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how do one recognioze it? |
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Do you see Monoid when you look in the mirror? |
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when you make a thread about it lol |
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you basically have to ask other people. |
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do you have a livejournal? |
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like who? |
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phobiazero. |
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yes. ask phobiazero. |
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phobiazero, could you please answer this? thank you dearly. |
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do you wear a studded belt and a pair of converse allstars and have a lip piercing? |
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I'm sure we all pity ourselves, it's just that most of us know not to vocalize it. |
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even michale jackson? |
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self-pity is feeling sorry for yourself, right? so if something bad happens to you, it's pretty natural to feel bad about it to an extent. but if you just feel sorry for yourself "a lot" or "all the time", it becomes self-defeating and negative. |
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yes, even phobiazero. |
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maybe i should start writing it down and see where do i fit :) |
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oh? what can furer be sorry about? |
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just don't you dare start unloading your personal problems off on me ;) |
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is a little self-pity a good thing? or just a natural thing? |
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example A: "oh, my cat just died in a horrible boating accident! this is totally beat. i feel sad about this but i'll get over it pretty soon because it's just a fucking kitty." <--- this is OK. example B: "oh, i just got a pimple and now my life is over! i hate myself and here comes the knife... oh." <--- BAD! |
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that didn't cross my mind, though now you mention it.. maybe i should bump this when monoid comes online..i bet he'd share good advice.. |
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that's pretty graphic..but not everything looks that easy :) |
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there's really no black and white answer. it's totally subjective - how much is too much depends on each person and each situation. |
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so it's normal to feel a bit sorry for yourself when everything, and i mean everything goes wrong for you? |
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if you don't feel a bit sorry for yourself in that situation, there would be something terribly wrong with you. it's perfectly healthy. just don't let it turn you into a wreck. |
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sure, but don't let it take over. do something about the stuff that goes wrong. |
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ahaha "just don't let it turn you into a wreck. " i entered that phase couple of years ago :D |
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i am, but it just takes so freakin' long..jav |
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LOL |
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