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A friend and I were walking down the road and we saw one of my friend's friends who apparently doesn't like me. My friend and him had some friendly banter for a few moments before we walked on. That sprung a conversation in which my friend revealed that he's noticed people are naturally inclined to dislike me. He said that a lot of his friends, after meeting me, have said they don't like me. Some say they think I'm an asshole, others think I'm pathetic (which is the case with the instance that triggered this thread). Looking back on meeting these people, I have only acted in ways that divert attention from myself, or that I thought did so. I acknowledge that I have an odd personality, and that I might not fit in with a lot of people... One of my friends (of 3) says that I act "defeated", which I think is the truest assessment. I don't know. I've always thought people were naturally inclined to dislike me, but I thought it was mostly paranoia; apparently it wasn't. I definately need to train more in charisma *mopes* |
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this might be insulting to monoid... |
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actually, it could be quite a self-esteem boost. |
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I've always thought people were naturally inclined to dislike me, but I thought it was mostly paranoia; apparently it wasn't. Ha! I found that out too. But, well, what can you do. I don't like most other people so I guess it's fair. |
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yeah, I rationalize it similarly...it's mostly troublesome though. |
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you some have friends, and they're friends enough to tell you people dislike you and you act defeated. they're honest to you and thats the best sign in a friend. i'm sure you've heard this before but all you can do is be yourself, if you act different to make friends its not really real and people don't like a pretentious phony. |
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the instance in which my friend told me people dislike me was a rare moment of honesty on his part. The very fact that he noticed it is amazing, since in order for him to process any sort of observable phenomenon, it has to happen a lot, which tells me this is a greater issue than I may have previously thought. I do have one good friend though, thankfully. |
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Frightening, I must ask someone if this is also paranoia in my case. |
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Yeah, I can somewhat relate to this. I too try not to draw attention to myself, I'm not remotely offensive to anyone, near as I can tell, yet I seem to rub many people the wrong way. I make a bad first impression. Hey, I guess I act and look like a ghoul, what can you do? I don't take it personally. I'm extremely reserved and most people don't want to mingle with people like me (the feeling is of course soooo mutual). Can't relate to the ''asshole'' thing, though. I think people just get a certain polarizing vibe from me. Why would they think you're an asshole, in your opinion? Smarmy remarks, caustic 'tude, or what? |
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When people meet me, they think I'm really arrogant, initially. It's not until they get to know me that they realise that I'm actually really shy, which is why I don't really talk to a lot of people if I don't know them. So I guess I'm in a similar-ish boat to yourself.. |
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well i usually don't give good first impressions, but past that i believe I have some charm. |
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ask me |
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At least people think somethink of you... You're lucky. People don't even think about me. =| |
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monoid doesnt have 3 friends though |
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doesn't sound too good... = ( but frankly it's really rude of them to say that you're "pathetic" or "an asshole", even if they didn't say it directly to you. i don't know... i don't really know either how others perceive me; i think i'm the "quite nice, but not very talkative, nor attractive, nor interesting" kind. i could be wrong. |
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right well,not sure what to say. i love you all,your all wellcome to uncle hanals house. apart from moniod. |
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a night filled with kebabs, stella and masuimi max. sounds good! and it's good to see monoid in wikipedia too: Monoid Jump to: navigation, search In abstract algebra, a branch of mathematics, a monoid is an algebraic structure with a single, associative binary operation and an identity element. In other words, it is a unital semigroup. Contents 1 Definition 2 Examples 3 Properties 4 Monoid homomorphisms 5 Relation to category theory [edit] Definition A monoid is a set M with binary operation * : M × M ? M, obeying the following axioms: Associativity: for all a, b, c in M, (a*b)*c = a*(b*c) Identity element: there exists an element e in M, such that for all a in M, a*e = e*a = a. One often sees the additional axiom Closure: for all a, b in M, a*b is in M though, strictly speaking, this isn't necessary as it is implied by the notion of a binary operation. Alternatively, a monoid is a semigroup with an identity element. A monoid satisfies all the axioms of a group with the exception of having inverses. A monoid with inverses is the same thing as a group. A monoid whose operation is commutative is called a commutative monoid (or, less commonly, an abelian monoid). [edit] Examples Every singleton set {x} gives rise to a one-element (trivial) monoid. For fixed x this monoid is unique, since the monoid axioms require that x*x = x in this case. Every group is a monoid and every abelian group a commutative monoid. Every semilattice is an idempotent commutative monoid. Any semigroup S may be turned into a monoid simply by adjoining an element e not in S and defining ee = e and es = s = se for all s ? S. The natural numbers, N, form a commutative monoid under addition (identity element zero), or multiplication (identity element one). The elements of any unital ring, with addition or multiplication as the operation. |
