in front of a computer all day, and thats not what most girls are into. |
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I think mimi is taking the piss and thinks I'd fit in in "redneck Bush's america" 'cause I'm such a prick or something. I can't really imagine getting along with a girl now, all they care about is Heat magazine bollocks or if they're really cool, chart indie bands. |
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yes, you have to be exactly like the person you are going to have a relationship with. avoid the cliches. |
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I'm not saying that, but I can't relate to girls at all. |
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hey hey can you relate? |
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mimi wants you dude |
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We all have moments like that. The thing to remember is that there will only be certain types of people going to things like that, there are plenty of other people out there who would be much more suited to you, but they are found in different places. There are lots of people who enjoy going out to clubs, listeing to crap music, celebrity gossip, big brother and all that crap. There are also goths who do kinda the opposite and then there are people in between and then some others. Basically there are tons of girls you will like, but perhaps not in that club/scene. Also sometimes you go to places and the majority of the people you don't like, and the cool people are rendered undetectable, sort of diluted, but I'm sure they are there. My advice, for what it's worth is: Be yourself, but be flexible, its all about give and take, just remember to be ultimately yourself. If they don't like you, that's their problem. (unless of course you are a complete dick! ) Don't give up. There are some excellent people out there. It's amazing how often they are right under your nose, just keep at it man. I dunno if you are like your internet persona, but I would suggest that you smile and be positive. It's far to easy to be negative and put people down, etc but being positive will get you everywhere. |
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Just do the opposite of your initial judgement like Gorge from Sienfeld. |
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haha that episode was awesome. |
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i still suck at life tho |
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me too so we're many then |
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Maybe I should get a nose job: |
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yeah, i can. that's why i lose myself in booze and drrugs. i love booze and i love drrugs. you can tell sometimes when i'm online. |
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ofcource you can't relate to women, you are a man!! "mars and venus" |
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Do you base your self-esteem on how you fit in to the majority or something? You said you suck at life, when it just seems that you have preferences which are not shared by the majority and this negatively affects how you see yourself. I just warp the majority I'm with into seeing things my way and hitching a lift onto the trails of my energy - it works very well for me and the other people seem to get a kick out of it. |
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I would just like the world to suck a little less, that's all. |
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Well I guess you have two options - accept the world sucks and enjoy yourself within your own niche, or change the world into something which you think sucks less. There's little to be gained from getting depressed and down about it, whichever way you go. |
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a) I don't have a niche. b) and I obviously can't change the world. |
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I don't think being defeatist is going to help your situation. You're alive and evidently unhappy with your place in the world - so change it, it's certainly not impossible - baby-step your way to happiness and contentment, you can do it. |
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If all else fails, you might want to try the 'hatred' mode where you give off a huge vibe that basically tells women "i don't fucking need you, worthless stupid cunts". Because women can smell desperation a mile away. When they realize a man has NO interest in them whatsoever - it makes them more interested in the man. They start questioning themselves like "does he not think i'm pretty? Am I just too shallow for him?" and it really starts to drive them nuts. Before they know it all they can think about is the asshole at the club who blew them off. |
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Yeah, tried it. But that only works with women you socialize with, not randoms. |
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I can't think of any girls I knew that were aware of menswe@r 15 or so years ago, so good luck to you. |
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Wow, I certainly wouldn't want to catch a woman's attention in such a negative fashion. That was really quite a depressing read. |
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? No, I had a little girlfriend about ten years ago that was into them. She was a keeper, but I fucked it up. |
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masturbate before you go out. |
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Like I said. Last resort :) |
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I think Hatred is the wrong word, indifference is a better word. Get piss drunk, dance your ass off, mock the girls in a playfull manner, be loud and annoying, then the pussy will come to you |
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I dunno if that would work for me. I feel like Larry David in "Curb Your Enthusiasm", trying to be gregarious just backfires and offends people. |
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It works for me! |
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But he's an exaggeration of himself. Just avoid going to clubs where you don't feel comfortable - they are evidently damaging your sense of self-worth. |
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