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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:14 [#01920772]
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I'm 19, I look 14.
Perhaps I'm like that dude who's 50 (has that rare condition) where his body doesn't grow, and he looks like a child still, yet an adults mind.
My looks really ruin my life... Girls my age will turn off on me a split second from looking at me cos' I look 14, which is totally understandable, but I have no way to combat that.
So, the result is... Loner, No girlfriend, No sex, No social acceptance with females my own age.
And even if i *think* of going out with a younger girl, I'll get called a "pedophile" and all that shit.
Yeah, what a shit situation I'm in.
sorry to ramble.
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staz
on 2006-06-15 17:16 [#01920773]
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if you can buy beer, it's all good
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:21 [#01920774]
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I cant buy beer without ID, I look 14/15 years old.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 17:21 [#01920775]
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date rape
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 17:22 [#01920776]
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what? who said that?
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:22 [#01920777]
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I think I might have a condition. When I was younger I had loads of tests and stuff.. I can't remember much, but it was really shit cos I kept having to go to the doctor and taking pills.
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staz
on 2006-06-15 17:23 [#01920778]
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just use an ID then, what's the problem?
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Combo
from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:25 [#01920779]
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I am 21, look 21 and don't have sex, and I guess I'm OK.
Anyway could u post a pic of you for us to judge what age you look like ?
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:26 [#01920780]
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Because they think in their minds that I'm 14 REALLY.
I went to college a year ago, and this girl who ws 16, just did not believe that I was 18, and treated me as I looked, which was 14, and still is 14.
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:27 [#01920781]
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I look a bit like my avatar, without the pony tails and the big eyes.
Joking.. I'll see if I can find one.
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Ophecks
from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2006-06-15 17:34 [#01920782]
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How big are you, physically?
I feel for you. Nobody believes I'm 23, but you've got it really bad.
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 17:36 [#01920783]
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pics plz
and if you put on a schoolboy uniform and pose a bit me and Goran will send some money your way
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2006-06-15 17:36 [#01920784]
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hey thats a bit of a bummer. i know its easy to say but try not to get too down about it. i used to know a kid the same age as me and at 18 he still looked 13 but he seemed to cope with it ok. but then i didnt know him that well. i guess. oh i dunno. cheer up chuck :)
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:42 [#01920788]
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I have had a bit of a shit life really, bullied, no friend in middle school// infact all my friends hates me cos they were the ones to actully bully me, so i had to find new ones.
Anyway, I have never had a girlfriend, and I only had my first kiss up til I was 18 where I met this girl (16) and i had sex with her 3 times, fri,sat,sunday, then broke up with her on monday.
I never came once, and I didn't even like the sex.
She turned on me anyway, and had (what it seemed) a split personality.
Since then i've been pretty put off on sex, although I need some.
I also have this really wierd chest thing, and it's really not attractive... I think something is seriously wrong with my growth genes.
Anyway.. thanks for the replies... just wanted to type it out.
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:44 [#01920791]
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I'm 5'8.. I started puberty really late, and i have a slight mistache now with some hair on my chin... guess puberty really fucked up on me eh.
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hobbes
from age on 2006-06-15 17:46 [#01920792]
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you'll be a sexy old man. grannies will love you.
on a sidenote: not all women are the cliché ridden things you have to put up with in your age group. i honestly wouldn't let it put you down or the dogs will be able to sense it.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 17:47 [#01920794]
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i thought you were gonna say like 5'
5'8 is fine!
all i can suggest is to imagine how you want to look and become that person in your mind. people respond well to confidence; especially when they're not expecting it.
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cygnus
from nowhere and everyplace on 2006-06-15 17:48 [#01920795]
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sounds like a personal problem to me
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i_x_ten
from arsemuncher on 2006-06-15 17:49 [#01920796]
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if you've just got bum fluffy facial hair, get rid of it. it really will make you look like someone younger trying to look older.
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Combo
from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:51 [#01920798]
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I you wanna talk to a man that never had a girlfriend, never had sex and never even kiss a girl, I am your man.
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:51 [#01920799]
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Yeah you're right.. you only portray what you want.
Anyway, thanks again for your comments.
I think that I didn't cum was because the situation was really fucking akwad, and I only met the girl the night before..
I got really confused though, it was such a long time after that I had sex, and the same messages kept running through my head like "Oh Dude, when you have sex for the first time, you ejaculate straight away".. I swear, most of the shit out there is just wrong.
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 17:55 [#01920801]
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It also pisses mee of the fact that people constantly say "oh wait, wait wait.. it'll be so much more special".. They are the ones who fucking had sex earlier, and believe that if they chose a different decision then it would have been better, but i say bollucks to that... I wish I had fucked my teacher in school way way back.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 17:56 [#01920803]
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the promise never lives up
life lesson 118
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 17:58 [#01920806]
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pics pics pics
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Combo
from Sex on 2006-06-15 17:59 [#01920809]
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pics, please
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 18:00 [#01920812]
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yeah pics
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 18:01 [#01920813]
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i need to go to bed. i won't wait long!