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and dont forget the music sir-we could have a dj-off. |
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After a little thought, I don't want to know the truth. |
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No one gives a f**k about me. No one cares if my children starve, if they're on welfare. I have to support my children. I need more money |
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you dont have to |
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Eat your kids and stop your fucking whinging you CUNT. |
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for a moment there you were allmost funny. but your right ,no one gives a fuck about you. |
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I really want a kebab now, after seeing your avatar. I don't think there are any kebab shops in Plymouth. Well not that I know of. On the plus side, I'll be getting some kebab of the "badly packed" variety tomorrow. |
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the later sounds good. |
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It will be, but for now I will venture into town on my skateboard for some regular kebab action. Wish me luck! |
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GOOD LUCK SIR!!!!!! |
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Sometimes you guys have no pride, so no matter what I say, you guys ... it doesn't affect you because you don't care about nothing. So every now and then I kick your fucking ass and stomp on you and put some kind of pain and inflict some of the pain on you because you deserve to feel the pain that I feel. |
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now that was funny,well done. |
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yeah, maybe you arre just one of them people. |
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i have no idea what people think of me. not much i wouldn't think. i'm neitherr herre norr therre |
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i love you. |
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IM HAVING FISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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I'll be honest... i could go for some fish just not yet. noooooooooooot yeeeeeeeeeeeet yeet? |
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go for the salmon! ..or the red ones... |
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oh, btw I found this |
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i avoided this thread until now since i thought it was about monoid. at xltronic i've been told i should die, that i'm a stupid idiot, a twat, that i'm thought of as an elderly lesbian aunt, and that i should be banned, and only a couple of those were from dog_belch. so i guess you could say i rub some people the wrong way. you seem like a fine chap to me, scup. what's most important is that you like yourself. if you're not happy with some elements, realize that you're happy with others. some elements can be changed, if you want to change them. |
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hahaah that big ol panders is gonna snack on little girl happyness! :D When we have salmon my mom has this mustard sauce deal that she coats one side with and then we grill it. It is good times inside my mouth |
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there's this awesome fish dish thingie I make from time to time.. you need 5kgs of large-grained sea salt, one large trout or salmon, lots of goodies to put inside the fish and all the stuff you usually eat with fish. pour parts of the salt out on one of those plates you put in the oven so that it covers it. put the fish on top (keep head and tail on if possible). put goodies inside fish where the guts used to be. cover fish completely with the rest of the salt (if the head or tail sticks out from the salt it doesn't matter as you're not eating that anyway.. you're just keeping it on to keep goodness inside). put it in the oven (around 200 degrees celsius) until the salt is a hard shell and the fish is ready (when the meat "lets go" of the bone.. just chop a small hole near the spine of the fish and check.. it shouldn't take more than an hour or so). when it's finished, chop up the salt and eat the fish! |
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hahahahaha! le toe de camel! |
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Sometimes I think "Why do I bother, what's the point of all this, why don't I just jack it all in?" and then I remember, Plaidzebra has yet to be vanquished. |
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if you need something to live for, i'm there for you old pal. can we arrange for a deathbed vanquishing though? i've got a lot of vanquishing to do myself. |
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i was waiting forr it |
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why is it that picturres like that just make you fucking LONG to see the girrl and herr gash prroperrly. if i had just one wish now, that'd prrobably be it, it's drriving me crrazy. |
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likewise. |
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sorry, had to go.. |
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i like you man |
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aw thanks, I like you too |
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your real and the the people that dont like you from judging you from first is fake |
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