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Combo
from Sex on 2006-06-15 18:02 [#01920815]
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me too, it's 2am here
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elusive
from detroit (United States) on 2006-06-15 18:02 [#01920816]
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im 23 and i cant even grow a full thick beard yet
and im losing my hair
wtf that's like, 2 complete polar opposites
double you tee eff, m8!!!
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:03 [#01920817]
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beards seem to be disappearing from the human race
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:03 [#01920818]
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people with beards are also fat
they die first if we crash into an island out in the sea and polar bears attack
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Combo
from Sex on 2006-06-15 18:04 [#01920819]
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even for muslims ?
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 18:06 [#01920820]
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i'll wait 4 more minutes
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2006-06-15 18:09 [#01920822]
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yes and italians
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-15 18:11 [#01920823]
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ok i'm off. can't wait any longer. time is money!
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 18:13 [#01920826]
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sorry, my ftp is being shit, and i got work tommrow, ill take a pic of me tommrow, cos' the only pics i have of me were a year ago, and they were blury.
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bogala
from NYC (United States) on 2006-06-15 18:17 [#01920834]
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IF I could not cum that wold be great. Not cumming is hard for some people. Count your blessings.
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exsub
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-15 18:23 [#01920835]
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Not cumming is shit, because I couldn't cum.. I did not have an orgasm.
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elusive
from detroit (United States) on 2006-06-16 01:34 [#01920888]
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i've been there before, m8. relax
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Falito
from Balenciaga on 2006-06-16 01:45 [#01920892]
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the beauty is inside,belive in you and woman comes and fuck
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LuminousAphid
from home (United States) on 2006-06-16 01:54 [#01920896]
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even if you think it will work better for you, don't go for younger girls. most of them really act like it, i've found... i met a couple of high-school aged girls through work (i'm 19, they're both 17), hung out with them for a couple weeks on and off, and then realized that i hate hanging out with them. i just can't handle all the teenage drama and "look at me i have so many friends" attitude that's encouraged in that age group.
that's my small piece of advice. not that i should be giving any, i'm still in big V status like combo there. although i have had a girlfriend...
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J198
from Maastricht (Netherlands, The) on 2006-06-16 01:59 [#01920898]
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i'm 25 and look 17ish i suppose. I really fucking hate it as well.
No beard either.
'ONE DAY THIS WILL TURN OUT TO BE A MAJOR ADVANTAGE' is what people always say, regarding the 'looking young' thing.
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welt
on 2006-06-16 03:12 [#01920922]
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maybe work on your STYLE. clothing style etc. if u dont dress (and act) like a 14 year old, people wont think you are. plus girls like stylish persons. not exagerrated, forced stylish of course. get help from a girl whos intelligent and into fashion.
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WooferAttack
from Milano (Italy) on 2006-06-16 03:20 [#01920924]
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I'm 33, I look 21, and I'm very very HAPPY
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Exaph
from United Kingdom on 2006-06-16 04:02 [#01920936]
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this will work out for you as u get older anyway.
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Toejam
from Perth (Australia) on 2006-06-16 04:22 [#01920947]
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finally! someone who is in the exact same situation as me :D
trust me, exsub, i know exactly how you feel. i turned 18 in january this year, and (yes its true) people think i look 13-14 as well :(
I'm the same as you, haven't really had much of a 'social' life, i keep to myself really, never really hit puberty as much as normal people do either.
i was always really depressed and i wasn't an active kid - i could never play sports, got tired quickly and stuff.
so eventually i realised something must be wrong with my genes/DNA whatever. and then early 2006 (yep, just this year), i had some blood tests done. after being hospitalised for 5 days, they finally diagnosed me as having coeliac disease (or 'celiac' as alternative spelling). it basically means that because i'm hugely allergic to wheat products - man's staple food, especially these days - a reaction occurred from the toxic 'gluten' component and resulted in my body being SEVERLY MALNOURISHED!
That's why i've always been really thin/pale/short etc. Even in 6 months life has improved both physically and psychologically - i'm not so depressed anymore, have more confidence, and i'm 'developing' a bit faster now (though i'm still WAY behind either 18 year olds).
So yeah man, YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE! And its fucking difficult. It really is. People give me shit about it all the time, sometimes I've been close to suicidal.....
But yeah, get some blood tests done for sure. Or at least I would if i were you - in my case, this could've been fixed years ago, if i knew about it :(
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Ezkerraldean
from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-06-16 04:26 [#01920950]
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im 18, people say i look 30. scary.
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Raz0rBlade_uk
on 2006-06-16 04:27 [#01920952]
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jesus.
i think i look my age
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Ezkerraldean
from the lowest common denominator (United Kingdom) on 2006-06-16 04:30 [#01920956]
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no, i dont look like jesus, although i am white and most trashy american films show him as white
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Toejam
from Perth (Australia) on 2006-06-16 04:36 [#01920964]
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haha
:)
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